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I can't quite describe it, like she's looking into me and says: "Thank you Daddy." ahhhh...... If you didn't get hard right then, you're doing something wrong. Wtf - NEVER in the past would I get anything like this. Of course you haven't. Don't act all surprised when your frame and mental models are accepted. This is respect. having been my focus for the week. Women fill the container provided. Until now, your container has had no frame. Now, it's actively building one by your actions and shutti…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/26 02:07 PM
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This is the story of your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/26 05:04 PM
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LOL private training. Sure, outsource the research and hard work to someone else to hold you hand on how to pick up heavy shit and put it back down again. Can't be bothered to read on recommended workouts, watch some youtube videos, and try. What a fucking loser.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/26 03:38 PM
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So you jackoff, watch porn, got fat, sit in front of a computer all day, have no friends..... and won't take basic advice and join a gym. And tell us how you will not do that... yet. Just gotta wait. Oh, but you will hopefully go to the gym in 2 weeks. This is the story of your life you fucking loser.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/26 01:58 AM
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Doesn't matter, had sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/26 01:49 AM
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Horns said to someone else about looking at your wife and sending the energy of her being your most prized possession. I'm not sure if this is to advanced for me yet, but I have to imagine the dark and miserable energy I've exuded her way over years have helped sculpt this mess I'm in. At minimum I think cutting out the negativity and bringing lightness will help. You were enervating. (great J10 comment there) Bringing that Daddy energy literally removes the negativity and judgement.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/26 07:28 PM
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Currently in one of the longest dry spells currently, nearly 3 weeks which is unusual. More soft rejections this week. Trying to not let it get to me. Refuse to masturbate, the pent up energy is good. However it is strange to me, her energy in the last 3-4 weeks has been more naggy, shit testy, and less fun. She slips in and out of this mood. And in this period is the least sex we’ve ever had. Last night in bed before we went to sleep I initiated and I could tell she internally felt like she wan…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/26 07:25 PM
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Then why not just reframe it and fuck your wife how you would another woman? It's just a vagina dude. It's not magically gonna make you cum.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/26 07:20 PM
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Guys with sisters know what i am talking about. That Daddy energy is amazing and just so happens it is highly attractive from a capable, masculine man. Being a bitch? It's ok, sweetheart. Butthurt you didn't hug her before you left and launched some shit test? It's ok, sweetheart. I laugh. Its like a teenager yelling at someone who knows better. He doesn't say anything, but they know. Because when she comes to bed, I know. She knows. Daddy knows best. It's all silly. How can I get angry when I k…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/26 08:57 PM
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Why are you too weak?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/26 07:15 PM
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Well, over a decade of seeing dudes here that claim their wife is BP, about 90% of them are just.... shitty men. And eventually they see that. I think you are having cognitive dissonance about your marriage because deep down - your wife is pretty, and only dips below your lower average of what you can pull "when ahe is bipolar". I think you dont know how to handle women, and that causes you to act like a woman, all angry and judgemental and pissy like a teenager, and your wife responds in a "bip…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/26 07:09 PM
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Your dick being consistently wet is not an excuse to be lazy.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/26 05:22 PM
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Man, fuck it.... I'm just gonna say it. I seriously doubt your wife is bipolar. You are the bipolar one, yet project it on her. Your delusions are what makes you think she's behaving this way, and influence her behavior to deal with you.... when it is actually you.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/26 05:19 PM
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huge shame for me is PE Shut the fuck up.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/26 01:57 PM
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Don't want to send you into a tailspin, but sometimes the fantasies we generate in our head due to our own lack of abundance internally, and unable to execute on them in a meaningful way, often causes one to miss and ignore the reality right in front of them. Doesn't mean you should change everything when realizing it, but perhaps realizing it is what matters. That is what I have consistently seen here.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/26 12:24 PM
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This week I STFU and paid attention to whether or not I was removing my own judgement It's harder than I thought. You have 3 boys, so I can underatand why you think this is hard. And, I am going to guess you have no close sisters either. It is easy. Now is your chance to be Daddy. Imagine how non-judgemental he is. Then bring those same vibes to your woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/26 11:04 AM
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MRP: What do you want? OP: A prettier girl. My wife is ugly. MRP: OK. Why are we still talking about this? Finally.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/26 12:11 AM
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Then make a decision already and quit wasting your own time. Do or do not.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/26 07:53 PM
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> drive to reconcile is coming purely from the desire to give my kids a normal nuclear family. There’s no real desire to have a relationship with my ex. You keep vaguely talking about this week to week. Is there more to this than you are admitting? What do you want?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/26 03:35 PM
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I was caught myself building full sexual scenarios in my head When it does I push back that thought, I do something to distract myself, book, bike, go for a run. This is so fucking weak. Instead of mentally masturbating about sexual scenarios, you could just.... do something about it instead of run away like a bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/26 08:00 PM
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"You're not saying anything. Why aren't you talking like a normal person?" Usually I would chuckle and remain STFU. Learning: I don't think this is about spending more time together. I believe she is asking me to lead and provide an escape from (even though we are on vacation) the day-to-day grind Converting dread into desire So you are finally STFU to a retard degree and it isn't so retarded is it? It just feels retarded because you aren't normal. Yet. As an exercise, next time you are shutting…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/26 11:17 AM
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Lil bit of fake it til ya make it isnt a bad thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/26 08:00 PM
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You don't necessarily have to learn to fuck for the right reasons. It doesn't have to be "genuine desire". It doesn't have to be because she needs comfort. It doesn't have to be for any reason at all, but you must stop fucking for the wrong reasons. Because if you went out to play Dentist for a night, you'd fall flat on your fucking face. Not because you aren't attractive. Not because you don't have game. But because you would be doing it for the wrong reasons, women read right through it, and y…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/26 04:06 PM
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I watched him do it once. Playfully, sexual, and witty he suggests early in the night that the first girl that follows him into the bathroom gets to have her tonsils checked for free. It was akin to throwing a hail mary pass at the beginning of the game that would stay up in the air lingering for the entire night of gaming. He'd call back to it sometimes, with just a wink and "Need to go use the restroom". He told me later that one married chick isolated him and said "you haven't been to the res…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/26 06:09 PM
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You're welcome.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/26 02:15 PM
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You are in the right place. I could have written much of this a decade ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/26 01:07 AM
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I'm keeping up my flirty and sexual attitude with everyone and getting positive responses among friend groups. I'm getting more and more curious about a couple of the girls I used to coach with a guy who, when divorced a decade ago and taking the "I'm a friendly and sexual guy" mindset, ended up with a harem of secret women. They knew where he stood, and kept a gentleman never tells approach. Women lined up in secret, and still do, to bang this guy. He tells me most are married, and there are ci…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/26 09:07 PM
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The success of your leadership is not entirely based on whether she follows. I like this.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/26 03:16 PM
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Good. If it's any conciliation, you're not a unique kind of guy who arrives here. Pretty easy to spot and you either drop the ego or you get banned because you're butthurt. You're still here. Some guys arrive here with the opposite problem you have. They aren't gigantic pussies, they drop the ego quickly, sidebar, and before you know it their attractiveness is lagging behind their mindsets. That was me. I was way ahead mentally and dropped the ego to blaze a trail. I "got it". My body just had t…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/26 01:52 PM
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The way to get over the resentment for every covert contract you haven't had fulfilled is simple. You must shift your mental point of origin. All those things? It is a gift. And you'll continue to give it. Until you don't. And what's that gift? You. I explored this mental model in the praise and compliments should be worthless to you, which coincidentally will help you directly with never getting attaboys or praise. I rarely if ever hear anything also. It's just the way some women work. The take…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/26 06:00 PM
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Guys like this dude and most guys with retard surface knowledge of it understand dread entirely, completely wrong. Imagine a woman, who knows the cash a d prozes are there. And you tell her. But she doesn't want to lose you. But most of you are walking around tolerating blatant lack of respect and have shitty visions and are lazy... so yeah. You arent wrong.... with you.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/26 09:42 PM
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The bitch was raggin' and you're upset with her emotional mouth noises after you poked the bitch. Some of you are fucking hopeless.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/26 03:18 PM
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using humor as a way of avoiding talking about and asking for what I really want Pretty common here. Initiations: you're not that funny.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/26 03:12 PM
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Glad you can see it. Since you can, here's a preview of what's to come: It's going to get harder to STFU. As the gap widens between the actions you're taking to become more attractive in general, and the one's your wife isn't, that will create emotional turmoil (dread) in women (naturally) and you can expect the shit-tests to ramp up to epic levels, and if you stay on the path and pass them, the likelihood of using the only tool in her toolbelt left is high. That means you're gonna be fuckin' so…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/26 03:08 PM
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At first it didn't seem like anything changed, but my wife started following suit and getting shit done too. Don't let her actions deter you from your plan. She's dead, remember. At least for a while as you find your newfound confidence in executing the go plan should you need to. Decent OYS dude, and good on you for realizing the complacency for sex. Just as your woman followed your lead in the getting shit done, she will do the same with sex. Let that be a reminder of your complacency when you…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/26 01:55 PM
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I told him last october: No one here will give you quality advice until your weight is in the 200s. He weighed less then. 367.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/26 01:52 PM
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No, I mean that you've replaced the kino, kisses, hugs, and neediness with the words that are coming out of your mouth. Before, your wife was annoyed, not even engaging with the kino because it was needy. “Give me 30 minutes to relax now that the kids are in bed.” “Yes, I don’t like it when you tell me what to do. It doesn’t resonate with me.” “You’re always thinking about sex” “No, I spat it out on you.” She rolls her eyes. She protests “actually it’s mine”. Her response: "I can't. her response…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/26 01:49 PM
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Most women would in fact not want to have the children of a needy 380lbs fatass either.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/26 11:51 AM
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This is sad. You took our feedback about the annoying needy kino, and instead chose to do the same exact thing but with your mouth. You know... there's a difference between LMR and consistent, repeated annoyance.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/26 11:49 AM
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This OYS could be written by my wife while she is raggin'
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/26 01:58 AM
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It is not your job to mategaurd. It is hers.
/r/askMRP19/06/26 12:23 PM
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It made sense at the time because you're a fucking retard. Next time you want to open that little gaymouth of yours, imagine a dick being slid into it. Because whatever is gonna come out of your mouth, is in fact, gay.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/26 04:21 PM
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occasionally checked it out the weakness got much worse, so I skipped another week. Don't want to have sex with my wife except for blowjobs (too low energy). Without lifting, my libido is very low. The relationship improved sharply, and so did the sex (until I got sick and stopped going to the gym). Of course you don't understand. It'd require you to do something more than halfassed.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/26 04:20 PM
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Youre a fucking idiot but its ok. "I am going to bed. Shut up, no more talking" .... proceeds to text her back. What fucking context do you need? This was some retard move, and youre taking it as "upholding a boundary". Those mental gymnastics are impressively retarded. If you tell a bitch to stfu what'd you expect? Compliance? For you? Jfc
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/26 11:41 PM
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You didn't uphold the boundary despite what you are telling yourself. You failed the shit test. Quit lying to yourself. This was not a boundary. It was you telling her to stfu, and making rules along the way... and then you break it. Fuck you dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/26 11:31 PM
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Man, it must suck to be you. Knowing what the answer is but you're too lazy.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/26 07:12 PM
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It's less about viewing it as practice, and more about viewing it as "I'm just a friendly, sexualized man. What's wrong with that?". Almost everyone I hang with knows this about me. I'm unabashed with who I am. I have countless examples of saying sexualized stupid things to women who respond well because.... I'm a man who fucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/26 03:31 PM
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What was this boundary you upheld? I ask because in the beginning to mid stages of my journey, I got alot of this. When women don't get their way they act like.... women.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/26 03:09 PM
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I am finding it's getting easier, but also when the girl is really hot, I find myself getting intimidated which tells me that there is some type of expectation there even if I am telling myself there's not. I want to let you in on a secret. If she doesn't matter, it doesn't matter. And in most all of these situations, what do you have to lose? You're just practicing. Nothing more, nothing less, catch and release. It's when your head gets in the way with "what if" that it's intimidating. Nothing …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/26 03:08 PM
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It’s been over two weeks of me stopping initiating why she’s not trying to fuck me!? Now she also didn’t initiate sex and it’s been almost 3 weeks that im still not a guy who deserves to get fucked First of all, deserve's got nothing to do with it. What a bitch thought process. No one owes you shit. Second, if you expect your woman to act like a man, you'd be better off just going gay. You'll get more sex that way.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/26 02:50 PM
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Welcome to Ramboville, population: you. We all visit here, just don't stay too long. You're on #6 OYS. You probably feel like you have a year under your belt. You do not. As you said: what the fuck I’m actually supposed to do. STFU, lift and read the sidebar? Well yes, I’m doing that, it’s early days still. Although I’ve been lifting for a year and had read some books pre-MRP, I’m still a noob with this stuff. The thing is, the only thing that's going to change your mind about this is sustained …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/26 02:45 PM
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sure, why the fuck not.
/r/askMRP15/06/26 07:36 PM
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You're a telletubby. Stop eating.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/26 11:21 PM
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There's nothing to think about. This shit is in your head.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/26 11:15 PM
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Here's a thought. Maybe the slut came out for a bit to encourage you to step up and make good sex your responsibility.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/26 01:49 PM
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Cool. So she wasn't wrong when she said: Can you not just ...... without an ulterior motive? I guess my point here is that you're totally blind to the fact, likely from your own ego that says you are attractive, that everything that you do is needy. And I can tell, quite easily, that all those lifts - all that time in the gym - all that hard work and effort to be attractive - was probably fueled entirely by a covert contract you held. And now that you are attractive, and look good, or whatever i…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/26 01:46 PM
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Do not telegraph your next move. You think it is building tension. It is not. When was the last time you just sat around and played with her tits then got up and walked away without needing to fuck? Just curious.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/26 11:14 AM
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Yes, you too can easily fuck married women.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/26 05:26 PM
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You are enervating because you are lazy and your inner shit is not sorted yet. Man, i still feel like this alot of days no matter what. I'm just wired to treat myself like shit, I guess. Only thing I've found is practicing gratitude really. Because: if you aren't happy with your life overall, and deeply satisfied with what you're doing in that life, then you need to address that. This is good advice for OP, but damn if this isn't a vicious thinking cycle I find myself in given my wiring. That sh…
/r/askMRP03/06/26 05:26 PM
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The further you get down the sidebar the more you will learn of polarization. How, and its benefits and debts you must pay. In my trading notes here for years I see women who operate like this is because all they wanted was polarization with a masculine man. Nothing works otherwise.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/26 02:24 AM
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Is there a reason that you decided to not read the beginning material in the sidebar, in order? NMMNG is foundational, and that'll uncover your covert contracts better, which you are fucking retarded about. Congrats on being one of the few 'tards from askmrp to make it to OYS. I can count on one hand the number of times that's happened in years.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/26 03:40 PM
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his girl never provides any validation for his gym going and bulk up. This is my experience too, not one comment about bulking up or my dedication to the gym for the last year. Neither for that matter about how successful the business has been, or for doing the laundry/kitchen/garden/etc. For those struggling with validation… Not a single time did I get encouragement from her. Not a single bit of praise. Not a mention of anything that would resemble a wife who is proud of or to be with her husba…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/26 03:34 PM
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Act like a butthurt kid, get treated like one.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/26 02:02 PM
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You need to read the sidebar, specifically the section on divorce. Doing it next week doesn't seem... calculated.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/26 11:33 AM
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The shit testing she is giving me is getting more and more aggressive. She is trying to boss me around like giving small tasks and micromanage things Her: Clean the table with the sponge, thanks. Me: STFU I can read the seething butthurt you have from this, so if I can sense it so can she. STFU is great at first, until you don't care and realize shes just being a bossy little sister, which is better - and is how you stop this.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/26 11:31 AM
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Now, all of us either married hotter women than our exes or are dating multiple hotter women simultaneously. Or.... both.... don't limit the horizons
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/26 11:24 PM
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Lots of great responses here, from a lot of vets, all saying the same thing and OP arguing with them. This is why the retard playpen exists. OYS thread is posted every Tuesday morning at /r/marriedredpill for those of you who make it out of here.
/r/askMRP29/05/26 12:31 AM
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Wrong. You are retarded. And a dancing monkey, which is 2x worse I have a prediction. Your ego will prevent you from ever having a beneficial relationship with women once they know who you really are. At the core, your true self, you're a fucking pussy LARPing as a TRP master. Maybe focus on that instead of parlor tricks to actually be worth a shit.
/r/askMRP29/05/26 12:20 AM
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When your actions are attempting to ilicit a response at their core, which you describe, thats a covert contract. Sidebar more gayboy
/r/askMRP29/05/26 12:07 AM
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If every TRP tard tried this, they'd all crash and burn. This is redpill on hardmode.
/r/askMRP29/05/26 12:06 AM
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The only reason you are still married ia because you are a passable beta provider.
/r/askMRP29/05/26 12:04 AM
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Mostly in long distance Is not a relationship. Also for those of you who post at r/askMRP who are not from a 1st world country, you know... the ones without insane familial, racial, religious, or sexual shame/conditions, ya'll aren't going to get advice that makes sense to you. Because in the class full of retards it's you who can't speak and just drool in the corner.
/r/askMRP27/05/26 06:03 PM
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Fat, unemployed, virgin. Ok.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/26 07:03 PM
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Am I right to think that I can see and observe this, and its best to just continue to act independently? Rephrased: "What are you trying to tell me, that I can dodge bullets?" No, Neo. I'm trying to tell you that when you're ready, you won't have to.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/26 04:56 PM
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Fucking helps you to not watch porn. How's that going?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/26 03:12 PM
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At first I thought she was fucking with me, why would she go so far with the praise to whoever else but say nothing to me? I don't think this way anymore. The conversation isn't intended for me, I just STFU and assume whatever is going on is to my benefit. Because, women. Solipsism. It's not for you, it's for her, and it makes her look good. Consider it a little preview of what it's like to be a HVM and how women treat one. It's no different than having a 22yo spinner on your arm who's nonchalan…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/26 03:10 PM
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these guys didn’t know how to deal with women and saw them as these impenetrable creatures that had some angle on life they just didn’t understand. You know the old trope about how women are mysterious? This is why so many guys are just banned at MRP. A fee weeks in, she she she, and they get banned and are out. Yet, no one but the mods see this. And men who get it. Adversely, I have this advice in private today below. To a guy, recently divorced. Who has his shit together: It never left me. Now…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/26 03:18 AM
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SAA and your decision to be involved is all about sexual repression. MRP/ RP as I understand it is all about channeling and encouraging male sexuality. SAA by and large views testosterone and sex drive as something to be controlled and quelled. We see it as a gift to us, our woman (or women), and the world. This is a very good perspective on SAA and one I hadn't considered before. It's literally the opposite medicine of MRP. If you're horny, your feelings are bad and you should feel bad for havi…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/26 03:04 PM
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Pretty sure the tag is permanent now - i could consult the other mods but, ya know lol
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/26 05:59 PM
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See I didn't ask abour your ex, because you know that you don't have influence on her anymore. Fwiw, in the spirit of men sharing notes, I took this approach with the only salvageable situation and it cost me my son. Nothing I coukd ever do about it because yes, I had no influence - and a great note here is: women rewrite history. Often to respect you less. I have a post about what happens if you divorce after MRP and it probably needs a part 2 when I am ready.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/26 04:12 AM
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I literally told you the key points already. You're asking me questions that don't matter, and I've already answered. Storm are just storms and women are just women. Trying to predict, control, navigate, or otherwise subdue the storm is pointless. Being the calm, steady, stoic oak in the process - full of masculine love watching the most responsibile teenager in the house do her "thing" - is exactly what women want. AWALT.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/26 07:08 PM
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I read this as a man who, by his own account, probably handled the situation as best he could. That's the problem. I recently had my wife blow up and storm around like a shitty sailor cussing the world for a few days, sometimes weeks. Everything was to get a reaction out of me. Everything. See.... here's the difference between you and I: I don't handle the situation. If you think that by not showing your phone, or telling her she was being insane, or refusing blah blah blah.... you're still tryi…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/26 05:42 PM
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You don't have to re-invent yourself to move forward. It's not like you're a 40+ year old female divorcee that needs to run out and reinvent her entire narrative of why her marriage failed, she's sexually repressed, never been on a date in years, blah blah..... do you get the point? You do you. The same version of you that got you here minus the being gay and making bad decisions part.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/26 03:28 PM
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Don't use AI. Banned Rule 14.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/26 03:21 PM
