I see a lot of guys, believing they are doing everything right, come here looking for advice on how to get their wife to have more sex only to get scolded by this community. Maybe you can do better and you definitely need to hear that. Two things outside of RP concepts you also need to consider is if your wife is on antidepressants and/or has low testosterone. Trying to get a woman to engage more with sex while on antidepressants or with insufficient testosterone is a no win situation regardless of your frame and overall alphaness.

The science backs this up but anecdotally I can tell you without antidepressants sex went from once a week to 4-5 times a week. With optimized hormones sex happens nearly everyday, sometimes twice a day.

What I’m saying is sometimes it’s not you, it’s her.