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Horns had shared a piece about having a wife as a force multiplier a couple of weeks ago. I’m asking her to do more things that benefit me, especially socially/publically. She has strengths I don’t have, and can see things I don’t, especially in regards to other people. She’s taken anything I’ve asked and run with it - delivering more value than I’d even expected. It’s been very gratifying to her as well, to be working together and doing things well. Now that you're seeing her value, outside of …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/26 03:13 PM
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she’s sad last week only had one smiley face There is an opportunity for you to game and utilize your masculine imagination here. She won't say it though. She'll just say she's sad she only had one smiley face. If you spoke womanese, what was she really saying?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/26 03:06 PM
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Well, now that that's over, what's next?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/26 01:53 PM
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My intuition is that it’s too early to communicate my vision. ....actions not words. Make sense? She'll ask you, likely in a blubbering mess. You don't have to plan and make some grandiose retarded oral lecture.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/26 01:52 PM
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I remember once reading here that looking at porn is like cockblocking yourself, but I don’t see it clearly yet. Rian was pretty clear about this to you, yet you haven't read it clearly enough. Kind of like how a fish in water doesn't know it's in water. Instead of trying to analyze shit to figure it out, maybe try something different? How about just walking around staring at your woman's ass or tits or playing a little slapass instead? If you want to fuck, why not start working towards fucking?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/26 01:46 PM
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r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/26 02:05 PM
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Preference implies you have a choice.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/26 07:47 PM
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Of course she does, and its precisely why you will not nake progress. Read my post on being willing to nuke your nuclear family.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/26 06:34 PM
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This is fucking crabs in the bucket mentality bullshit. Plenty of guys are VPs before 30. Fuck your mindset
/r/askMRP02/05/26 02:16 AM
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Nothing is going to change until you actually lift. It sounds stupid, but here you are underachieving with no point of reference, clocking in 8-5, just like you do with those "workouts". One way to not be pathetic is to do something hard, consistently. I look forward to banning you when you can't do the basics. A year later. Such a waste. Edit: 2 years. Your bad.
/r/askMRP02/05/26 02:14 AM
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Tough to "talk" when your face is melting into the headboard
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/26 09:23 PM
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I said, well I really want to go get something to eat, but how about I fuck you after? Her: no promise. Negotiating desire, scheduling sex, and then just blurtin' it out LETS FUCK You guys crack me the fuck up. It's like some doofus walking around the store knocking shit off the shelf looking for pussy and when he can't find it he yells over the aisle "HEY ANYONE SEEN THE PUSSY HERE" u/boringandsucks has great replies to you here. A smirk, a slapass, walkaway when all this shit happens solves it…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/26 08:39 PM
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big guy at the gym still seeing the small guy in the mirror? Yes. Everyday I see this. I'm afraid to give her something to do, fearing that she will see that unattractive, needy, drunk captain. I've got shame to shed here. Don't be needy about it then. She's a value-add. If she doesn't want to be - fine. That'll play out in time just fine for you because she'll be worthless as shit except for being a little slut that the only way she adds value is fucking your brains out - that is, if by that ti…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/26 08:33 PM
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The way that I describe my wife to others IRL when asked, and even when not asked in chit-chat is: "She is my force multiplier in this world." It sounds more appropriate than "help mate" to me which a lot of people can mistake as me having all the power and her just a passenger. The more you mature in your understanding of women, the more you realize they are a force multiplier for your world - both bad and good. It is up to you to praise the behaviors you like, and ignore the rest. Its all soli…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/26 08:18 PM
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And no matter how much I STFU, I can still STFU more without being autistic. What may seem to be autistic STFU to you may actually be... normal. Just think: If you can't shut your fucking mouth, you have two options. One is to shut it a little less, kinda like an alchoholic saying "I'll just have this one whiskey, it's fine." The other is to autistically shut your fucking mouth so you learn what it's like to actually.... shut the fuck up. You think you STFU too much. I assure you, without a doub…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/26 05:44 PM
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She did give me an absolute barrage of shit the night before our baseball/softball opening day. Everything from the kids’ uniforms, the picture schedule, to how I was a shitty communicator with the parents. I was caught off guard... Maybe she needs something to do, to feel like we’re on the same team. Women are hilarious and you are dumb. That barrage of shit tests, yeah, you could have shut them down the way you did a little sooner ("I'll handle it if things went sideways...."), but dude, you m…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/26 05:34 PM
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betch still getting your comments removed, I approved.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/26 04:54 PM
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When you get done with NMMNG and read back your "what i am not" list in this thread, it'll be enlightening to you how pathetic you can not be. Remember this.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/26 01:55 AM
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While all and good, your retardation is showing. You have missed the point entirely. I am not a man who tolerates infidelity. I am not a weak man. I am not a broke man. I am not an unconfident man. I am not a special man. I am not a man who backs down at first resistance.... Do you get the point? We have to define these things extremely tactfully.... not make general statements. These statements should instill confidence.... not bad fee fees like you've done here. Bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/26 09:11 PM
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Fuckin a its still this week dude. Start now, before you read NMMNG. List it here. What are you not?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/26 05:00 PM
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So.... this post would not have helped you. Thanks for your input.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/26 04:58 PM
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it wasn’t until I read NNMNG and WISNIFG that I had my “ah-ha!” moment. lol, finally hit the basics of the sidebar instead of lurking, found something out
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/26 03:16 PM
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You can't blueball a woman and expect her to not stir up shit. I don't think these guys understand how duty sex is supposed to work.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/26 03:13 PM
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At this point, I’m wondering what version of me is even real. If logic follows what we've talked about here, the answer is really simple for you. You haven't met him yet, so how would you know what version of you is real? You're chasing a ghost even with this statement, and it's kind of a giant cope. Instead, hit the sidebar. You haven't even read NMMNG yet. That alone will help expose a path to what you are. You know what's easier than chasing an imaginary version of yourself and trying to deci…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/26 09:04 PM
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I think I need to highlight something for you that is glaringly obvious to me, and most others here with this new information. In your previous OYS you talked about how you'd lost your way, or in this OYS "flow" like it used to, and in other OYS you talked about how you were just a drunk captain who kind of lost his way. Man..... I'm sorry, but that just isn't true. You were never a captain. You mildly had your individual life managed at the executive function level, but you were not a leader. Y…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/26 05:29 PM
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Even if it’s awkward at first. It'll only be awkward if it's awkward for you. Maybe try a blindfold - it'll remove the ability for her to see you fumbling around like an idiot if you think you will be.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/26 02:47 PM
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"Why are you so serious?" in the nightclubs. Not sure if this is a shit test or me being too much in my head It's a shit test. A lay-up one at best, and super easy. And, you did figure it out correctly. "Of course I am." "Only when I see something I want."
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/26 02:45 PM
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Comment removed by Reddit .... whaaat?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/26 02:41 PM
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I guess we do need one of these every once in a while.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/26 04:07 AM
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Why have you decided to regurgitate everything from things already here on the sidebar? Is that the value you saw? Because this isnt anything new.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/26 06:39 PM
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In it's simplest terms, a shitty comfort test is a way for women to express their emotional needs without being vulneurable. "You never show me affection anymore" is a shitty comfort test translated from womanese to: "I need your affection" Despite telling my wife I like her needy, she still does this shit, just like yours. It's a pull mechanism. For those reading along, here's what they look like in the wild and how to deal with them. Read a little further down for the section on shitty comfort…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/26 01:14 PM
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LTR potential after 3 dates, right after you finally fuck her. I read that, right? Fucking retard.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/26 10:43 PM
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I don't get all the lying, except for the usual suspect. She cheated... guess he feels bad for that and feels bad about feeling that. Why not lie lol ... using this place to feel better.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/26 10:41 PM
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Everytime you mention steps 4-9 I research it more. It seems daunting at first, somewhat. Alot of the inventory is done, but I am not interested in redesigning a frame for others - which brings me to a huge impasse with my son. And through him, the judgement he learned irrationally as an alienated child. Shit is daunting me mentally at this time because.... well, no good excuse but the honesty of at this point it doesn't seem worth it. I haven't wronged anyone through deliberate or passive actio…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/26 10:34 PM
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Oh, so its you who is slut shaming. Lol... your feelings are bad and you feel bad for it. Bext time in bed, continue the great tradition of rubbin' her butthole some more and imagine it is a genie in a bottle. Calm yourself and rub that little brown eye. Imagine complete relaxation, and you feel it through her and how relaxed that little asshole gets. Then, and only then will the genie appear, and he asks you: "Hey Master Rolling371. I will grant you one wish. She is relaxed, horny, wet, and rea…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/26 11:56 PM
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I don't understand. Why would it trigger you that she's a slut?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/26 07:56 PM
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I asked for a blow Job, I haven't asked for a blowjob in 8 years. Why aren't you guys having the balls to tell her?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/26 03:10 PM
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This all feels like a dance. She wants to please me. But I need to keep leading Whatever you do, don't expect her to start leading the dance. It sounds a little bit like that's what you're looking for here, hoping she'll turn into a rabid nympho slut that wants to suck your cock all the time, but this isn't going to happen. Sluts aim to please, and if you're not laying out how she can do that explicitly or covertly, she's not going to be a slut... for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/26 03:06 PM
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Again, we don't think that, but he does. It's not an attaboy, but more of a "get back on the horse you aren't done" statement. Everyone here is digging in his head. It's fucking retarded when the guy is on the brink of fake it til you make it.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/26 12:36 AM
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It doesnt matter what we see if the guy believes he did something, congruently, without anger, and has seen what "frame" is. I was looking for a whiny petulant man lay out some threat... I didnt see that. Which means he arrived at something. Problem is he has his thumb up his ass twiddlin it around contemplating bullshit, which is the exact opposite of how he arrived Edit: there was a guy here once that while I was attempting at doing things, trying things, he had read enough and knew enough abo…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/26 10:18 PM
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FutileFighter recommended a book, Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Life Picked up a copy myself u/futilefighter - I think I've been looking for something like this. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/26 12:50 PM
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She cheated 100%, two times last 9 months or so. you aren't going to make it. And if you do, you don't belong here.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/26 09:52 PM
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Sometimes on our journey, we reach part of our destination sooner than we expect. The negative way to approach this is to sit back and act like you don't know what the fuck to do next. You got yourself here, you can keep going. It's on you to determine how much, or all of these bullshit comments by others here is just fucking mind-masturbation. You've demonstrated congruently through action and words your frame. It has been received. Woman steps into it. Up to you if you want to jackoff to the m…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/26 09:48 PM
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The other post that is getting me is I’m Enervating. This is a really good post for everyone here in OYS to read. It's likely 100% of you.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/26 09:41 PM
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account suspended
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/26 02:56 PM
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damn suspended account but good shit
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/26 02:34 PM
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It's literally book #2 on the list right behind Rational Male.... you haven't read or done shit. Just showing up here looking for a freebie
/r/askMRP24/03/26 08:48 PM
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Your answer lies within the very first books of the sidebar.
/r/askMRP24/03/26 03:12 PM
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Instead, consider a shift in mindset. I was about to say the exact same. OP, it's more about being what you want to be, rather than analyzing the path to get there. Just do it, and be that. Chad doesn't do a diet. He just eats alot and tracks it on MFP
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/26 03:02 PM
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First of all, the # of "she's" in here will throw alot of posters sideways, but I get the point. You're trying to tell the entire detailed story and then you're baffled, asking for advice, not really knowing what's going on. In this particular case, the use of "she" is just part of the narrative to get to the end. I get it. I enjoyed the sex very much Of course you did, and she knew you would. What the fuck does this behavior change mean? It means she's starting to do what a good woman does who …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/26 02:59 PM
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I'd rather mitigate the damage of "dropping a bomb" Why? Look kid, if you're picking option #1, I will repeat myself: You are the bad guy, fuck her over, and move on with some guilt you'll work through and some minor FOMO. There is no scenario where you get to come out of this being the guy who "helped her move on" or "didn't just drop her and helped her he was sweet" or "he's such a nice guy but it didn't work out". NONE of that is going to happen. I will repeat myself again: You are the bad gu…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/26 08:29 PM
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My point wasn't so much about literally putting his dick in her mouth, but more about shutting his dumbass mouth trying to negotiate special sexual acts. His whole schtick is to negotiate her sucking his dick like it's some kind of retarded sexual power move for validation. Had he just shut the fuck up, initiated, and he truly wanted a blowjob, I know it'd produce different results long term. To top it off, with this retarded validation seeking power move, she responded quite well and appropriat…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/26 08:03 PM
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At this point I learned what you guys told me here a long time ago - you can't live with her to "find the direction", you need to have the direction and vision already in place. My take: I assume it's because there's no clear vision for further commitment and marriage. She's anxious that I'm not really locked in, and that’s the root of the drama. We told you this, yes. But what you forget we told you over and over is this: it's no wonder she's not behaving. She never will because of your inabili…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/26 10:37 PM
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Your reply to me says exactly why.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/26 10:29 PM
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I’m not going to tolerate her saying things like “be happy with what you get,” like I’m a child. LOL what a powergrab, and it worked. Because you didn't get what you wanted, you got what she was giving you. Who's doing the fucking again? ...... "Sweetheart, who's doing the fucking here? Shut the fuck up and be happy with what you get." ...... Alternatively, if you really, really wanted that blowjob, you could have just shut the fuck up and put it in her mouth for her. That would have been congru…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/26 03:46 PM
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I got tinder, in less than 24h I got 36 likes dispite turning it on/off duing the day, didnt hop on any of them, but it sure gave me a confidence boost which I knew was needed Awww how cute. Made you feel good didn't it? No wonder you're at where you're at. You're a validation whore. Guess who else has this kind of behavior? Weak men and women.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/26 03:41 PM
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Kudos for putting it all out there, at least you're honest, mostly. But there are a couple of telling things. ..in terms of general life satisfaction, they have contributed a great deal to my happiness. In terms of my marriage, they have gotten me nothing. Let this be a lesson to others reading here that you can indeed be a dancing monkey for 4+ years, and these are the results. The longer you are, the worse it gets. Ultimately, I think you're probably due to fail OP - not because of the woman i…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/26 01:07 PM
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Enjoyed watching your hamster get on the wheel again. My original comment still remains. I'll reflect more on why I choose those words ,that seem incongruous with my feelings. Your feelings don't fucking matter. What you do and say does. Everything you do and say is congruent, albeit not what I'd choose, which is what I pointed out. You know, being a fucking retard and acting like a woman. Everything you "feel" is a lie. Quite interestingly constructed, I might add. But tell me, when was the las…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/26 08:42 PM
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She was describing her options after she finishes her second degree which are limited. Anyway, the bottom line is that I am going to have to financially support longer than what I expected But at no point did I make a decision that I would support her for the next 10 years Hahahahahha you betas. You say you were manipulated into it? Like, how? Did she castrate you, shove your balls into your mouth and duct tape it shut so you couldn't say No? "No." is a complete sentence. Yes, YOU made rhe decis…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/26 06:30 PM
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You're doing well. Keep grinding.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/26 06:25 PM
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Lol... you are a bouncing retard. I want a divorce, this isnt working.... then proceeds to try and fuck her unsuccessfully a few days, the ln finally succeeds with "the best sex we have had...". Hilarious how deep in her frame and anger you are.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/26 01:42 PM
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"More nuance".... lol Just an excuse. You mean lurkers who think their situation is special? Show me a guy who's been OYS publicly for a year, he maybe has nuance.
/r/askMRP08/03/26 01:03 PM
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fat husbands rejoice! there's a way!
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/26 08:35 PM
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What I did leave out? That I'm hoping you figure out? It has to be authentic.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/26 08:33 PM
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That'd be my advice. Mods are having to manually approve every comment you make
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/26 02:58 PM
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Appears that u/unpluggin is reddit banned now. weird.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/26 03:03 PM
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I have become an inert rock and need to transition to being the oak. new shit test along the lines of “aren’t you glad I [behave in preferred way]?” The few times she said this I praised her, thinking reinforcing her preferred choice with praise and attention was rewarding. I don’t think that was the best way to handle her comment. If you want to transition to the oak, and you want your woman to be feminine, the feminine grows through praise. Having been the rock, you know that you weren't dishi…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/26 03:02 PM
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Looks like u/rpd371 is reddit banned now
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/26 02:50 PM
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I settled for the starfish quicky that she offered. Afterwards I mentioned something about her feeling sick because of the look on her face, me evaluating. The next morning, I could feel the distance, i knew why Every unhappy wife is a rape victim.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/26 01:45 PM
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It's why Rule 14 has to exist now.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/26 05:38 PM
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Yes. Good.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/26 04:36 PM
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You were so close. then when I flirted with her, she gave me shit. I plan to initate like a man, and push through soft no’s, but I don’t sense reactive desire, then I’ll opt out. What if I told you, Neo, that this is just another test to see if you get butthurt about "desire" ? Who controls the sex then? Can you read between the lines and figure out what I'm pointing out? Good sex is my responsibility and I shouldn’t tolerate that. Next time I’m going to say something like, “I can tell you aren’…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/26 01:45 PM
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Started a new machine-based split: the real goal is adding serious mass. Then why aren't you actually lifting? Instead of doing machine presses with your weak ass toothpick legs at 134lbs. Yes, 134lbs, and you're using faggymachines. How are you this fucking retarded already? You're a manlet of a man. Why are you lifting like one?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/26 01:37 PM
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You have two choices. 1. You are the bad guy, fuck her over, and move on with some guilt you'll work through and some minor FOMO. You are the nice guy. So nice, you know how it ends but do it anyway to avoid feeling bad (right now), but it fucks you over 10x as bad in the end. You are 90% choosing #2 and 100% listening to people that validate that choice only. So much, your ability to choose #1 is nearly closed.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/26 02:37 PM
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it must be because the title is enticing to the ego... .... superior man.... Can only be read by men lol
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/26 06:17 PM
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When i first got here, mentally I was probably in the same spot as you. An ex-wife that controlled my son (but it was really me), and a new gf/wife living with. I became an emotional slave to both of them and was severely fucked because my frame resided in 2 women, which was waaaaaay fucking worse than just 1. I suspect your live-in gf has started to call you out for lack of frame in that situation. I'd suggest you look into parallel parenting. No co-parenting. Since you're now found the pill, I…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/26 04:28 PM
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Read up on how to game past the "i have a boyfriend" statement. Figure it out on your own. It's basic game knowledge. Minor tip: My favorite response to that was always "That's cool I don't get jealous easily".
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/26 04:20 PM
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This fucking trainwreck, despite limited prescriptive advice based ONLY on a key iron rule, is a reminder that sometimes guys just have to learn the hard way. Then they come crawling back 8-10 years later at 35 wondering why the fuck their sahara pussy woman is on the verge taking half their shit including your own kid(s), and you've contemplated blowing your brains out a little. The window you have to change the poor direction of your life is nearly closed. All my married friends told me when w…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/26 04:14 PM
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a man that acts accordingly to the MRP wiki/guidelines, will awaken his actual wife. Wrong from the first sentence, dancing monkey. Go ahead and play in the playpen, retards.
/r/askMRP16/02/26 02:39 PM
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You are dense. Do shit and shut the fuck up. This isnt MRP. Its the retard playpen for MRP so you dont post this sad sack of a post there.
/r/askMRP11/02/26 11:19 PM
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The fact that you think you can think your way out of this by talking is insane.
/r/askMRP11/02/26 09:13 PM
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So far every person here has told you that it's you. Attraction, fat, whatever. The problem is you. But you need to reply, and DEER about how you can fuck her in China through the core of the earth with your devil dick and she loves it. It is r/askmrp afterall and you're an 8 year lurker - who hasn't had a BJ. Makes sense now Good sex is your responsibility.
/r/askMRP11/02/26 03:43 PM
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Its pretty easy to sum this all up. No man should be fucking his hand if he has viable women he can fuck. Men want to fuck. If you don't fuck that's your problem. No shame. You are what you are.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/26 05:29 AM
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Doesn't matter had sex haha
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/26 05:19 AM
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It's sad isn't it? And then not
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/26 05:18 AM
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first blowjob in about 14 years Jesus wept. Congratulations. Fuck anyone who says otherwise. I'm not being curt. No man should go 14 years without a blowjob. Keep your foot on the gas.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/26 07:02 PM
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I want to poke through your veneer for a moment, and if you can trust me, I promise it's worthwhile. I think you're likely using OLD as a parachute, yes, but not against rejection. Most guys here can actually handle rejection, and it's the ones who don't understand the game that get butthurt. I don't think you're afraid of rejection, much. It's much more likely that you're using OLD as a buffer because you can't build and maintain quantity in real life, and the outcomes aren't as black/white IRL…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/26 06:58 PM
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If you're struggling to be honest with internet strangers, what might that say about your real life?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/26 06:52 PM
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validated from your own choices and actions This is very, very hard for these guys to even conceptualize, but once you do it's something that you never lose.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/26 03:46 PM
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It is hard to NGAF about her mood swings, but i can’t do shit about them anyway. It's only hard because until now, you've been a good lil' boy and helping your sweet precious princess regulate her own emotions by getting inside a woman's head with her and wallowing around in girl shit. When you do that, it makes you smell like pussy. Later that day f2f, she thanked me for not engaging in that quarrel. "Thanks for not being a pussy." I feel a lot less shitty, not like "i'm such an awesome dude" e…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/26 03:43 PM
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whatever on online dating. How's your IRL approach game? Would you be more, or less successful than OLD? What does success mean to you? Fucking? Owning the frame? What does good look like?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/26 03:40 PM
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What exactly are you struggling with, at all? This OYS reads like a life update, more or less, and doesn't have any grit to it of what you're working on.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/26 03:38 PM
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Fuck this. All my thoughts on brats. Bottom line they need never worth your time and is just a BP recipe for a BP guy who is LARPing dominance. You're just not there yet. Shes topping from the bottom and you dont wven know it. You dont like being dominant? Ok. Then just be you and DO what you want. Thats dominant behavior. It is better than larping. Why you dont want this.
/r/askMRP07/02/26 03:09 AM
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How fucking hard is it not to watch porn? Oh wait, I hear that they have masturbation addicts anonymous classes - how's that working out? Is it just a giant circle jerk of a testicular cancer meeting where everyone supports each other's circle jerk, literally?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/26 08:51 PM
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What a lazy, limp dicked boy you are. Next time just grab her by thr throat and tell her to dress her pussy up. Jesus. Just fuck the girl already. When was the last time you FUCKED your woman? Fucking shit she told you as much.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/26 01:06 AM
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When I was a kid, I really loved dirt bikes. I was super fast on them, could whip around the track, knew how to mix fuel, slap the tank, feather a clutch, rebuild the top-end on a 2 stroke, get the holeshot.... everything. But there was this one little part I couldn't quite get right when racing. At about 9yo I endo'd into a double and broke a few bones badly. From 10-12 I did not attempt another double. I had to roll over them in races, and even tabletops were scary to me. I kind of just.... av…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/26 09:01 PM
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You're welcome.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/26 08:28 PM
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when I get her to do things for me (like watch the kids while I go to jiu jitsu) she is nicer. Compliance testing establishes dominance. No wonder you see I've noticed days following this she is much happier and submissive. Read my comment to u/Far_Independent1763 this week. He's in the same spot as you, i think on OYS 11, you are on 12. You guys should trade notes.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/26 08:07 PM
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Your repping some Daddy vibes with the straight shooting, small tone of anger, healthy boundaries, and not putting up with shit. She has been dressing better, acting nicer, and overall better. Fairly script. Everyone here that hasn't completely lost their wife's respect and is here improving all see wives do this. Why? Because you're not acting like a pussy as much. Women fill the container provided. The types of behaviors you have been recently exhibiting are more "alpha" and leadership based, …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/26 08:02 PM
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It was fine for the first week or 2, but then I think it crushed my libido for my wife. This is normal. It will happen again.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/26 07:54 PM
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In the future when you get that tiny shit test of "that was bold", I have always authentically replied with these two short responses: "I know." or "That's what I want." So the next time you start putting your thumb in her ass, or throwing her across the room, or just simply telling her to suck your dick... and she spouts off something like, "WTF bluebook what the hell is that???" "That's what I want." or "I know" with a wink Don't forget the ass slap. Be a man who fucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/26 07:51 PM
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Perspective here, afterwards, is important. Right now your perspective is "I was weak, don't do that again, I can learn from this." Problem is your perspective will continue to be: I won't do that again. Sure, great. But that's how a boy responds to being told "no". Shame, guilt, and fear of doing it again keeps him from engaging. But what if told you that you've got this all wrong, for now, and there's a better set of actions that could have served you better? So the next time you thinking abou…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/26 07:34 PM
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For the first time in a long time, she willingly entered my frame and enjoyed the stay. Sounded great until your conclusion was something to do with your wife. Jesus fucking christ, kid. How can you guys NOT see this?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/26 02:22 PM
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Don't beat yourself up too bad about watching porn after 6 months. It's just the beta male version of having a sidepiece for variety. Completely normal for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/26 09:14 PM
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at least she didn't join MRP and tell me to shove my horns up my ass... looking at you u/tyred_biggums and your also wonderful opsec :D
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/26 09:11 PM
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I read your answer as: I have no good reason except a bunch of excuses and lies I tell myself. Every reason I would give is not real and in my head. ... I am constantly in her frame, wondering what she’s thinking and how my actions will be interpreted by her. You don't have to be. You can just tell her to suck your dick and deal with what happens. It's surely a better choice than fighting an imaginary set of problems that could be in her head and paralyze you for no good reason. got an initial n…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/26 09:06 PM
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I want to be the guy who can confidently initiate the latter but I’m not there yet. What exactly is preventing you from telling your woman to suck your dick?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/26 04:35 PM
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kids love to eat paint and play with matches, it's in their nature.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/26 04:31 PM
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Many posters recently have OPSEC breaches. As outlined in Steel's guide, keep your Reddit life separate from your real life – at the minimum have a separate email account for Reddit. Use incognito when browsing under your /u/. Comment in no other subreddits. Use common sense. Two people this week had OPSEC problems. While not unusual, your need to eat paint isn't smart. Don't talk about fight club.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/26 04:28 PM
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Blink twice if you are being held hostage
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/26 01:35 PM
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A month ago I said to OP: This is more about morality than practicality. Thats fine. Just calling it for the bullshit it is. because he said: Really, girls in LTR/marriage don’t interest me, it’s always been that way and I don’t want to change it just to destroy the world around me. And here we are a month later. Hiding from the same boogeyman
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/26 09:15 PM
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if a guy wife's up the first to touch his pee pee and then bitches That's the thing. I don't see them complain. It's hard to complain when you don't know anything better. I see them just exerting new found post-MRP frame to press the Nintendo reset button, start over, with only a slightly hotter version of the last version. Repeat the same game, just know the rules better so they can be slightly less lazy than before. For most, that's as good as it gets.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/26 09:33 PM
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Don't worry women are banned on sight
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/26 09:28 PM
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Slightly humorous and serious here, but don't you think this mindset is how post-MRP dudes end up wifing up the first chick that touches their pee pee? In your case, it was 4 though.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/26 08:31 PM
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Just because you're "getting" sex doesn't make you a man who fucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/26 08:28 PM
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I didn't say you were at anything but 15%. I said it's the worst looking 15% I've seen in a while. So, you don't bench, squat, OHP, or BBR, and kinda do half-ass deadlifts. But the big leg presses where you can load up a bunch of weight for your ego? Totally makes sense now. You're likely a waste of time.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/26 08:25 PM
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That's the worst looking 15% BF I've seen in a long time. What are you lifts?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/26 07:49 PM
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Imagine one day your obese, unattractive, cunty wife who just lost 10lbs on her new program and can lift the bar suddenly appeared after 10 years of being a slobby emotional mess, and suddenly wants control over the sex life and everything else. You'd probably laugh and think it's cute, maybe dish her out a good fucking for the mediocre and new progress that never really sticks, just so she'll feel better. Because you know, she's been really moody for a long ass time and this version kinda looks…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/26 06:06 PM
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Usually this comes from either 1) not telling a woman up front what you want/need, or 2) Lying to a woman up front in order ot get what you want/need. OP talks alot about being authentic, and being able to be more honest with his intentions. That tells me he's been lying to either them, or himself. It's not confusing to me that he sees this as an "ego shield" , because he's too afraid to state his desires upfront), and OP sees this as cowardness. He's not wrong. Let's see if he can admit that he…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/26 04:38 PM
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of course I’m the sporadic one and how can I expect a consistent and good sex life if I’m being sporadic and inconsistent myself. Now that you've accepted the truth, what do you think the answer is to changing your mindset about this? What can you do? Hint: It involves discipline.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/26 02:53 PM
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Following the sex she was standoffish. I asked what was wrong and she started crying and we had a long discussion Every unhappy wife is a rape victim.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/26 03:35 PM
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Blowjobs are pretty good post pregnancy?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/26 01:15 AM
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Lol this fucking incel young man bullshit. Some of us play a different game than others - but most importantly a game that is not based leverage, except the men we are. When you truly are "that" guy, who you want to be, that is.... you. And there is a reason that woman picked you. The end game of mrp really is to be OK loving your woman, understanding that can hurt you, and being OK with that. That's literally the mission statement of the sub. We prefer to remain married. Sure, sad sacks arrive …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/26 01:14 AM
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Unless they are trying to. Just go read redpill wives
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/26 01:04 AM
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Is it bad that I wonder if I die, what the acceptable time frame is to sleep with your ex BF is Lol, man. Your wife is hilarious. I see a lot of men here. You might just be angry and broke enough to do something. The broke part being key. You're a novelty at best now, intriguing to your wife. Don't fear Chad. Become Chad's older brother.
/r/askMRP11/01/26 01:12 PM
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LOL Cam again with wisdom Part 1: Eat less. Part 2: When you eat, eat meat.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/26 06:28 PM
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Rule 14 exists for the betterment of those here - and those that have been here a minute, usually MRP APPROVED, see why. The better guys here have a good memory of others OYS. Mine is rusty after all these years and thousands of dudes. It just kind of blends in and you can see the matrix.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/26 12:31 AM
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Fake it til you make it. It's in every sucess story. Because you are the prize. Start acting like it. A healthy dose of narcissism is required to make it.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/26 12:29 AM
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I love how Cam cuts it. Eat less food. Being not fat fixes 80% of the problems.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/26 09:15 PM
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It's less about the guts of the focus, and more about the focus itself.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/26 09:14 PM
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Figured there was a chicken in there somewhere. Because you didn't write about it, I knew you did nothing with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/26 09:12 PM
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The truth has a funny way of doing that.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/26 08:31 PM
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Rewarded with watching a show together she likes, she wanted another episode after, I held frame I was focused on going to bed on time for sleep and morning lifting, and joked we have sex/episode agreement, she laughed. Do not joke about sex being transactional EVER again. Don't eat fucking paint. The truth is that you are fat, unattractive, and sex with you IS TRANSACTIONAL. Why remind her of that with some beta-billy reward of watching TV? You're too fat and a bitch to be funny, yet. By the wa…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/26 08:09 PM
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Sex frequency remains very sporadic though - still has long gaps mixed with a few days in a row. The gaps are obviously frustrating, but I do my best to channel the energy to other things. Are you getting hard no's? Soft no's? Can you elaborate? Are you introspective enough to realize that it's likely you who is the sporadic one?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/26 07:57 PM
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My wife commented later that the woman probably thought I had “Daddy” energy. And you did what with this? (with your wife, not the rando)
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/26 07:55 PM
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date for 3 months before exclusivity is even considered You're getting divorced and are clearly too fucking retarded to have absorbed the sidebar. A plate is a plate for 1 year minimum. Read up on plate theory, you clearly don't know shit. If you're going to keep thinking about your next wife, just marry the first girl who touches your pee pee next and save yourself the burden. At MRP, > 50% of the guys here who divorce marry the next person who does.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/26 07:50 PM
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This is a well thought out ask. There will be lots of comments here that might helpful or retarded. Practically, the good shit will lead you to what I wrote to you 4 months ago when you were considering promoting her from "exclusive plate" to moving in with her. Having just swallowed the pill, you're too young and too retarded and too inexperienced to remotely pull it off in a way that is good for you. Spin some plates, take a few years. Then you'll understand why we only give very limited presc…
/r/askMRP05/01/26 04:48 AM
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Yet, you dont lift. Not really. Quit being fucking retarded and half assing everything.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/26 06:20 PM
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Of course he didnt. He's fucking retarded and arguing.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/26 06:20 PM
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You are 5'10. It doesnt matter how big your head is if the rest is muscle. You really need to read up on macros and caloric intake. At your size id be eating 3000+ cal a day with 220g protein minimum. Push that to 300g and take payllium husk tablets so you dont shit bricks. Ive said this so many times here its like I fucking repeat myself. Thise that followed the advice and lifted HARD with REAL weights and barbells following a 5x5 program did well.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/26 12:44 AM
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/r/askmrp It should read: a blind dumbfuck finds a fuck and claims he is a playa
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/26 01:19 PM
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If your goal is 10lbs in a year, you suck. In fact, all of this sucks including your shit ass fake lifts. Why do you guys shortcut the most important parts?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/25 02:01 PM
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Both of you are still stuck in the matrix. You have a better trajectory of getting out. Fire him and get into OYS.
/r/askMRP27/12/25 12:49 AM
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It's only passive aggressive if you suck. If you don't, women quickly understand. Your coach likely has the mental, but can't squat 2 plates or fuck a woman properly, so that's why you have cognitive dissonance.
/r/askMRP26/12/25 09:07 PM
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her shame working to pull things back. Other assessments appreciated. You need more sidebar. Read up on madonna/whore complex. I recently made a comment about how it has to be your fault she is acting like a alut.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/25 12:55 PM
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open to hearing if you see anything that I'm overlooking or any contradictions No, you're not. We are literally telling you here that you are wrong. Your newly found assertive asshole within says back the same thing over and over. You like it? Thats why you are doing it? That's the problem. There is a bunch of shit you don't know you like, or want, yet, and this choice severely limits your ability to explore that. You're a fucking idiot. But oh well.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/25 12:09 AM
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don’t want to change it just to destroy the world around me. I am calling bullshit on this. Your marriwd ex wants or could want to bang. What fucking world around you is destroyed with fucking LTR women? You are 33 with no kids. This is more about morality than practicality. Thats fine. Just calling it for the bullshit it is.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/25 02:27 AM
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Learning the hard way breaks a man in a special way that often here is broke enough to do something.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/25 02:20 AM
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I appreciate someone else telling him what hes missing when it's so obvious to them. limited prescriptive advice 4 months ago I advised him if this very very prescriptive advice. Yet, some have to learn the hard way.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/25 12:25 AM
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These praises, IOI’s, compliments, and recognition should be amusing, at best. Couldn't agree more. Praise and compliments should be a worthless to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/25 12:20 AM
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Do you plan to marry her within 6 months? Yes, or no? Having just swallowed the pill, you're too young and too retarded and too inexperienced to remotely pull it off in a way that is good for you. Spin some plates, take a few years. Then you'll understand why we only give very limited prescriptive advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/25 03:52 PM
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Everyone already has, you are just too retarded to read and refuse to see it correctly.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/25 12:20 PM
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The way you see it is weak, and wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/25 10:47 PM
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Men who have the basics covered: Frame, game, looks, career, mission, money.... often have a lot more time available to do what they want than men who can't even squat their bodyweight or fuck their wives properly.
/r/askMRP18/12/25 08:07 PM
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I tried! I'm weak?! No YOU'RE WEAK!!! men without frame and the things they do
/r/askMRP18/12/25 08:00 PM
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Banned for moralizing. Have fun putting the emotional burden of controlling your dick on your wife. That's some real solid frame and ownership of yourself that you got there bud.
/r/askMRP18/12/25 07:42 PM
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Hey guys, I'm contemplating eating 12 steaks, all at the same time, kinda like what I think I see at MRP. The problem is I don't have a grill, seasoning, a house, a spatula, or know how to cook with fire. I do however have 1 old steak. Why do I want to eat 12 steaks?
/r/askMRP18/12/25 07:35 PM
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solely her responsibility to take care of my physical sexual needs Fucking LOL this is so weak
/r/askMRP18/12/25 07:29 PM
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Brats are a lot of work, maybe a gift, maybe broken, and a lot of fun if you compare them to a peaceful sub who is gonna cuddle you for five hours and eat your ass like an ice-cream. You do you. I've been with both. As you say, you do you. A peaceful woman offers what I need and desire most long term. I don't come home to be challenged, I honestly do enough if that healthily in my super fucking high stress executive job. All. Fucking. Day. I prefer peace in my home, with or without a woman. I th…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/25 11:21 PM
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Wait wait wait.... Is SAA for.... sex? You joined a sex addicts 12 step group? So you could stop jacking off? I can't even fucking believe this shit. What in the actual fuck ?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/25 07:39 PM
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It’s almost as if saying less dumb shit makes me a more attractive man, who would’ve thought… Rule 1: Be attractive. Rule 2: Don't be unattractive. It's almost as if you guys who talk don't understand everytime you open that little gayhole it sounds...... unattractive and gay. It's certainly an ego blow.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/25 03:40 PM
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You're on OYS #3 contemplating much bigger questions you don't yet have the knowledge to answer, and in fact you're self-admittedly naive about what the answers could be. You're not smart enough (yet) to understand the answers, so stop asking them. Stop thinking and start doing more. Your therapy session was solved here 10 years ago. Classic case of the Beta Shit Goblin.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/25 03:37 PM
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When I come over the top with a superior frame when she brats, it leads to passionate and dominant sex. This is nothing more than "stand up to me and make my panties wet, please sir" But a brat? Ugh. I mean, they're tiring and boring even for an experienced Dom. Yes, they're annoying. Don't you have better things to do?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/25 01:25 PM
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guys that succeed in MRP are former alphas that got fat, tired and lazy and just need a reboot Surrounding yourself with success and shutting the fuck up is often a recipe for success yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/25 02:26 PM
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I always liked "if all your little girlfriends knew and how often you get fucked like the slut you really are, they would be jealous".
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/25 08:38 PM
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Your lifts aren't terrible, but I'm going to ask the obvious - why aren't you eating and tracking calories? You need quite a bit at 156. Second: you're getting it. You're realizing that part of you was anxiety inducing due to lack of frame. Good. You're also not judging, or telling her what to do. Good. And when she needs comfort, you're doing so with your dick. Good. Keep at it. Soon you'll likely see her falling into this new-found pseudo frame you're figuring out. Believe it or not, this shou…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/25 07:10 PM
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“I'm enjoying this slut”. She responded, “Good, You created her.” I enjoyed that. Lean more into this. Here's the thing about sluts: They can't believe that they are dirty asshole licking sluts... no..... they're that way because you made them. Not in a forced way, no, they simply just couldn't stop you from doing what you really know she needs. It's a simple madonna/whore complex that I used to my advantage. If you want to amp this up even more you have to start taking ownership of her and her …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/25 06:58 PM
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surprised he couldn't learn this in 6+ years
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/25 06:50 PM
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Jesus. You guys are so dense. "Oh no I'm listening! BUT....." Maybe she had an orgasm thinking about Kevin. how the fuck do you know? jesus fuck you fucking retards
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/25 06:48 PM
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I’ve been having trouble with premature ejaculation that I didn’t use to have prior to the last couple of years. Read this.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/25 04:04 PM
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Sex is not great; about once every two months or so. 6 years ago you were here with the same problem, yes? But now you're 20lbs heavier?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/25 02:18 PM
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Now I give less fucks about her coming Really. Then why write about it at length in your OYS, and then use it as measuring stick of success? One of us lying to ourselves.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/25 01:21 PM
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... or maybe the bitch just needed to cum. This should not be any kind of indicator to you. A bitch came. Once. Why is it more complicated than that?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/25 12:52 PM
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I can't imagine my life where an imaginary internet woman that i haven't met consumes the main content of my OYS, then nothing comes of it. At all.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/25 12:49 PM
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Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/25 12:46 PM
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gotta love the backrubs for blowjobs covert contract. It's a classic! Currently present in 100% of bluepill fucks like you.
/r/askMRP05/12/25 09:35 PM
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to become a better me for me. lol lying to yourself. Just like every dancing monkey. You know how we say around here that the words you choose will betray you? 4.5 months in the gym and she has 0 desire to work on herself. If you're interested, there it is. So important, it was your last thought. Began that way too.
/r/askMRP05/12/25 06:18 PM
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Have you tried telling her that all this work you're doing and have been doing is for her - so she will see your changes and then work on herself?
/r/askMRP05/12/25 05:59 PM
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Every. fucking. time. The first time at least, they're always that way to someone. Today you.... tomorrow me. We're all just vets picking up hitchikers one at a time.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/25 04:20 PM
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We're not here to be your accountabuddy. Yet, your OYS reads like you've got it all figured out. Perhaps it's a long grind and you just need to grind on your own. Why are you even here?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/25 08:46 PM
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Not only that, but it's the same dudes who use date nights as a covert contract to a "peace offering"..... like this dude....
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/25 08:41 PM
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Do you also understand you're dense and insufferable in any mild conflict?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/25 08:38 PM
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When you find yourself in a ditch, don't yank the wheel so hard that you end up in the other ditch. The trick for MRP retards is to be normal, and stay on the road.
/r/askMRP04/12/25 08:36 PM
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If you're here for an accountabilibuddy, get the fuck out. I read your OYS and I don't even know why you're here. You're not even broke enough yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/25 02:40 PM
1

Try the audio version of TWOTSM on Audible. It's much better, and is delivered by a guy that you imagine as your wise old black uncle.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/25 02:36 PM
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Whatever dude. You completely missed the point. I guess you could look at it as a peace offering for a bad week Read that again to yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/25 09:16 PM
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You're not that funny.
/r/askMRP02/12/25 08:26 PM
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I am going to plan a date for this week so that I can reconnect with my wife. I hate it when I read this complete bullshit. As if you're not capable of "connecting" with her outside of a "date"? What the fuck is this covert contract or lazy simpleton mindset you have here? Does it really require spending at least $100 to "connect" with a woman? You know, for $200 you can have a better "connection". Alternatively, maybe you're not "connecting" with your wife because you're 50lbs overweight, lazy,…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/25 08:17 PM
1

Exactly. Just start doing things. Even if you're cringe.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/25 08:07 PM
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I'm afraid it will sound stupid coming from me. Yeah, You like that... you fucking retard?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/25 03:32 PM
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Here at askmrp, the best replies are the ones that give advice equal to the quality of the post. With that said, have you tried rubbing her butthole?
/r/askMRP01/12/25 06:02 PM
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When you are STFU and it starts to feels almost unnatural and autistic to you, like it did this week for you, that's being normal. For you, that's progress. The more I STFU, the shittier she reacted Because the old tricks aren't working. You were a piece of shit before, so expect to be treated like piece of shit until you're worth a shit. You're getting close, and I can tell. How? You're starting to not like her. You're deep in anger. You're mad at yourself for the right reasons, for once. That'…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/25 05:26 PM
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Nothing has changed and you're still fat.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/25 12:34 PM
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Youre so fucking deep in seeking validation from your wife it makes me want to puke, but it'll get better.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/25 10:20 PM
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When's the anger phase end? When you do something about it. That begins with shutting the fuck up. You can't even do that yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/25 10:14 PM
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Why do some of you treat this like a video game with levels, goals, and bullshit? Its boring and never works.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/25 10:13 PM
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For as retarded as you are, you think too much. Reread your OYS. It's just a bunch of thinking and hamsturbation.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/25 10:12 PM
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Good Man You've come to the wrong sub. Not that there isn't good men here who give good advice, but its that we are ammoral when it comes to sexual strategy. These two things cannot coexist, for you. Yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/25 10:11 PM
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Helluva first post. Equally as retarded as mine in a different way, but at least we had the sense to use askmrp.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/25 09:57 PM
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Enjoy the new flair, MRP Approved.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/25 07:30 PM
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Models by Mark Manson I've considered for many years adding this book to the sidebar under advanced reading. Ultimately, I decided not to because like WOTSM, when read improperly at the wrong time, it's a better-beta guide. Even more dangerous than WOTSM in my opinion. Frustrated chumps would walk around saying "but I told her who I really was, and what I was thinking, why doesn't she appreciate my authenticity????" If you can't be vulnerable, your frame is shit was my 5-year field report. It to…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/25 06:59 PM
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you want to lead an authentic life, and yet afraid to be vulnerable. You are just playing games, and women will see through you when you lie. I noticed the exact same in this OYS. OP's attempt at not being performative by: not cocky/funny. I'm asking genuine questions. Being more curious while pursuing (not chasing) Is all performative to get to his next game. It's not authentic.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/25 04:37 PM
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r/askmrp - but don't expect to be coddled.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/25 03:02 PM
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A summit reached is not a finish line. It's a signal to keep working to conquer the next peak. No. You missed my entire point. The goal is to no longer focus on the next peak. The goal is to understand that the real work happens preparing, and disciplining oneself, even having faith in oneself, to focus on the valley instead. To remain present, aware of the journey, and focusing on the now. When you've climbed enough mountains or slay enough dragons you realize it's not those that matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/25 01:56 AM
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Same shit, different year. Congratulations. You reached the imaginary finish line (quite literally, actually) and learned that you create hardships for yourself unnecessarily to provide your ego a sense of self-worth. Everything else is just a cope and/or autism. The real message here is this: great, so you've identified that you were chasing the dragon - which is a semi-more worthwhile (yet, pointless) dragon to chase since it's an internal dragon, not an external one. The goal here is not to b…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/25 08:23 PM
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I do not seem like the guy with options by any means. Says who? You really need to recalibrate this mindset. You're trying to appear to have options, which signals you don't have them. That is dancing monkey 101. Rather, dont cultivate yourself as a man with options, but a man who is on a mission to become a man who fucks. With, or without her. But she gets first shot. Your resolve to have a mutually satisfying sex life is an important part of that. Do you leave the house to go the gym? You shou…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/25 04:53 PM
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A little while back a woman told me she wanted to me to fuck her virgin ass upstairs, of course, after her screen lock was her husband and her. He was a bodybuilder. And faithful to her. From what she said, which was very little, he was retarded like you.
/r/askMRP09/11/25 01:27 AM
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> OP needs to set clear, strong boundaries with his wife and Kevin, then stand back and take action after he sees what happens next. All you guys talking about "boundaries" here when we should be talking about STANDARDS. It's pretty fucking standard that my wife doesn't spend time alone with or talk to other men. Not because I set down a godamned boundary. I've never even talked to her about it, honestly. Because I'm the kind of man that my wife respects. It's pretty much that simple. Respect is…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/25 09:36 PM
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sure? is that man tingles?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/25 08:57 PM
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Here's another this week. oh, and the modmail screenshot. seems some shills are pumping MRP out there on youtube vids or something
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/25 05:20 PM
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Now I am in my late forties and I never thought for a second that dating women in their twenties would be so easy. if you so desire, pussy will literally fall in your lap. It's almost comical at this point of my life. because: You are a man who needs to act like a man. Trust me, the dating market out there is brutal for women. Being a man right now is great. Glad to see you're doing well, Bogey. It's really hard until it isn't.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/25 05:15 PM
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Next time have her write your OYS. 26 "she" comments deserves a permaban.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/25 02:54 PM
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Rule 99999999999
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/25 06:08 AM
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That sounds to me like a worse starting position than the average dude who arrives having just read nmmmng and googling "why won't my wife fuck me"
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/25 06:05 AM
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woman is not actually able to tell me what is attractive, but can show me by her actions/reactions Stop looking at her words to gauge how attractive and sexually appealing you are. Pussy gets wetter this way.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/25 03:11 AM
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I had to approve just to rule 9 :)
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/25 03:06 AM
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Keep grinding. Most of what you're seeing and feeling is just you waking up, Neo.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/25 07:22 PM
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she’s had a low libido for a few years and we only recently pinned a contributing cause as perimenopause. She’s had some slight improvements with HRT but nothing significant yet. I'm not discounting periomenopause as a contributing secondary factor to her dry vagina, but do you know what fixes this better than anything? Being an attractive man who fucks. I want a partner (if any) who brings value to me in all dimensions of my life - especially desire. You mean.... validates you? Everything you'v…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/25 07:19 PM
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I went to a "cuddle party." I never imagined I'd read this at MRP. What the fuck is happening here that we have a new level of retardation?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/25 03:45 PM
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blah blah blah. When was the last time you fucked your woman?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/25 03:43 PM
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suspect that THAT feeling of being exposed / vulnerable is what really scares her, not my “anger.” You mean.... dread? Have you heard us talking about managing dread DOWN before? Welcome to that shitshow. Its a byproduct of being who we are, and the number one way to make the hamster get off the dread wheel is to supply it with another narrative that generates feelz also, but benefits you and her. Think about it. Perhaps your reluctance to provide it is tied up in your anger.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/25 05:51 PM
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Fuck it, I'll go down this hole. initiating and gaming are not the same. Correct. I shouldn't treat game as some required foreplay to go for an initiation. Correct. Because when you do, it changes the rules of the game and the creation of the game comes along with a new rule called, no in fact, it comes with a new contract, the one that says "I'll game you, and then I'll initiate. If my game is good, I'll get laid." But we're not going to say that out loud to her with this new set of rules, no..…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/25 03:22 PM
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jesus.... fucking retards.... It means that until you lose weight, all advice here will be meaningless and worthless.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/25 12:57 PM
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First question i fucking thought of, cut bait?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/25 04:48 AM
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You should answer FF honestly in his comment. Another thread to pull - dude, its been rushed. She was pregnant and you sucked beforehand. Didn't get laid for a year. That's on you, not her. Everything here is so rule 9 but I get it. You tried at least, but going back to act as if your wife were dead is still what you need, for you, not for her. Despite what she says, she likes you enough to fuck you. Just go with the program and ride the waves.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/25 04:45 AM
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No one here will give you quality advice until your weight is in the 200s.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/25 04:32 AM
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We can DM on the marital stuff. I haven't gone through the same, but women will women. You seem to have a good sense of things, but i think you are missing a very basic rule of women in general: without a narrative supplied they create their own. And women's feelings are lives waves of the ocean... until you let thse ocean boil. There's a machiavellian approach to this that I've only recently discovered. "I dont need to be rough with you to do bad things to you." Said just a week ago and I heard…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/25 04:25 AM
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Bruised more cervixes than I haven't. Oh well they asked for it. Good to see you doing good work here for the sub. just be so fucking awesome that she ignores Kevin’s msgs bc your attention is so much more valuable. This is sooooo good. But most and OP read this sadly as "what can I do to make me so much more valuable TO HER". It gets funny at some point I promise for the bottom 80% that the view is so narrow.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/25 03:59 AM
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Also using more kino to build things up throughout the day. See my other comment this week. Make sure that you aren't using kino as a means to fuck, because it doesn't work like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/25 07:18 PM
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she does say I've been clingy - I think this is mostly from me trying to up my game/kino/flirting through the day and not nailing it 100%. Maybe I'll say something unattractive, my timing will be off, or I'll escalate too quickly (vs instigate). Your woman should be the needy one. Not you. And personally, I love my woman like that. But again, I think you noobs here aren't understanding what "game" really is. You guys are treating "game" more like Kino+ where your entire underlying, covert reason…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/25 04:59 PM
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unprompted she said she will “cut back” on her texting with Kevin. Is that her way of admitting the relationship was inappropriate? Nope. She'll just be better at hiding it now.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/25 12:45 PM
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Your need for external validation is greater than your need to spend time doing things alone that matter. Your life must be so boring that your neediness trumps your ability to invigorate yourself alone with things that matter more than some validation needs being met. Your neediness trumps everything because it's more exciting to you than anything else. Like a puppy that just wants to suck on mommy's teet instead of explore, you're tied to mommy's tit.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/25 01:44 PM
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Tl;Dr my take is, let your woman do and be as she is. TLDR of the TLDR: It's not your job to mate-guard. It's hers.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/25 04:16 PM
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13% BF.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/25 11:27 AM
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I wasn't a formal player, but understood the need for always having 2 in kitty. I've said this many times but I always had the best beta gamed backed by social status and proof. the things she would do boggled the mind. This applies to all women. In the past year, over a cocktail, women have offered their ass up to me in their hotel, first anal time ever, after of course some innocent flirting, game and walking them through what it would take. Oh, and they were all married. At some point it is n…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/25 02:41 AM
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The reason spending time alone isn't invigorating is because you're boring, and needy.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/25 12:41 AM
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Nah, she just needs a slap on the butt. His name was Alex J Anderson.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/25 06:17 PM
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I've had a theory for awhile. It's not just OP that can't grasp the concept, it's that 9/10 guys who end up here can't grasp it because they've never experienced it before. I think it's much harder for these guys who: Weren't/aren't conventionally attractive Never really played the "game" and learned alot before getting married Never slayed pussy or fucked a fat girl to see how they respond differently to how attractive you are They're only frame of reference is "when we were first together the …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/25 06:13 PM
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Jfc.... you can't stop lying to yourself, can you? Even after 2 people are pointing it out how you're doing it, specifically, you double down. Throwing your drink down like a fucking retarded Karen IS being a whiny, frameless cunt.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/25 01:52 PM
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You're saying the right words, but doing fucking nothing about it. Kinda like a woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/25 12:58 PM
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In what fucking world does a day end with a "win" if you spike a drink on the ground like a middle-aged whiny Karen? How in the fuck do you even rationalize that?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/25 12:57 PM
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Despite everyone having an awesome day I did lose my shit at one point and spiked a fountain drink into the grocery store parking lot When you act like a retarded toddler, you'll get treated exactly the way you deserve. Get your anger under control. This is not normal. When you start to realize all that anger is because you suck, let us know.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/25 11:00 AM
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Wrong. They initiate, but they don't initiate like a man.
/r/askMRP14/10/25 06:30 PM
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Can't believe we have to make a rule for this, but 'tards are gonna tard. Rule 14: No A.I. Don't use AI to rewrite or refine your OYS post. It should be written in your own words, because the words you choose tell a lot about your current state, and often betray and expose you.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/25 05:36 PM
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You know what's great about anger? Once you diagnose it's source it becomes rocket fuel to change the things that matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/25 05:06 PM
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Banned for using AI.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/25 05:04 PM
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Or, you're currently not only a sack of shit, you are a lazy sack of shit who doesn't put effort into shit that matters. That even worse than sucking. Its a reflection.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/25 02:59 PM
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I dont think a better OYS is going to make things better, its just a reflection of who you are.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/25 02:20 PM
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Jfc these dumbfucks
/r/askMRP11/10/25 09:40 PM
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Glad the guy that has a total of 4 OYS under his belt is qualified to make the retarded diagnosis of BPD like most dumb cunts here. It's a trope now. I guess every woman with a shitty man has BPD.
/r/askMRP11/10/25 09:40 PM
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The fact you use "get" is implicit you have a covert contract. FutiliFighter pointed it out, and crushed your ego so you get angry. Anger is a good diagnostic tool
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/25 05:30 PM
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Amazing what a good dose of STFU can do. You're starting to see the forest for the trees.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/25 10:26 PM
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5x5 is a great start. You still didn't answer my question. When was the last time you called your dad? Given that you know your mother fed you bullshit about him, and how you're now filled with anger... and you didn't answer the question, AND your father has been reaching out.... Is than anger even real? Do you know that makes you a piece of shit son and an idiot? You have all the info at your disposal. I'm not saying the guy didn't make mistakes, but how can you not rationally connect this stuf…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/25 05:11 PM
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The receptionist replied, “You can take me home early from school today,” and they all burst out laughing. This is really odd and inappropriate towards a guy with a bench and squat at 200lbs.... especially at school picking up his daughter, in front of other females. You sure this happened, like this? I'm not saying you're lying, but you might be lying to yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/25 03:28 PM
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I followed a custom plan from a coach for the last 2 years: And your lifts are absolute trash for 2 years of lifting. Which leads to: jealousy issues that are destroying this relationship really bad at shutting up and not giving a fuck I was raised to believe I’m a “good listener” — something I was proud of idea about being “a good man” only when I initiate or “negotiate” (back rub for sex, dog walk for sex still sulking and feeling rejected I hope you realize that all of that is connected to: b…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/25 03:13 PM
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For one, there's been several discussions about this already. There were a couple of things he got wrong, that he later said were wrong. One of those was to "share this book with your spouse" and "talk about your journey". As well as the sex bullshit. This sub is for married men who want to apply RP concepts for sexual strategy in said marriage. It's pretty common sense that if you want to fuck, you should probably try to fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/25 02:57 PM
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HickoryWind suggest that I try the 6 month of no sex from NMMNG Who the fuck is that retard so I can ban him. Shit advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/25 01:05 PM
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the norm would be the husband sulking around, being petty, snarky, and thinking to himself “that’ll show that bitch”. Don't be that guy. That's the entire problem for these guys. You're sitting here saying "hey, you can try to not fuck your wife, and here's how you might want to think about it instead".... but here's the problem.... These guys are all fucking retarded. What I quoted above is 99.5% of dudes here and what they'll do. So, here you attempt to give them a tiny bit of prescriptive adv…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/25 01:41 PM
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Watch. what. she. does. not. what. she. says.
/r/askMRP03/10/25 01:32 PM
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"Real men"... ? Gtfo lol
/r/askMRP02/10/25 11:51 AM
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Took a cosmo quiz that says his choice of moving out to find himself was "the hardest thing I've ever done" after serving 6 years in prison.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/25 10:05 PM
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When you wake up the next day after a great fuck, nothing should be different. That's what being normal is.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/25 07:00 PM
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Are you fucking trolling us? My fucking god. Is it really true that I have only a 0.5% chance of succeeding? You are 29, an near-incel who wants to cocoon and wife up the first girl that touches his pee pee. You have a fatal case of oneitis. 0.5% is generous. The failure rate here is 95% and your OYS describes a complete loser.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/25 06:55 PM
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This is the only way you build your slut.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/25 04:51 PM
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Praising - I have done it occasionally but not enough. It is either a mental block or I feel like she might not have deserved that praise yet. I think I still have anger/resentment which I am trying to kill and finding it often hard. Your anger blinds you. The masculine grows by challenge, but the feminine grows by praise. It is a difficult practice for most men to learn, but you must learn to praise the very qualities you feel are not yet praiseworthy in order for them to become so. In other wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/25 03:53 PM
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You might be the most pathetic person to post in OYS in the last 5 years or so. But, you posted a OYS. Albeit, it was a whiny, self-deprecating, well-organized story of an actual retarded person. Throw in you were a virgin, nuked your relationship to "go find yourself".... at your new place are you getting those live/laugh/love signs to hang up also?\ Regardless, there is a 0.5% chance you make it here starting where you're at and have come from. Some men just need to fuck women to learn what wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/25 03:46 PM
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Living in a woman's head is exhausting, but you do you.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/25 03:23 PM
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Another thing I learned is that if I want sex at an exact moment, I need to gauge whether it’s coming from a place of validation/escapism or desire. When the prior, I start applying Kino and escalate over a day or 2 to replace the feeling with actual desire This is actually a decent realization. If you want to fuck, but perhaps for the reasons you don't want, take action and build attraction yourself so that you want to fuck her for the "right" reasons (according to you and your desires). Some o…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/25 01:37 PM
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"you don't express your feelings enough" How to express emotions like a man. A Man expresses emotion with Outcome Independence (OI), and never for validation, sympathy, or forgiveness.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/25 01:34 PM
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I am the same body comp as you, on average. Same height. I have been from 141 - 189, all at 11% BF. If I had the focus you do now, I would go 195, 14%, ditch the abs, and reap the rewards. I mean I kind of do have that but not like you now. Read book of book what every skinny guy should know.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/25 03:18 AM
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Love a good anger phase
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/25 01:25 AM
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the extreme changes that this program demands. Trying to find an escape hatch as I tend to do. I will not escape. Then start with the proper program. That includes heavy lifting. Not this bullshit pushups and pullups crap. If you want to get away from being a weak beta nice guy, the iron is the only way. Not the way you're doing it.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/25 02:29 PM
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How to pass shitty comfort tests. The example given in that post is exactly the same test OP got.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/25 02:18 PM
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I am saying you have oneitis and can't see that this ride you're hitching yourself to blew out all the tires in a month. You're basically fucking a woman who has a terrible track record with relationships, even most recently everyone left her, and here you are dick in hand saying "I like and believe in her!" Alright, Captain Saveaho.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/25 04:25 PM
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All this coming from a guy who's gf rarely saw him, and didn't make time for him. She's been acting better, so you reward her with a trip. You decide to take a guys trip, inform her. She has shit tons of comfort tests you ignore because yes, you can't see them. It makes perfect sense. Step 1 is being able to identify tests - a d distinguish if they are shit tests or comfort tests. Your girl has likely never comfort tested you before the renewed respect she has shown you. Because thats what her a…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/25 03:02 AM
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My company has been a shitshow lately. Our Chief Op Officer “resigned for health reasons” Friday. What a disaster this lady was - in less than five months on the job she managed to run top level people off, completely change the company culture, and kill morale all around. A month ago your boss left. Then your bosses boss. Now another Exec. I told you a month ago there was something you didn't know. You still don't. You need to be looking for a new job, today.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/25 09:36 PM
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We may have access to the nuke button, but they will always have access to the second trigger - your kids. That's their nuke.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/25 08:18 PM
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Pretty normal to see a fucktard like you excited to flex he's got a 450k TC, drives a Merc EQE, but yet... ... schedules sex. Stop being pathetic.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/25 03:08 PM
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Don't fix her problems, fix her feelz.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/25 03:06 PM
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This says zero about why you are here or what you are doing. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/25 07:00 PM
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I realized I was sailing the high seas and should throw up the sail and enjoy the ride. I felt good navigating what was going on and kind of enjoyed it. I was almost giddy withholding sex and gives hard nos 4-5 days a week. sex isn’t the goal Sex isn't the goal, yes. But it is important. The goal is to be a man capable of fulfilling his own sexual needs, which he defines. It says it right at the top of this subreddit: Married Red Pill (MRP) is a discussion for married men or men in long term rel…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/25 06:57 PM
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I kept thinking, How the fuck does she know my name? Something similar happened at my BBQ party at work. The blonde from the booking gave me a slightly longer hug and said, “We’re really going to miss you.” Honestly, these moments stuck with me a little longer than I’d like to admit. You realize this is.... normal right? It's an everyday interaction for a man who's worth a shit. But you dudes.... aren't normal. You're 6'4, #215. Have you not noticed this everyday for years? Listed to 70% of TWOT…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/25 02:04 PM
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Having just swallowed the pill, you're too young and too retarded and too inexperienced to remotely pull it off in a way that is good for you. Spin some plates, take a few years. Then you'll understand why we only give very limited prescriptive advice.
/r/askMRP23/08/25 04:34 PM
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Welcome to the retard playpen
/r/askMRP23/08/25 11:55 AM
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Nah, you missed what Rian was saying dude. Men can't vet for shit because they are mostly all incapable of answering "what do i want?" ... without lying to themselves. Furthermore even if they did define it, holding boundaries is a whole other ballgame. Not all men. Probably 95%+
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/25 12:15 AM
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Even a fuck on the washing machine can be exciting if you really want it to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/25 12:11 AM
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What a bunch of hamsturbation. What did you do this week? Not plan to do next week. Yet another dumb fuck thinking he can think his way into and out of this stuff. What the fuck did you actually do besides think about things?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/25 03:50 PM
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You dudes in your late 40's always being introspective and doing nothing. Thinking you can think you way into and out of this stuff.... One of my main focuses of the upcoming weeks is to craft and finetune my mission. So far: Ok, sure. I'll entertain it, but what is this guy doing about getting there? Health/Fitness/Strength: Been away from home Work: Not much Marriage: Didn't have much of a summer fuckall.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/25 01:34 PM
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Don't forget that just 2 months ago, this woman was barely seeing him during the week, she limited the time/attention, and rarely even fucked him. A whole few months ago. And now he's like "let's move in as a trial run". These idiots don't understand that if she was wife / mother material, she should have been auditioning the entire time well before he moves in with her. These fucking 25yo guys and their infantile giant egos with a hamster. I wonder if there's a group of men out there somewhere …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/25 01:29 PM
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Good sex requires emotion. It's the difference between banging some slut, or banging your slut. Earlier in our relationship, I would avoid any intimacy when I was upset. This time, however, I decided to relieve my anger on her. Its not a secret that after you took your anger out into her, and through her, that this happened later: When we had the session, it was really emotional. I could feel this delicate creature giving herself to me. she orgasmed the second I responded with, "I love you too."…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/25 12:08 PM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #4 NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/25 11:54 AM
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I have no doubt fucking like a man makes your cum shot larger. Some retard wrote a supplement plan on /r/askmrp about the holy grail of cum stack though. Good luck on drippin' like a faucet.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/25 02:17 AM
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don’t want to have sex anymore. I want to fuck, and fuck from the deepest parts of me. Really good realization here. When you nail this down it'll all make sense. Then who knows... maybe you want to fuck like a woman again.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/25 02:08 AM
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Lucky for you, you are allowed to make and enforce your own boundaries, even with yourself. Its pretty simple really. You make a list that says "I won't...." with to the point sentences. Things like: I won't live in a sexless marriage. I won't get fat. Then to the right of all those, in collumn 2 you write what you did last week to make sure that won't happen. This is literally how an OYS is constructed. Then, here at MRP guys are going to distill down and question you on if the first collumn if…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/25 04:49 PM
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IMO, really the only way to improve your game is to field test it with playing catch and release. Gaming one woman is not only tiresome, but dull and perhaps predictable long term. Plus, the feedback is meh. She already likes you. Catch and release gives instant feedback and keeps you sharp. Don't be surprised though when you have an existential crisis when you don't want to release the big fish once you're a capable fisherman, consistently catching trophies.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/25 04:17 PM
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I don’t want to deal with the guilt Then I guess you'll just have to suffer like a bitch, huh? know that I took the beta route to fill my needs Learn something new everyday. You heard it here first guys. If you fuck women because the one you're with won't fuck you, you're a beta male. Learned helplessness is a thing. How would you handle this situation if you were in my position? I wouldn't be in your position.
/r/askMRP11/08/25 07:05 PM
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One of the best pieces of advice I got here to being a good captain was so simple it made sense: Reset everyday. Resetting everyday allows you to rise above the shit that doesn't matter. For me, she's was holding onto the tow rope for a while, and then decided to step on board. Proceeding that - she tried to tear the whole fucking thing apart from the inside. Thats what women do to test. Reset everyday. Allow yourself the calmness to evaluate if it matters. Then act accordingly.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/25 03:27 PM
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The next morning was hungover starfish sex followed by relentless shit testing and shitty behavior. I think this is a reflection of the container I’ve given her and is thus my fault. It's probably more simple than that. I experienced the same thing in OYS #28, "If I'm nice she shit tests me for days." It's less about the container, and more about her fear of you turning back into a sappy, validation seeking, frameless blue-pilled little shit. You've been nice before for the wrong reasons, Mr. Ni…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/25 06:04 PM
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Seems the retards have been successfully culled back. I am going to make rule 9 bans now 14 days to maintain standards for the first violation. Some of y'all do need slaps on the wrist.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/25 01:38 AM
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Boss's boss (COO) was burned out and affecting his physical health. He took some time off and actually wanted to come back but it was too late The number of times I've heard this from fellow CxO's is.... alot. It's a very nice story that's told to push out C-level guys and it allows them to save face. Either way, I still stand by my statement. There's something you don't know.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/25 07:13 PM
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Your boss and your bosses boss have left within months of each other. Just be aware that there's something you don't know.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/25 04:57 PM
1

If you're in your 40's, imagine the 25yo version of you... but way smarter and with a ton of experience as you approach "jacked" status. How much would you give a fuck?
/r/askMRP01/08/25 07:02 PM
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Not my opinion, but it's been my observation over many years that MRP guys using TRT will create another coinflip if the marriage lasts, separate and distinct from the coinflip created when they found MRP.
/r/askMRP30/07/25 05:09 PM
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Banned for using AI. We want your own words, not a robot.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/25 06:53 PM
1

The Hamster Maze is a good read for you by Jackten. Right now you're in the middle of Scarcity -> Loss Aversion -> Anxiety -> [Anxiety-Reducing Behavior] -> Rinse, Repeat. I'm not doing a great job of comfort building at this point, but it seems to help to provide it throughout the week. I think you're making a mistake here, thinking this is comfort instead of direction. When you think about applying comfort, think instead about applying direction... nudging the Anxiety-Reducing Behavior in the …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/25 02:42 PM
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You're acting like you did when we first got together Hahahahahaha women are fucking hilarious. "What, you mean when you wanted to fuck my brains out all day and couldn't stop thinking about me, sweetheart?" The next day things had completely shifted. She was bouncing around, happy, smiling, flirting. I pushed kino all day with little resistance. That night we had the best sex we've had in forever. This is a good illustration of riding the waves of a woman. You "held frame", which in more simple…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/25 01:41 PM
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"you see that I'm pretty sick. It's not a good time for sex although I always want you, and I feel awful disappointing you. I wish you didn't have this expectation every time.". It was said in a sad and careful way, more fitting a comfort test than a shit test. Or maybe people are sick and don't want to fuck while sick, and you're an autist. Not everything is complicated.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/25 12:31 PM
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initially took the escaping sex for validation timeline quite literally and wasn't quite sure where I stood. You're stuck, repeating cycles like most guys. From that post: But you'll occasionally slip into old behaviors and try to reconnect with her by fucking for validation as a litmus test of the relationship. Sometimes those validation seeking initiations are successful because she is grabbing anything to generate feelz in the emotional stalemate. note: If you slip into old validation seeking…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/25 12:19 PM
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3-year term extension on my position on my city’s local development review board (vice-chair). I’ve also been spearheading a movement to make safety improvements on the intersection I live next to This is the boring shit I've read this week. But yeah go gettem bo!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/25 01:36 AM
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Recent weeks have been good, but this past week I’ve been rejected a bunch and it’s felt like a bit of regression on the momentum since starting MRP. Basing your own self worth on how much sex you get, huh? Been there
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/25 01:00 AM
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You write too much for how interesting you are.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/25 12:59 AM
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I should ban you. Even if csn see yoir wntire sexual frame is because you GIVE TOO MANY FUCKS about dancing around her. This is highly fucking pathetic for how long you've been here. Everything you wrote sounds like " I want this, but I'm too scared because I'm a bitch, so I'll just work up to it". Fucking puke.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/25 10:14 PM
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You missed WMP's entire point. I'd say because I do have to maintain that relationship if I want to stay in it The relationship is her job. Which is why none of that bullshit matters. Just lead, be attractive, fuck her well, and tell her to shut the fuck up. She'll come along or she won't. A woman's version of coming along is maintaining the relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/25 03:26 PM
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I chose to share my vision and invited her to join me on my ship. I made it clear the ship was moving with or without her. There was some shit testing around this.. "I don't think you want me with you" & "How do I know I can trust you". I've been acting dominant, and am not actually dominant. Yet. You fucking retards all do the same thing. Sharing your Grand Visiontm way too early in the process. You know, when we say STFU, it means STFU. The reason this is stupid as shit is because you aren't e…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/25 02:07 PM
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I can't help but see your path along the same lines as mine. Skinny guy gets bigger, more attractive, and the submissive wife goes absolutely apeshit in the process, but still wants to comply? Let's trade notes. At the gym, I received around 30 messages and 15 phone calls, which I ignored. I used to get these barrages all the time early on. On the other side, you realize that she's lashing out because she's losing control of you, and your new outcome independence. I did the same as you - just ig…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/25 01:58 PM
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we have to untangle 15+ years of shitty behavior that probably can't be overwritten And herein lies the problem: You are a man, and you think like a man. You're holding the history of your relationship with a woman to the same standard that you would with a man. Women do not work like this, nor have they ever. From TWOTSM, Chapter 33: A man's track record means nothing to the feminine. A man could be perfect for ten years, but if he's an asshole for 30 seconds his woman acts like he's always bee…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/25 01:41 PM
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Yes. He basically follows around Mystery for a year and wrote a book about it. That's the auto-biography, he did a followup book Rules of the Game that's more instructional, an focuses on 30-days-to-get-laid and an attached strategy from what I can remember.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/25 03:00 PM
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Acta non verba
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/25 11:28 AM
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HR professional Yep, you weren't that hard to figure out. I have no idea wtf that last sentence means. What is value to you?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/25 09:47 PM
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I bet your inability to concisely STFU is exactly why you're at where you at. You strike me as the guy who: Thinks he can talk his way in/out of things Talks about his goals and what he's going to do, but never does them. Openly talks about his wife about his feelings and thoughts about the relationship. Did you know that when you talk about your goals, and what you're going to do - you get the same dopamine hit as actually doing them? That's why you aren't seeing any change. You suck and talk y…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/25 04:35 PM
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I agree 100%. It's also worth noting that this mental shift, at least in my experience and reading OYS for years here, can't happen until you're about 6 months in. That posts comes with disclaimers right at the top in bold for the exact reasons you state: The keyword in the title of this post is "WILLING". -- I'm not advocating pushing the button. Nor am I condoning it. -- If you aren't at least 6 months into your journey and past the anger phase, please save this post for later. You will blow s…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/25 04:26 PM
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When unplugging, did you face childhood trauma when confronting your BP models? Look dude, I'll be as nice as possible as I can about this because you're not a compete dumbass, but you're also really naive. No one gives a fuck about you, and no one certainly gives a fuck about your childhood trauma. So why do you care? This therapy bullshit of rumination is exactly what gives therapy a bad name. Have you ever considered that thinking about your problems all the time actually make the problems gr…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/25 07:00 PM
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You're welcome. But for what it's worth, despite that grand speech and my genuine desire to be authentic in it, my son turned 18 and ghosted me. No fights, no words, no explosions, no real problems really. That was a year ago. I think it's fair to issue this warning to you about your kids.... if you do this MRP thing right, you need to accept now that you might be divorced when it's done. We are here to save the man, not the marriage. We used to warn guys about this up front all the time moons a…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/25 05:54 PM
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My case was one of what I described to you just now; shit testing that turned into more aggressive testing, to nuclear shit testing, to thermo-nuclear-meltdown shit testing.... all of which happened in 6 months, until my woman finally looked in the mirror and confronted her own ego with my help when the shit testing no longer served a purpose. It seemed like alot more guys went through that scenario back then. Maybe because we focused a lot more on calling each other fagboys. u/tyred_biggums was…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/25 04:58 PM
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As far as your son, I said something to mine that I think made a difference once, because when my father told me it made an impact: You're about to be an adult, and it's not like you haven't had to make decisions for yourself before, but sometimes you'll make decisions as an adult and you'll be in some real trouble. Or sometimes shit just happens to you. Son, I want you to know that no matter how big of a problem you get yourself into, you can call me and we can work together on fixing the probl…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/25 04:21 PM
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You laid out some boundaries. Now be prepared to enforce them. Otherwise, they aren't boundaries.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/25 04:07 PM
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You did a great job on that STFU session of 20 minutes. That shit is HARD at first and you'll start doubting if it's the right move. Just keep shutting the fuck up like a autist and keep on lifting. In time, it'll all come around. Until then, you can expect the hard no's to ramp up and the shit testing to intensify. Women do this to men because they can't figure you out anymore. Suddenly, this guy has shown up who isn't falling for all the old tricks anymore, so she'll keep trying them until it …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/25 02:34 PM
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You did nothing at all, sans cocaine for 4 days, and whined about everything. Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/25 02:29 PM
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One night she was being annoying (not shitty, just silly) and I told her to roll over so I could spank her. She immediately complied. Saturday night, she wanted to relieve some anxiety. I helped lead her to the conclusion that my dick would be a good remedy, which it was. We fucked, and both of us slept great. On Sunday, when she started getting a little anxious, I spanked her and asked if I was going to have to fuck the anxiety out of her again. Her response was "yeah, probably." You really sho…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/25 02:26 PM
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She is always falling apart, having a bad day, unable to cope, etc. And I have been taking that onboard, I have been trying to fix her problems Don't fix her problems, fix her feelz. She almost 100% LMRs and her whole ‘game’ is wanting me to overcome her LMR. Women want to fuck a man who wants them. They also don't want to fuck boys who give up so easily. It's THE game women play, I find myself being put off by that and it kills the mood. Because you get angry that your covert contract isn't ful…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/25 02:13 PM
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When I am not straight forward like that, I initiate by being playful. I sing little songs like “ I’m in the mood for love, simply because you’re near me!” She always laughs, it’s goofy and we both have a good time, even if it’s a hard no. Frame is everything here, of course, but just make sure you're not funny. Playful is good. Funny is not. The fine line is if you're using humor as a shield against rejections, whether you know it or not. It'd be worth looking inward to determine this for yours…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/25 01:57 PM
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Where does it say anything in there about honesty?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/25 05:14 PM
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What if i told you, Neo, that there's subtext there only a woman, or a man who's worth a shit and knows how women operate would understand. In time perhaps you too will get it.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/25 02:34 PM
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You need to read wmp's guide to accusation of affairs. Basically it's this: I love you enough and respect you enough that if I'm going to have an affair, I will be sure that you're the first one to know. I guarantee I'll do you that courtesy. I expect you to do the same. Hopefully though, we don't give each other reasons to have affairs. I dont think most guys here really understand the first sentence and what it really means.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/25 12:46 AM
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have to think this disconnect is some kind of shit testing behavior I still haven't heard a nice thing about my changes. The Epic Test.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/25 04:05 AM
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Gotta love a good anger phase story with dominant dngaf fucking.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 11:05 PM
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You don't want to be "fairly fit". You want to be yoked. This would be the mindset of every single fucking "fit" guy out there if they dropped the ego. Given the choice, and laying out the results of both body types and their life results, if a guy chose fit he'd be retarded and lying to himself. But most guys who are fit really will never know what it's like to be big and fit.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 07:07 PM
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Home life swings between a conventional loving home and chaos (70/30). Women are waves of the ocean, Captain, and despite your age and clearly attached ego of being "RP aware" for 10 years, you're still just a lil' Captain in Training.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 07:04 PM
1

How'd it go? What'd you learn?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 06:46 PM
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At 20% bf, I wouldn’t think you need to est above maintenance. See, I'd be with you here normally but the guy weighs 163lbs at 5'8. He has zero idea how to eat. He's likely carrying shit weight that'll shred in the gym quickly as a noob, and he has a history as a runner. It's all in his belly wastewater IMO, and he probably has little to zero muscle mass. If he didn't eat above weight he'd end up at a skeleton 140lbs in 6 weeks of lifting that hard. If I had to do it all over again I wouldn't ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 06:33 PM
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How did it go? What did you learn?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 06:25 PM
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This one was “she” heavy No, this was reflective, not reactive. There's a major difference. That's why if you read through my OYS history, you'll see "she" in there, but past my OYS #8 or so, I got this nuance. It's about seeing things, and then having introspection to reflect on if they're right or not, making a decision, and then taking action. All of which you did here. Rule 9 bans are for dudes who can't make this nuanced distinction, or likely never will. This rule went in after I went thro…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 04:57 PM
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Do you always put off what you know you need to do because of silly women? Why do you even fucking care about the testing? What the fuck dude, why are you even here then? Should I just ban you? A better answer would have just been "no". But, here we are.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 03:30 PM
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I don't know how to realistically replicate that with four of us sharing the same dinners. I do have a lot more control over my other meals, so I can start there Easy. Eat larger portions of the foods you need to eat. If she's cooking Chicken, a starch, and a vegetable.... put you or your wife to work for you. "When we cook, I need 2 servings of the main protein." That's not hard. Fuck off with vegetables, just don't eat them, they take up valuable room in your tank you need to fill with premium…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 02:58 PM
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You're fucking dense, aren't you? This vibe isn't something that occurs. It's something you create. You contemplated fucking a whore, kinda wish you did, and then come home to a "vibe"... you think that's coincidence? Stop being reactionary to everything in your life, and stop being a bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 02:29 PM
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It's good to see you back, but if you're back, you're back for a reason, and it's not to continue to give us a history lesson. Looking forward to you using this place for what it's intended for next week.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 02:24 PM
2

Time to demote her, never to rise again. The Bitch Management Guide.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 02:17 PM
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Every unhappy wife is a rape victim.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 02:14 PM
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Most of this was puke but here's two things I see: In the past I just generally did not give a fuck about anything and smoked weed all day long everyday I have an extremely bad habit of getting too drunk when we’re drinking together What is your real, exact plan to address this? What are you going to do, starting today?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 02:08 PM
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doesn't let failure bother him Is your mission to be a robot? This is retarded and impractical. Failure should bother you, but not how you think.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 02:02 PM
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Weight gain is hard. I strongly dislike eating the amount required to gain weight, but I've just been viewing it as part of what I have to do I can appreciate you being real about this here.... You really need to treat this as if it is your new part-time job. If you're not already, get the paid version of Myfitnesspal and log everything that goes into your mouth, especially looking at your macros with a heavy emphasis on protein. At peak, I was eating 280-330g protein a day, which is equivalent …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 01:49 PM
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Can't get any validation from it, as it's just her job to fuck for money. So I was thinking the fuck could only have been out of pure desire from my side. Basically, to gauge where I'm at on this front. Or am I seeing this wrong? Nope, you're not seeing this wrong. But, there's a reason I wrote that, and it's this: Funny thing, when I came back home and kissed my wife goodnight in bed late at night, I sensed a vibe she'd be open to initiation. when an initiation will be successful. I sense a cer…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 01:08 PM
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I just saw his ILYBINILWY post... he got the exact words. It's done.
/r/askMRP30/06/25 10:28 AM
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Yet another time I have to say: Good sex is your responsibility.
/r/askMRP29/06/25 03:46 AM
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After all these years here I still haven't decided which path, and the attached ego, I want to satisfy. Somedays, and for long stretches i think I've decided, but that decision too is like waves of the ocean for me. I have learned to accept through a lot of introspection that will never change for me. I think that means being OK with taking your foot off the gas in some areas, but we also come to understand what the results of that are and to most that's unacceptable, at least for periods of tim…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/25 03:51 PM
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The Beta Shit Goblin. You'll never get rid of him because he is the yin to the yang that is post RP awakening.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/25 12:30 PM
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It needed to be posted, I've been trying to find a way to explain this to retards.
/r/askMRP26/06/25 03:22 PM
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"I will have to think about that." Next time, if you can't stfu. Because she was right.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/25 11:11 PM
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Seems you're the only one who's sucked here. Cool.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/25 11:10 PM
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threw a tantrum after my wife criticized a past financial decision of mine as “peak stupid,” Was it peak stupid, or not?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/25 08:53 PM
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Yes. Not only are you displaying a lack of frame, but you're trying to explain your lack of frame, which is a double whammy. Learn to STFU.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/25 08:52 PM
2

How fat is your wife?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/25 08:51 PM
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You focus too much on the storm, rather than your ability to chart your course. Stop trying to control the weather and you'll see that it doesn't matter. Then, you can decide whether to pick a new destination.
/r/askMRP25/06/25 12:17 PM
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Most of the time I am happy with the relationship. We usually have passionate sex, she's fun, checks my boxes and I'm enjoying. But then other times, there are weeks of total lack of availability and enthusiasm to make any effort to see me, we can go weeks without meeting which leaves me unsatisfied. Women's feelz are like waves of the ocean, and you're a young junior captain on the high seas. What'd you expect? You say it's not a drunk captain scenario. OK, sure. But you're 25 dude, in a 3 year…
/r/askMRP25/06/25 11:25 AM
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Your mean card probably looks retarded, so don't play it. Instead, I'll give you this gem from jackten. Couple things of note: you're exiting when your frame is busted, and you're also trying to communicate overtly like a retard. The next morning, your wife may want to kiss you goodbye before you go to work, as she often likes to do. You will be upset once again, wondering why she gets the attention and intimacy of a kiss while you get nothing in return.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/25 09:27 PM
1

I don't think a vasectomy is the right or wrong thing here. Thats for you to decide, outside of MMSLP frame. I can tell you my personal opinion, and alot of guys I've talked to about it that regret it. There's not alot of them, but there are those that do. I won't ever get one. I believe that the psychological damage it would cause me, and my partner because I'm essentially "sterile", would be incongruent with my frame. On the other hand, it could have the opposite effect. You're free to fuck mu…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/25 04:36 PM
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That's the funny thing about words. They always betray you and your innermost thoughts. Kind of like "getting" sex. When I see those words, it makes me puke for dudes. But, sometimes we need someone else to point out those words to us to have us reflect. We don't expect you to be a robot thinking about everything you write. In fact, it's best if you don't try and reflect much. My point about you lying was that you were lying to yourself, and wanted to see if you could find the motivation behind …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/25 03:08 PM
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she ended up on all fours in our shower. It wasn't the best sex, but it wasn't bad and it seems to have had the desired effect. I have not had nearly as many shit tests this week, although they certainly haven't stopped. The consensus last week on my wife's behavior was that I needed to fuck her good. No, the consensus last week was that you needed to fuck the bitch out of your wife. That's a different mindset than "fuck her good". You tried to fuck her good. And thus, the sex wasn't the best. Y…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/25 02:57 PM
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Dude, why the fuck did you lie in your OYS then? You should really look deep into that. No one here gives a fuck what the truth is. If you hate condoms, just fucking say it. This is yet another example of a shield you use (ego) to protect your own feelings. You have to start putting the truth out there.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/25 02:03 PM
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Whoah whoah, you're not bothered by condoms? Lies. I'd rather just not fuck if I had to have one. What's keeping you from taking charge here and just having her go get the shot? 90 days good, done. Every girl I've asked has gladly done it, cause you know, Daddy's creampies are the best. Figure this out. You did the right thing by changing the tone. It was a compliance test, and women who love their men love them. Boss her around some more, watch her turn into a bigger slut, and expect more simil…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/25 11:56 AM
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I never knew this was a term when I wrote this 6 years ago.
/r/askMRP24/06/25 12:26 AM
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Not from Rian, it's an older concept from 13 years ago. Most reponsible teenager in the house
/r/askMRP22/06/25 01:54 AM
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Found the random that doesn't lift.
/r/askMRP21/06/25 01:27 AM
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It's more like "keeping" her means that you are constantly having to manage dread down, instead of up, just to keep the woman sane. Because yeah, you really care about her - and who wants their woman walking around like an anxious mess all the time? It all honesty, it's harder to manage dread down than up and it's annoying.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/25 02:46 PM
2

The secret to keeping a woman is to be the best she’s ever had while simultaneously convincing her—through both your highly desirable attributes and the lingering, yet subtle, threat of your immediate egress should she fuck up—that you’re the best she will ever get. Im on the other side of this and often contemplate, like alot of other vets, if "keeping" her is worth it. Because we really understand d what the word "keeping" meant when roosh wrote it. It's not the frame you imagine.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/25 02:21 AM
1

Women are like cats.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/25 02:11 AM
2

Ok, guess this guy knows better
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/25 02:11 AM
2

Being not fat and proper workouts work too. Yet you argue with everyone here. Your ability to focus long term is your problem and you're constantly in search of a quick fix. Thats unattractive.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/25 02:05 AM
1

I think you're hiding behind your fears. You said yourself you initiated all the time. Then settled. Instead you're reading and trying to apply seduction and you're fat and unattractive.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/25 01:41 AM
2

I think a 24/7 would be impractical, given the kids (unless I'm wrong here) Yeah, you're wrong. You're mistaking protocol needs within the dynamic. It's not always high protocol. Just cement a few daily/weekly rituals, feel free to DM me on mine. It's not something that gets "shut off" if you're doing it right. You figured this out because your bitch was collared 24/7. So is mine, for 7 years now. Does it wane, ebb, and flow? Sure. But it's always there. Not only is my current version of myself …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/25 07:44 PM
3

Son, you need to fuck the bitch out of this woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/25 04:20 PM
2

who wants to fuck someone they resent. I didn't know we were trying to fuck ourselves here.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/25 04:17 PM
0

Are ya'll so fucking retarded you can't figure out how to be calm, collected, and immovable - but also warm, inviting and invigorating? Oh wait, that shit is called "frame". No wonder.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/25 04:16 PM
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Cuddling at night, I was asked if I'll get disappointed if sometimes she's not in the mood for sex, Givin' away the cuddles for free, I see. Cuddles ain't free.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/25 04:15 PM
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the only thing that feels organic to me is trying to work suggestive things into normal conversation without being too obvious about it. Do you always try to think and act like a woman?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/25 04:13 PM
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... part 4... You're going to pull away quite a bit from her, if you keep this up. And that's the way it's supposed to be. You're supposed to be in the front, leading, and better. That's what men, and women want (and need) to be in a successful relationship together. Ever see the woman dragging her husband around a bbq taking the lead? Do you think that dude is happy? Or, do you see guys with their wife on their arm, introducing her to others, proud of her, and do you think they're both happy? Y…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/25 04:01 PM
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ok, this makes a lot more sense now to me why you're "getting it" a lot more than most guys here. You haven't mentioned the D/s stuff before, thankfully. And I'm happy you haven't because if you're doing it right, you don't need to. I understand why you've said it now. Mind if we don't mention it again? There's too many retards here that want to play Captain McLarpDom You understand power exchange and power dynamics. Not sure if you were 24/7 like me, but here's the thing: This is the natural or…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/25 04:01 PM
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.... part 2.... Free yourself sexually first Inside of every woman is a little slut that is begging permission to be freed. Either she has met her before, or she has been chained inside of her for the entirety of her sexual history. This is the part of her that wants to be unleashed in the bedroom – and ironically the part of a woman that you want unrestrained as well. Women just want permission for it to be OK. You give a woman permission to do so by freeing yourself first. Here's the banger...…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/25 01:50 PM
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I’ve had a drop in attraction/ sexual interest towards other women. It’s not entirely gone, but it’s like my brain is just automatically disregarding other women as “just another pussy”. I think porn internally pedestalised women for me. It could be connected, but let me offer this alternative view: Perhaps now that you've stopped the porn and allowed you own sexual imagination to wander, and at the same time DOING THINGS rather than masturbating about them, you're getting results. Notably, from…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/25 01:49 PM
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You're 3 OYS in. Anger is part of the process.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/25 12:27 AM
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a real Redpill-broTM never says I love you
/r/askMRP11/06/25 01:49 PM
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Good point. And let's not forget - if you've found yourself in the situation of numerous covert contracts, a sex-denying harpy cunt wife, you're above 25% BF, can't carry your woman up the stairs without getting out of breath, and are an autist about sex .... and you find this place on the internet by googling "Why won't my wife fuck me?"... Yeah, it's a 95% fail rate. Because most who find this place are complete losers and will always be losers. They've been losers for 10+ years, and it takes …
/r/askMRP11/06/25 01:46 PM
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> maybe you should just quit Don't worry they always do.
/r/askMRP11/06/25 01:42 PM
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Try a visualization exercise.
/r/askMRP11/06/25 02:00 AM
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Ive read the sidebar and many other posts, read NMMNG, WISNIFG, and MMSLP. I understand many of the points I should be focusing on (and not my wife) such as lift, STFU, build my own social life, find hobbies, spend time away, frame, etc...but sometimes I struggle on the how of implementing this. "Hey guys, I know everything I'm supposed to do, but why am I still a fucking loser? And why does she wants an open marriage?"
/r/askMRP10/06/25 06:45 PM
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Really good OYS. You're doing things. Like I said before in your previous OYS: You might be one of the rare cases where a wife supports and loves this new version of you, and has been waiting forever for you to use your balls - because she never took them. You just gave them to her like a retard and she wasn't even asking. Just keep STFU and make this whole process seem like superman was awakened inside of you. Don't tell her how you're making the sausage, just make the fucking sausage and stuff…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/25 03:59 PM
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I’m not perfect in this, but by saying it and not sitting in all the mental gymnastics I don’t get resentful. Better plan? Do it instead, or do it while you say it. You guys here just don't get it. You have to use ACTION in your lives. So, this made her wet.... then what? You just put the pussy to bed wet? Imagine you actually start DOING THINGS, like guiding her head down to your dick, and then you actually start DOING THINGS like telling her she's a good girl who's so pretty while she sucks so…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/25 03:52 PM
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We fucked on Sunday, and I nearly ruined it by trying to finger her, unsuccessfuly ofc. Historically I was obsessed with making her cum, so as soon as my fingers touched her pussy, it dried faster than if I shoved a pack of dessicant there. Validation needs that can poison your sex life. I just want to experience and enjoy some hot female body, have a good time and cum hard so that I am not horny for couple of days from my comment on that post: "It turns out that my wife desired my desire." A wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/25 03:39 PM
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My mom came to speak to me a week ago, it seems my wife told her the relationship had deteriorated and how “I wasn’t treating her right”. I didn’t put any thought into it as this has happened before, but yesterday I sat down with my dad for coffee and he told me my wife came over on Friday, in short told him “she can’t control me anymore”. We had the most meaningful conversation we’ve had in a long time. On one hand, it's good that your wife trusts your parents (I'm guessing this is YOUR dad/mom…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/25 03:13 PM
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by applying give that bitch nothing to do but fuck you I learned that things can’t be done half assed, postponed. I'm glad you figured this out, but kinda miffed it took you a year to realize. Thats ok though, you got there. I added this post to the sidebar last week under the anger section. Which means... you’re still angry. Doesn't matter, got laid.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/25 11:46 AM
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So wait... 4 year monogamous LTR, you basically live together, she's the best you've ever had, and you've never told this girl you love her? I'm generally able and willing to be an asshole, but maybe you're retarded with comfort tests. Why can't you guys be normal? Either way, make your own decisions and decide if this is a boundary for you and enforce it.
/r/askMRP07/06/25 11:37 AM
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stories where guys were very persistent before the woman finally fell in love with him Bluepilled hollywood stories you mean. Part if the matrix. Are those relationships always going to be doomed to fail? If she's your only option and you pine and cater to her like a bitch, yes, for you. But not necessarily for her when she cucks you. she left me on delivered Chad never cared or noticed. LTR is probability of a successful marriage, ie. never getting divorced. Staying married doesn't mean you're …
/r/askMRP07/06/25 12:34 AM
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This is the only comment that matters
/r/askMRP05/06/25 02:36 AM
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Your words will always betray your inner most thoughts.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/25 11:17 AM
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Give that bitch nothing to do but fuck you.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/25 01:44 AM
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Still more retarded. A better question is are you doing the work, or not? What the fuck does it have to do with her, still?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/25 12:34 AM
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reading and researching ways to live off grid This reads more about fantasizing and hamsterbating about escapism from your shitty life than it is improving it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/25 10:24 PM
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Sex: pretty good but could be better. All kids are young, so it’s hard to find time to fit this in. You know who doesn't make excuses like this? Guys with less, more or equal amount of kids as you. The difference is they're with a woman who wants to fuck them.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/25 10:23 PM
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You might be one of the rare cases where a wife supports and loves this new version of you, and has been waiting forever for you to use your balls - because she never took them. You just gave them to her like a retard and she wasn't even asking. There’s been no major shit tests...yet. Wrong. why are you sexualising everything? I think there’s something wrong with you? Are you going through a mid-life crisis Was a shit test. we can do it later- we don’t have a bed to do it.” Shit test. The third …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/25 08:53 PM
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You're fucking retarded. Do I want to fix our relationship The relationship is her job. Not yours. Have you read nothing here?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/25 08:41 PM
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I felt it was solely meant to hurt me. And it worked. Let that sink in.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 08:57 PM
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Son, you can't stop sucking dick yet. What makes you think you can put gloves on now and get in the ring like a heterosexual man?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 08:38 PM
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good turnaround
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 08:32 PM
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The prophecies are true. I treated her like a whore and the sex was great. I keep telling guys this, but my posts, then DMs get flooded with fagboys saying I'm wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 08:31 PM
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using sex as the yardstick, then the sex gets better as a side effect, then I get too focused on using sex as a yardstick, then the sex gets worse as a side effect. This is the cycle that women desire you to be in, although it goes against their mating strategy. See, their mating strategy is "If I fuck him for X, I will get Y". AWALT. They'll never admit it, but for most women their only currency is sex. That's why when you watch these retarded redpillbros on youtube they always ask women "What …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 08:12 PM
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Stfu isn't hard. Maybe try a visualization exercise: every time she tries to get you to respond, remember you're a fag, and if you open your mouth, you're gonna suck that dick.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 07:02 PM
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Agree and to clarify: TWOTSM for newbs is a shortcut to becoming a better beta. It's advanced for a reason.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 06:56 PM
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You've been at this year. You have my permission to go "rambo". I say this jokingly because most guys here don't actually remember what the term actually means and confuse it with actually being assertive. Most think it's one day they wake up and say "Fuck it. Fuck all of it. Imngoing to do what I want. I'm going to fuck how I want, when I want, and if she doesn't get on board, fuck her too." That's not Rambo. If you had been here on OYS #8 and did all that one day, it would be at worst uncalibr…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 06:53 PM
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Haha glad you spotted it too. I'm pretty sure the oak just stands there in the storm, and isn't running around doing errands for a sexless cunt.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 04:02 PM
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My wife knows I hate milk and called me out on just drinking it for the protein. I said "yep," and she laughed and said she'd buy extra milk when she shops next. initiated twice this week alone my wife can't seem to keep her hands off my shoulders and back. She actually grabbed me from behind in the shower and ran her hands over my shoulders and pecs What every skinny guy should know has held true 100% in my personal experience. You have a decent, fun wife. She's been waiting for you forever to …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 03:57 PM
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And retards for comedic value.
/r/askMRP25/05/25 12:14 AM
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Thousands of years of negotiating desire turned out great for Indian men, didn't it? I mean look at you, you're in great shape.
/r/askMRP25/05/25 12:14 AM
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american-indian guys Glad you said it. These fucks are the worst with women, hands down.
/r/askMRP25/05/25 12:12 AM
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Given how you're enamored with 2 imaginary plates, and now deciding between the two, of which only one you've fucked twice in 3 years, and never lived with either, while your pinay girl is fucking her boyfriend(s), I'd say youre going to be real stellar in an LTR as a RP guru bro. overseas passport bro'ing Pakistani Honestly, you'd fit right in with this crowd and it's probably best for men with no frame who's only option is to either: A) get sucked into an LTR where you lose all frame, get deci…
/r/askMRP25/05/25 12:10 AM
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Oh man. I see the problem now. if I can create the sex life I want and enjoy – or not, and then think about consequences This is your problem dude. I was dead set, congruent, and committed to having the sex life I wanted. And how did I communicate this to my wife? "I will have a mutually enjoyable sex life." The second iteration i gave at one point was: "I will have a mutually enjoyable sex life, and I prefer that is with you." It wasn't an "if", ever. That's your problem. You aren't committed. …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/25 09:08 PM
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take her out of subspace by telling her what to do or how to look or how to act. This doesn't make sense at all. In subspace, this stuff is actually required, and what deepens it. Im not sure that's what is going on here. the argument for rejecting these actions are because they are not what I truely desire but what I'm used to see in porn Are you watching any porn? Easy response "i don't do that anymore."
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/25 02:37 PM
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I'm not there when you're fucking, but i can take a stab at this: the second I start to own her body and demand certain actions is when she closes In order to have dominant, controlling behavior during sex you need two things to be successful. First, be attractive. Second, creating safety. The latter is more along the lines of step 2 in "don't be unattractive". Its not like she isn't willing to give up control, albeit in hysterical bonding ways evidenced by: she begged me to punish her and slap …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/25 12:49 PM
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This is a good OYS and you're doing all the right things. You guys start well, but can't seem to accept that it's going to suck for a while. This isn't a speed run. It's going to take long sustained action to increase sex. With your wife or otherwise. The hardest part is the mental, but don't worry, you're on the right track. Just accept that it's going to suck because you suck and suck it up by shutting the fuck up. Autistically even.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/25 11:57 PM
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that's kind of pervert and other shit tests, not in a playful but serious tone I saw this too, which culminated with a main event. FWIW, even though I got the same response and threatened with divorce (which was the first time she ever said it), I had an immense and solid frame behind me. I came with an open heart and 100% congruent frame. So, something tells me this is still about you, as it always was, and it's a frame issue. To become a man who fucks, you have to be a man who fucks. You must …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/25 01:34 PM
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But he's trying so hard to be the hero for his kids.... faggy
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/25 06:55 PM
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He's just not broke enough.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/25 01:51 PM
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Thank you for coming back and updating us. You were always an admirable example of it doesn't matter how long you were programmed, it's always within your power and control to get what you want - through action. 5 days in the gym a week.. at 70. I'm speechless. Keep fucking that great-grandma to the grave. Your wife must be the happiest woman alive. If you don't mind, and have the time, can you tell some of the guys here where you were when you started?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/25 01:32 PM
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don't want to taste new pussy. Nah, he did that earlier this year. Went OLD and fell into the repeatable pattern of pussy for validation, again, and everything went to shit and he stalled. Like I said last week, this guy just keeps circle jerking himself.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/25 12:29 PM
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The bed stuff sounds fine to me. I'd also cut out the cardio dude. It's an identity you need to strip, still. You need to get jacked, not runner jacked. My problem is bringing it out consistently. Your problem is being more consistent with yourself. Your frame says everything here you need to know. You dont bring it out of her. You bring it out of yourself. This is how your slut is freed. You have to free yourself first: Free yourself sexually first Inside of every woman is a little slut that is…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/25 12:19 PM
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You're going to have a lot of fun building your slut if you can get out of your own way (your head and hers). Your woman is clearly a closet slut, begging to be freed from the sexual prison you put yourself in - and by all accounts her as well. The signs are there from an outsider perspective. You might have caught this just in time. Keep reading my OYS, you'll see. Also, get the kids out of your bed if they're sleeping there. Your bed is for fucking and sleeping only.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/25 11:36 AM
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I can feel the butthurt in you. It will give you focus. It will make you stronger.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/25 11:21 AM
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takes time to heal but last weeks and month my mind is in another place and I doubt that I have felt True Desire ever before I have an exercise for you. I think your problem is probably two things: lingering anger, and the inability to re-engage your mind and imagination sexually. Perhaps sexual shame is in there too. You'll need to find new pathways: Next time you're wondering if feelz are there just stop. Don't try to calibrate if and why they are there. Instead, just remain silent. Push yours…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/25 11:06 AM
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Getting tired of putting out so much for the good girl, to be honest. It doesnt matter if I take my dick away, or use it, I've grown... shall we say, apathetic to the whole game with her? I'm operating on dread level infinity and I'm not doing shit except trying to manage dread down nowadays. How about you?
/r/askMRP20/05/25 10:38 AM
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And then one day, you don't want to fuck her, and have to. Simply to keep the feminine demons in check. That's a mindfuck for these guys.
/r/askMRP19/05/25 11:25 PM
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"Blah blah blah".... with you. Cardinal rule of MRP.
/r/askMRP19/05/25 08:06 PM
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Shitty comfort tests will be the norm. She's pregnant. I've always looked at it this way - if a woman gets an excuse to need more comfort, carrying your child is probably the only time it's plausible and reasonable. Dread will make your life miserable. Ramp up the cuddles, but maintain boundaries. I'd want my baby's mother reasonably more comfortable at this time. They're looking for security as their #1 priority, and the dual mating strategy becomes a single strategy. Watch what she does, not w…
/r/askMRP19/05/25 03:32 PM
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first instinct is to burn it all down and crush her but then I started to think about the kids. If I play nice to at least keep her from becoming a monster I make my kids life easier. Sorry dude, but this isn't going to happen. Take it from a guy who also got ILYBINILWY nearly 2 decades ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/25 11:44 AM
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OP is banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/25 01:50 PM
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Using AI to write your OYS is an instant and permanban. The idea behind OYS is that it's in your own words. Vets here can see through those words because they often betray you, and point out clear things you can't see. Convince me otherwise.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/25 01:49 PM
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We had sex a few days ago because she "felt like she owed me"... Hahahaha, women. Stop listening to a single word that comes out of her mouth. Watch what she does, not what she says. women should want to have sex. My wife doesn't, Get out of her fuckign head. You don't know this. You only think you know because of what she SAYS. But what does she do? She fucks. But then says "oh it's for you". Women are hilarious. She's pretty good at keeping you in that little box, isn't she? None of this matte…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/25 01:46 PM
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Oh bitch please. Her therapist started a personal relationship with her, outside of sessions. Should we be waving a larger red flag with the words "you're a dumbfuck" on it? What in fucks name do you need to confirm? You sound pathetic. It's not a boundary for you because you won't enforce it.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/25 05:13 PM
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Haha, I knew it. She has apologized and cried over it and apologized for crossing boundary. Felt like she was trying to come back to my frame - but I’m not sure even what my frame is yet. So she came back to... something that you don't even know if it exists? Bro. Get your head out of your ass. She came back to security. Thats all. Anyways, thanks for confirming your wife is fucking someone else. "She won't fuck me, but asks for hugs."
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/25 12:37 PM
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Chatgpt - here is my OYS. Make sure you remove all "she" statements and make this innthe first person narrative so I don't get a rule 9 ban. Also, make sure everything is from my perspective only.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/25 12:32 PM
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No sex in 7 weeks, discussing divorce, couples therapy, separate bedrooms. My wife was telling me she had lost 10 pounds Out of curiosity, have you gotten the ILYBINILWY speech? My spidey senses are going off, help me test them.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/25 09:38 AM
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Is that a yes? Or are you divorcing?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/25 05:45 PM
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Sometimes it takes guys a little longer than most.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/25 03:23 PM
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With as skinny as you are, and your ego attachment to being a runner, you'd be good to read my entire OYS year post. You say you want more consistent sex. That happens when you're more consistent with being a man worth a shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/25 02:58 PM
2

This guy goes around in circles gangbanging himself.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/25 02:04 PM
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my wife comes over telling me ‚the one in white wants you badly‘. Missed opportunity to game here, not the girl in white, but your wife. "What do you think... should I go get her number so I can send her a video later of how great your blowjobs are so she'll be jealous?" If you're that bold, and congruent, that is.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/25 02:01 PM
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Am i reading this right that you've confirmed your wife fucked another guy, and you're still trying to have a marriage with her?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/25 01:57 PM
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Unless it's his satire account, I banned it already, or someone masquerading was my thought
/r/askMRP13/05/25 12:16 AM
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It never will work. It's topping from the bottom, and unnatural for women. AWALT. The comment you linked was satire, btw. I wrote this to women who want to do this. It's impossible. Because the simple act of you changing your behavior to create a behavior in your man is not of his frame, it is of yours, and you will always secretly wonder if he is masculine at his core or if you had to lead him there. It's the same reason that running dread game won't work for women. In the back of your mind you…
/r/askMRP12/05/25 04:19 PM
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Yes it matters. But mostly because if it's a stranger, and you say hello with outcome independence and they respond nicely is it because you tried rubbing her butthole?
/r/askMRP10/05/25 12:34 AM
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MLM, porn addiction, fucking your hand, day trading, fat wife, online women, whining about his mom.... You're not going to make it here. I'll save us all the trouble, banned
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/25 12:15 PM
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Its not inherently bad to do these things for people. In fact, when I look to find make friends I subconsciously look to see how gracious they are. The difference between what you do, and what I and other men do, is that we do it because we actually like the people we do it for. This is why I often ask (and Jackten did also) - do you like your wife? Because if you do like them/her, you end up doing these things from an entirely different mindset. You start giving your gifts from a place of abund…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/25 11:52 AM
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In this specific case we usually recommend a few courses of action, focused on her entirely, forget about frame, but since you're at askmrp with a question like this and all things aside, have you tried rubbing her butthole?
/r/askMRP08/05/25 05:49 PM
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A grown-ass man knows what needs to be done, and just does it regardless of how he feels about that. The iron temple will teach you this. The weight needs to be lifted, and no one else is going to help you. The iron doesn't care either.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/25 11:12 AM
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None of that matters. Does she feel guilty? So what. It doesn't change rhe underlying problem or the results. She doesn't want to fuck him. She's just saying it in a nicer way that she's not attracted to him. Thats it. OP is a 6-0 160# skinny fuck. Barely lifts. Rather than try and get in his head on OYS #2, tell him to lift and STFU. You're giving bad advice to a newbie by having him hamsturbate why she won't fuck him, for now, preaching OI and such. He can't even benchpress a plate and hasn't …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/25 11:09 AM
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Awwwww. Still feel sorry for me fagboy? Heres the thing. I'm not here to be your friend. I don't give a shit about you. I'm here to give the real, hard truth, it's why guys show up here. But the fact that an internet stranger triggered you into : Explaining you met with 1% musicians Played with extreme athletes a bunch of other flexes deleting out What does that say about you? It says you're a gigantic fag. You came here to get advice, and your massive shitty ego was in the way because your fee …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/25 12:18 AM
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Now I see a woman who shows no sign of sexual interest. ... with you. Take it from me, married women are the easiest to fuck. They're sex starved and craving a real man. /u/red-sfpplus has a post out there about fucking other men's wives at bbqs, multiple in the same day, while their fatass husbands were outside.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/25 10:16 PM
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do wonder if I am missing something that I could be doing to improve frequency More reps, both in the gym and with game. I'd even practice some catch and release. At some point this will reach a climax where you'll want more sex and need to dissolve her ego. It's not like she doesn't want to fuck. She just doesn't want to hand over all the fucking power to you.... yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/25 10:11 PM
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Good on you for making a decision. Whatever that is for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/25 10:07 PM
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There was a post last week on the evolution from MRP into D/s, and it hit home. Here we are on OYS#3. This is why that post was removed. Jesus christ.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/25 02:08 PM
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It's important to me that the ones around me succeed, so I help wherever I can even when that means to cut my own needs hyper nice guy Just a Nice Guy covert contract that most fags have. "If I save/help/care for this person they'll love/like/thank me" . You know what makes my family happy? Daddy being happy, joyful, and abundant. You've been giving from a place of lack to justify your own ego. Probably because you couldn't do it with money and needed another way to feel validated.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/25 02:00 PM
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jiu-jitsu class for next week No. Not for you. It'll just turn into some increased validation mechanism for your fat ass when you submit a 12% BF twinkgod. It'll be another convenient distraction from the shit that matters, like you getting OLD pussy validation. Get under 300# first.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/25 10:17 AM
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my initiations are passive next weeks to months I will stick to ‚I want… got up and said that I want you to dress cute, we are going out. No signs of restraint or rejection and my request for her to wear a dress was fully met. Are you fucking? I think you are. You're nearly a year in. Maybe it's time we talk about what your leadership, or lack thereof, looks like? You're starting to put the pieces together here I think. Also, how are you north of 20% BF and having been at this a year? Most guys …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/25 10:13 AM
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Most guys who suck and get shot down by a wife for sex wallow in self pity for ages until they take a different approach.
/r/askMRP05/05/25 06:50 PM
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Nice frame you have there deleting all your other comments about how mods are on a power trip, triggered, etc.... Funny how you little bitches have the biggest ego.
/r/askMRP05/05/25 06:44 PM
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savior mindset Just a Nice Guy covert contract that most fags have. "If I save this person they'll love/like/thank me" . You can't save someone who isn't willing to save themselves. Hence, bans.
/r/askMRP05/05/25 06:40 PM
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No. Because it's not that hard. There's literally a guide, a sidebar, and a thread to help parse what you're doing weekly there. If anyone actually took the time to do the basics (Lift, Read, STFU) they'd figure out it's not that hard. We have a decade+ of evidence that it's not that hard. I used to suck. I know what it's like. big majority of men nowadays This is true. Even better for those of us who don't suck. If you arrive at MRP and you suck, you're expected to do the basics. If you can't d…
/r/askMRP05/05/25 06:35 PM
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Nope. OP and mods PMd and decided it was too much dynamite. Mods removed after OP saw the results of askholes.
/r/askMRP05/05/25 05:21 PM
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You didn't start too soon, you just acted like getting a blowjob was a pivotal moment in your career. Blowjobs should be normal, not an epiphany and motivation to "continue on this path". Then again, most of you aren't normal, so most of you don't get your dick sucked.
/r/askMRP05/05/25 01:29 PM
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... and just like like, Jason Bourne became Alex j Anderson, famed of all time at MRP for two butt slaps and fixing the problem forever. Congrats
/r/askMRP03/05/25 02:28 PM
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They happen most when you're insecure. You write she was. You were.
/r/askMRP03/05/25 12:18 AM
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would consider myself intermediate - advanced. Hahahahhahahahhahaha Step 1 is to be able to identify shit tests and comfort tests. Perhaps in your case a shitty comfort test. How to deal with them.
/r/askMRP03/05/25 12:05 AM
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/r/askmrp would consider myself intermediate - advanced. Hhahahhahahahhahahahahahah
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/25 12:04 AM
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Those who are so immeshed with their character Or, one who is truly themselves and that's just what they are, no method acting needed. They're congruently this, with that woman and all women. Congruently tested over time. Dropping the ego is essential of course. I don't think you understand this because you are not this. See you in the smart dudes server where these guys exist ;) Also what is (sd)? Got your terms mixed up patches? become a method actor This is why we don't talk about this. 99% d…
/r/askMRP02/05/25 12:50 AM
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Not to this level of detail. I talk about the what, not the how. Also randos dont matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/25 09:55 PM
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There you go again, trying to be funny as an ego shield. Can you not fucking read your OYS? You're still an idiot who isn't funny.
/r/askMRP01/05/25 07:12 PM
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But he's on OYS #4
/r/askMRP01/05/25 07:09 PM
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The only discussion i have is "these are your safewords". I encourage her to use them. They would rather piss themselves than use them though. No doesn't mean stop. None of us that do this well talk about it. We just know hard limits. Even if you gave her a kink list questionnaire it doesn't do much good. They don't even know what they want. Thats where you come in. I hate talking about this shit. Mostly because none of you really understand how women work deeply and subconsciously. ELI5 just fu…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/25 07:06 PM
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You derive pleasure from knowing her better than even herself, and exploiting that sexually, all the while making it her idea. Power Exchange is cerebral, then physical. Make no mistake it's all about being in a woman's head, totally against all RP logic. This stuff is so mentally advanced I'll just say, if you can't just go up to her today when she's moody and fuck the bitch out of her, tell her that, and she thank you immediately after, don't bother.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/25 06:02 PM
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I told you guys this would happen. Here we go again. Also: You guys are helping out randoms save their marriage We aren't here to save the marriage. MRP saves the man not the marriage. This is precisely why giving you guys dynamite is retarded. Your fundamental frames are flawed from the 2nd sentence.
/r/askMRP01/05/25 05:49 PM
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6 years strong in a 24/7 D/s relationship here, but..... fuck. 99% of you guys don't want to do this. But oh well, here we go giving them dynamite. I've held off for years of providing a post like this including your book recommendations.... I posted back then about the topic of Dominance: I think this is a true unexplored area of MRP. If her focus and thoughts are centered on you – what can you do to best influence the enrichment of your vision and mission? And yes, that’s highly manipulative w…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/25 04:22 PM
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I wanted her to want it too. This is a very, very explosive realization you've had. Now that it's exposed, you can see it. She always saw it. Look dude, getting the Epic Test sucks ALOT. It nearly destroyed me, as in suicide destroy. It's a long fucking road to kill the validation seeking behavior, but, you're there. Coincidentally, right after I realized what you did, things changed. The level of DNGAF was palpable. It wasn't an angry dngaf either. It was accepting dngaf. Maybe you're there, an…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/25 09:29 PM
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50% of the time it'll blow things up. Lots of reasons, but just be aware of the consequences. I have been here long enough, seen hundreds of dudes do it. No one will argue with me I think. TRT can fundamentally change your levels of DNGAF, ambition, gains, and outlook. It's mostly the DNGAF that kills the puppy. Imagine the 24yo version of yourself, but you don't suck. Would you put up with the 40+yo version of your relationship? Likely not, unless you're woman suddenly realizes what you and her…
/r/askMRP30/04/25 06:11 PM
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Good to see you again dude. congrats on being the 20th dude to tell him the same thing
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/25 09:32 PM
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She has power because she withholds sex and I have power when I withhold myself from the relationship. She has the power because you let her. So, flip the script. Make yourself the prize. It's literally what she wants you to do, you're just not seeing it. She's shit testing you about not spending enough time with her? So, spend time with her the way YOU want to, by fucking her. What's so hard about putting your dick inside her? I went to bed room and initiated caveman style. Got a "gentle" hard …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/25 09:29 PM
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DEER more, weakfag. Please.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/25 09:22 PM
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that everything worthwhile will require sacrificing some sacred cow I hold on to, endure a lot of discomfort and suffering to get somewhere This is entirely why Goggins, and now you, have some really retarded frame based entirely on ego. You can't simply do things because not doing things is worse. You have to attach some retarded ego to it. I look at it as the things that must be done. The "suffering"? When framed this way, it immediately invokes the mental model of "stuff I don't want to do". …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/25 09:20 PM
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The only dudes who need to shave their chest are guys less than 12% BF, and even then it's questionable, or patchy chest hair dudes. It's a bad look otherwise, more like a weird looking boy. Why laser? I can understand on the back of course, but elsewhere? Why not do what most of us do around here and #2 everything else? Bonus tip: Shave your pubes correctly.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/25 04:11 PM
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Goggins is a mentally flawed human being who's an ego retard. It's just some bullshit foundation of knuckle pushups and cold showers to chase the ego dragon. What you'll find out eventually is that the dragon is actually you. He has a good story of a fat kid to ego endurance monster most find satisfying to mentally masturbate to. It's just a better version of the plow horse story.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/25 04:07 PM
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feel like my personality is fairly normal, whereas I need to have a bigger than life personality in order to game those around me. The reason this is a sticking point is because you're not congruent, and you know it. Learn how to make the "bigger" personality congruent internally. Look at it like this - sometimes you just let the tiger out of the cage a bit. Just because he's in the cage normally doesn't mean he isn't still a tiger. He's a tiger in a cage because that's what it takes to be a nor…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/25 03:02 PM
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I am going to chill the fuck out, STFU, read the side bar, and lift This is the only thing that matters right now and the best course. There's so much in your oys that's easy to dissect, but it all boils down to this: I created this mess and now I’m blaming her for it. Your woman is a reflection of you. You're deep in the anger phase, have been, and are blaming her for how shitty you have been and are. There's only one way out, and no, it isn't making a beta list of demands and trying to negotia…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/25 02:58 PM
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You'd do well to read and try some of my cheat codes under the dominance and immersion sections. See my post history for part 2 as well. Your imagination sucks. It may help you. Don't attempt to jump straight to advanced/hard. Focus on beginner.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/25 02:51 PM
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"What would an attractive person do in this situation?” Will guide me going forward. "I'm an attractive person. What would I do in this situation?" Then do it. You've got some really shit frame and mental models dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/25 02:43 PM
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You shouldn't have to pretend (LARP) or appear (LARP) to be not boring and not predictable. You should just be those things, congruently. "Where are you going?" Answer: "To the Iron temple. Then to run some errands." "When will you be back?" Answer: "Later tonight. Be ready for me when I get back. You know how i am after I lift...." Slapass, walkaway. The goal here is to be an interesting and abundant man. Not one who LARPs as such. Women will always know the difference and become angry rightful…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/25 02:35 PM
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been getting more questions “where are you going, who are you going with” etc to which my answers are things like “secret, see you when I’m back” You like seeing the hamster running the maze too much - it's a classic sign of the anger phase with guys here who just want some retarded revenge for all the years of you sucking. Make her worry like a bitch, right? Stop with the retarded overt dread games. Everyone does it at the beginning because for once you can get validation from another source - …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/25 11:32 AM
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Lots of "plans" and "I will" with zero actual fucking work to show for it. You're just a hamster, and not even getting on the wheel, remaining a fat fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/25 11:43 PM
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Couple of things, from a mod at MRP. Theres only really one thread that matters at MRP, the weekly OYS thread. Thats where the work is done. We have a ban rate of 90%. Most men won't make it, much less the occasional LARPing TRP tard that shows up. It's a locker room for men who really want to change and preferably remain in their current LTR, morals aside, and using redpill sexual strategy for LTRs. If you're unwilling to drop the ego at the door, you're banned. If you suck, you're banned. If y…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/25 10:53 PM
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No one posting here is is getting blowjobs
/r/askMRP26/04/25 02:24 AM
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If that's the case, then I could say in the 10,000 LTRs lasting over 10 years I've seen at MRP, 98% of the dudes are fucking retards.
/r/askMRP26/04/25 02:23 AM
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You're in the right place
/r/askMRP25/04/25 02:53 PM
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In my own experience , 7 LTRs, each over 10 years We got a great grandpa here yall - listen to him- it is askmrp after all on the cutting edge of science
/r/askMRP25/04/25 01:04 PM
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In an alternate reality, women get validated immensely when you bust so fast. But not for these men.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/25 10:24 AM
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Yes, but that's not what you're doing. You're trying to fuck other women to make your ego feel better.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/25 11:00 PM
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Don't kid yourself. You're seeking validation, not abundance.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/25 01:10 PM
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Have you even read the books in the sidebar? What you describe is in the very first step. Save yourself the labor and do the work by reading. What you describe is a "covert contract", literally page 1 of NMMNG.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/25 01:05 PM
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See? You'd never know that unless you asked several for the number. Tool in the toolbelt.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/25 11:33 AM
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You're thinking too deep, but yes. I'm saying look at what you are in the mirror and decide you're not that anymore. I told you last week to build a MAP. Thats who you are now. And to stop wallowing in the shit that doesn't matter - who you were, how you became him, what caused it, anything. Youre not him anymore, so give less fucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/25 11:29 PM
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Jesus fuck you're all over the place, and now you're out to go fuck other women? Because your wife talked to a bus driver and you got jealous? What is your actual fucking plan? Punish your wife?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/25 10:56 PM
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Cool, so at least you can see yourself how most other people see you. Cringey as fuck - see the other comment.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/25 10:51 PM
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Why do you give a shit about why you are the way you are? Why not just choose to be something different? I mean, i get it - your batman origin story might be interesting and tell you why you are the way you are - but who gives a fuck, especially you? You need to mentally divorce yourself from this version of yourself and march forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/25 10:48 PM
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You should probably go back to mgtow and rpchristianfags
/r/askMRP22/04/25 07:56 PM
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sorry honey, i don't take advise from trainwrecks on how to operate a train. This is great. Just a touch of AA.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/25 07:35 PM
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In the long ago past at the start of your (now failed) relationship yes, you threw it in reverse. But since getting here, you had some really, really good progress up until a few months ago when you took your foot off the gas.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/25 07:27 PM
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It's not all bad. At least she's being nice about it, which means she likes you. She's just not attracted to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/25 07:12 PM
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You're not that funny. Applies outside the bedroom too. Read the comments. You're a fucking idiot that isn't funny.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/25 07:11 PM
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You need to get this sister bullshit out of your mind. It doesn't matter. You're trying to mate-guard your relationship and it's pathetic. The only thing you can control is you and your progress. Keep lifting, STFU, and dread will build. Your wife likely thinks you're morally incapable of fucking other women (read: church) - but as soon as you're willing to start nuking shit it's going to go one way or the other. My guess with her sister in the mix it won't go well for the relationship, since th…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/25 06:27 PM
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I told her we're going to need to start sending each other calendar invites for sex, to which she responded "I would actually really like that." Yeah, that could actually be fun. Someone else please tell this fag that this is not fun and 110% retarded. Something like "3PM, be ready. Have my remote vibrator in you. Wear lingerie." This is not the same as sending a calendar invite. She thanked me, the day went on, and that was the end of it. Good boy. Have you looked into Dom/sub stuff before? You…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/25 06:18 PM
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Seems like progress to me, but I’m open to other interpretations. Just nicer ways of saying the same thing, Nice Guy. Women just wants to be wanted. It's a classic test. I'd take a look at your initiations and if you're going 100% all-in. Now re-read your last paragraph, and tell me what you could have done differently. You gotta play the game, dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/25 06:14 PM
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What pulled me out of my depression was anger. I told you 8 months ago you needed to get angry. Everyone here has basically been trying to make you angry the entire 9 months you're been here. We all know this is the only thing that's going to get you moving. I'd really love to see you stop suppressing everything and start being yourself. You'd make more progress on the most important things this way, IMO. What I told you then: I kind of figured you were a gentle giant, I've been following you fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/25 05:53 PM
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Sure, and then take a moment to reflect on what he did to achieve the progress and be proud of it. Next step would be to realize what stopped the progress - we all know the answer - he took his foot off the gas.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/25 05:45 PM
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Learned helplessness is a bitch, isn't it?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/25 05:44 PM
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Took a rest day from training to prioritize real-life obligations. No guilt. Just tradeoffs. Sleep faster, bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/25 05:42 PM
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Good sex is your responsibility. You have at least a willing woman, likely bored with your shitty sex. If you're angry it isn't great, look no further than the mirror.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/25 02:33 PM
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Practicing the full cycle of catch and release will do wonders for you. It's not like you have to call the bitch. For others reading along, inevitably if you ask for her number you're going to get the "oh you can have my insta" or some shit. This is a good time to practice being assertive. "I asked your number, I'm not a kid" ... "I'm a more traditional man, I want your number" aka "I want my meat" from WISNIFG. Some will give you a shit test you will never encounter from your wife, which is the…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/25 02:24 PM
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Practicing game on strangers, feels easier than with the wife. Think im so BP with her she almost laughs it off. and... realise these are faggot stats, i have not done any form of lifting since about the age of 19. Are very much connected.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/25 02:18 PM
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Operation: Give that bitch nothing to do but fuck you is in effect. Keep with the stfu, likely 3 months, and your entire life will change for the better. You'll also likely be getting laid like a tile, and you'll learn how to game. You're 1 week in. The tests will get massively harder. Just STFU and consume the sidebar as fast as possible so you're ahead of it. tickled her out of it and then helped her get them dressed. This seemed to bring the energy in the house from 4 to 10. You must move you…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/25 02:13 PM
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I was thinking this post was written by you as satire, because it's pretty spot on given your experience. OP listen to this guy, he did it - and knows how he would have done it better.
/r/askMRP21/04/25 11:18 PM
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Ego. It's always ego. Especially when you know it's true, you'll find anything to let the ego win. There's a reason we are a dick about these things. Because it hurts the ego even more. We get you to lash out a bit, and you realize how retarded an internet stranger can trigger you. Easily shows how weak you are and you're the one who's ass got kicked and are broken.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/25 08:21 PM
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I've noticed my wife is much more receptive to sexual language in the bedroom Duh. She wants to be a secret little slut. In my experience this is 90% of the women I've fucked who are sluts, and 100% of them want to be sluts. Read up on Madonna/whore complex. Women I've been with describe this as wanting to be demure in the real world, and my dirty little secret in the bedroom away from prying eyes. And when their girlfriends are talking about sex (because they do, perhaps as much as men) she'll …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/25 03:37 PM
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You'll drip like a faucet but not too soon.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 09:59 PM
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Were you jacked as fuck and a sex god back then? Cause if so I believe that happened. I've fucked heaps of women, and none of them have ever done what you describe, unless I've trained them for an extended period of time to go into subspace. Even then, they don't have body contortions and it's more like they blank out of life itself existing. If you're interested, look up "sexually broken" porn. That's the most you'll ever get out of a girl. Plenty of virgins included. I think she just had some …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 06:31 PM
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This I'm taking the perspective that it indicates there's something wrong with me. Taking this perspective is the only way you will make it. It's the only way any guy here ever made it. You're triggered because you have lied to yourself for so long about truths you don't want to face. The guys who make it have the ability to set all aside and take feedback, really look introspective if it's valid, and then take action on it. Yeah it's week 1 for you, but it'll be week 20 before you know it. Ther…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 06:14 PM
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Finally. I don’t know what you mean by broke enough. Every man reaches a point where he realizes that his choices, and life, have led him to a path of no return. It's in that moment that they realize that only the hard work and discipline to change his life will be his only way out of the hole he has dug. The most reasonable analogy I can provide is a man who's lost his job. He has a family to take care of, and he's the only provider. He's depleted his savings, he has absolutely nothing left, an…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 03:13 AM
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Link not working.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 01:19 AM
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suffered a severe injury More excuses. At what point are you going to respond to the comment that means the most? The one where you realize it's true?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 01:18 AM
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That's because you are ever so slowly getting away from validation. It's no coincidence he felt fuckall from sex, and in the same week realized he was just overtly using his strength to pickup his wife for validation.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 09:53 PM
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If you have to overtly state that you have a boundary that your wife can't fuck other guys, you're probably pretty fucking pathetic.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 09:46 PM
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I highly doubt you'll do fuckall like 95% of the guys who get here. Don't take my long response to you as an indicator that I think you will.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 09:04 PM
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Godamn this is good. The weakasses who cum too fast need to read this. It's that simple. Next time if she drops ome tests like she did (one hand, doodle) get a little more aggressive and tell her to shut the fuck up. Good job on responsibly putting in safe words. Moving forward, just remind her at the beginning and make a point to let her know from now on in any situation she can use them forever. Over time they will disappear. Youre building safe exploration here. Good shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 05:47 PM
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You know what all you fag's who cum too fast have in common? You all have some story about how you used to fuck sluts for hours, but with your wife you shoot your load like a horny schoolboy. It's fucking retarded that you all can't see why. It's because you didn't care about fucking back then because sex was abundant. Now that you're needy and starving you're a bunch of weak shits with no options. It's not that complicated.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 05:42 PM
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It wasn't mostly for him. It was for other reading along, like I said. Also, randos don't matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 05:30 PM
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If you don't fuck her like she needs to be fucked, someone will. It's 100% inevitable. Take it from my experience, married women are the easiest to fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 04:41 PM
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I can tell by reading this that you're awful at sex. Period. Accept my assessment or not, but I've been here long enough to know a guy like you when I see one. What was telling? I read Michael's Story and was struck with his connection between sex and human connection. He articulated exactly what I feel and exactly what everyone around me dismisses. I feel so emotionally isolated from the world out there, and no one in my life seems to care or understand. At least here there are a ton of men who…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 04:04 PM
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This isn't the fix you're looking for.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 03:45 PM
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I got the point because AWALT. The challenge she wants you to pass is to get past your own shit, because her shit should leave you unaffected, and break through. Sometimes it's hard to fuck a woman you don't want to like. Women just wants to be wanted. It's a classic test.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 03:39 PM
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...Continued.... I feel that I was being taken for granted and that led me to pull back “she doesn’t deserve this stuff”. YOU didn't deserve a woman that cared as much as she did and took her for granted, and instead you tried to make it up to her with gifts, dates, and neediness. When your covert contract wasn't fulfilled, you punched walls and got angry... like a bitch. being together for so long is that all the resentment, memories of the past etc are built up, even if something happened 9 ye…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 03:14 PM
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I am a majorly retarded boy who should’ve been a man many years ago and is now struggling to (but working on) becoming a man. It doesn't work like that here. You need to mentally divorce yourself from your former self. You need to accept the things that you are now, by looking in the mirror for a really long fucking time and understanding who that boy WAS. Then and only then can you decide what you want to be. It's as simple as saying "I am now that man. I do this. I do that. I do things that lo…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 03:14 PM
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I have no idea how to structure my thoughts or situation. Begin with the basics. What you did. What you're doing. What the results were. No one wants to read this bullshit origin story more than once, you get just this first week. You've identified a lot of things in your entire OYS that you need to put on your MAP. Red/Green/Yellow, etc.... build a MAP first utilizing the sidebar. my wife is a reflection of me YOU are going to notice a theme here in my response. YOU need to look in the mirror. …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 03:12 PM
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At what point are you going to fuck the bitch out of her?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 02:43 PM
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I’ve wanted the rewards without putting in the work. It is probably the main reason I never achieved anything of value until my mid to late 20s now we're getting somewhere. I’m starting to develop a system to my life as the kid becomes more consistent. Bullshit. Quit using your kid as an excuse. Right now the only thing that matters is that you become not-fat, as we've been telling you for how fucking long? Over 6 months? Develop the system first and then adapt your shitty life to it. That's wha…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 02:37 PM
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About 90% of this is a total rule 9 ban, but I see a glimmer of hope that you recognize it all completely, which is why rule 9 exists for those that can't. No ban. I'll comment further down the thread on specifics later. Edit: I took the time to comment 1,500 words here, mostly for others. Some for you. It's a good example of how a shitty "she" OYS can be reframed to YOU.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 11:22 AM
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it wasn't the validation or indicator of success that I crave. As it should be. That's literally why you're not fucking.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 11:10 AM
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Do not call it no-fap here. We can't have a bunch of retards going to that mongoloid retard sub expecting something. Call it what it is. You stopped jacking off. Its just that simple.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/25 07:36 PM
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Hope is not a strategy
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/25 07:34 PM
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Stop eating. Today. Fadt until you're there. 24/0. Seriously, you're a fucking ridiculous. You could lose 60lbs in 41 days. and I believe him. Why isn't this important to you?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/25 03:40 AM
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joking a lot about sex Novelty at first but over time, Initiations: You're not that funny.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/25 03:26 AM
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At some point you'll need to learn how to manage dread levels down. Welcome to the other side.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/25 03:06 AM
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Be careful with applying all RP methods to business, unless you're the big boss. In your marriage, you are. In business sometimes you need to play more beta game than alpha. Because.... you're not the boss. Read 48 LoP for navigating (read: manipulating) this. Is there an anti-snip school of thought? It doesn't come up often here, because it's nuanced and personal really. But my thoughts are I never would. I don't like the mental aspect for myself. I'd feel neutered. Some guys want the freedom o…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/25 07:48 PM
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Quality =/= quantity
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/25 03:40 PM
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Later she tells me she had a dream that I went to a dating event and took her but instead I met all these other women. hahahaha - you have to appreciate a woman's dread inspired fishing expeditions. I give this one a B+. Pretty good game... enjoy it for what it really is. I surely hope you realized this was the #1 opportunity to respond to this test in the best way possible.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/25 03:39 PM
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smash through some LMR and fuck a pussy so wet my dick felt like on a water slide. You're starting to see the matrix.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/25 02:25 PM
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Good sex is your responsibility. If it sucks, that's on you.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/25 02:24 PM
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I have revenge fantasies about getting the competitor job. Seeing how ego is the idealized "I'm gonna be awesome once I break the chains" view of myself doesn't align with where I am. I need to do the work to close the gap and get the job because it suits my mission, not passively daydream about how everything gets better if something good finally happens to me. This really is no different than "I'm going to get ripped as fuck, so I can leave my woman and fuck hotter, younger, tighter girls. The…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/25 02:23 PM
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Your entire sense of self-worth is ties to attraction validation. Keep it up, and you'll probably want to blow your brains out. You're still a dancing monkey. When are you going to start doing shit without the explicit reason to get attention from women? Emotions are a good diagnostic tool, yes, but they aren't real. A healthy dose of narcissism is required here. What matters to a man is not who loves him, but who and what he loves.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/25 09:47 AM
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The advanced reading, especially twotsm, is worse than useless when you don't have the basics. This needs to be repeated to all bitches here who are less than 25 weeks in.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/25 02:21 AM
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Let's be honest with the dude, because I like being fair. Probably like your girl, mine has orgasms all the time from actual penetration unlike before. Occasionally, I can sense somewhere, deeply rooted inside of me, the fact that I just want her to cum - and boy, does she fucking NOT when that little weed sprouts. It's rare - maybe a couple times a year? But fuck if it still isn't there somewhere waiting to sprout.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/25 07:05 PM
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I was really honest about it, at least at a certain moment in time. I still don't think you were being honest with yourself. I'd encourage you to remember that you think you "got it" here at OYS 10, and come back to this. What you'll likely see is that your ego is entirely fueled by sense of self worth - and the problem is that your entire sense of self worth is derived from the validation of women. It's a terrible cycle to be in, and it's why you'll continually get angry at your wife and other …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/25 06:54 PM
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Yes. To become a congruent man.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/25 06:37 PM
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Remember the audience. The words used were intended as such. Imagine how foreign the concept of Daddy would be to them? Most of my posts, some intentional, some not, were written in a language they can understand. They figure it out, like this dude, eventually. For example, how I once used 10,000 words to describe how I STFU. Fagboys needs lots of examples and stories to cover this much ground.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/25 06:35 PM
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I’ve been initiating so much to overcome the fear of rejection Women aren't stupid, and in hindsight you'll probably see that women see through this much quicker than you have. It's interesting that they have this ability, and the evolutionary psychologists would say it's through years of mate selection. More importantly, they are masters of seeing incongruent behavior. But hey, use her as a punching bag if you must. So whats the lesson here?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/25 01:57 AM
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Jesus you're a giagantic pussy. All this talk... blah blah, talk it out some more pussy. See where it gets you. At some point you're going to have to sit in the silence of your own godamn actionless life and face that you're a gigantic fag
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/25 12:36 AM
1

Everyone hates their job. You might as well be rich doing it.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/25 12:33 AM
1

Rian Stone literally plays tekken on twitch all day and broadcasts it talking RP shit, how you thought they were beta is just another ego shield.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/25 12:30 AM
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covert contract I have with myself, I feel like with the work I've put into MRP, I should have more results by now. Dance monkey, dance. Caretaking in this way is definitely feeling a little beta Since writing that post, I think I can offer you a mindset I didn't write about there, because I didn't really know what it was. You're not caretaking. You're being a responsible, strong, actualized, self-directed man who actually cares about the women in his life..... you know.... Daddy. I described it…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/25 05:37 PM
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the need for men to show desire and lead. So I did that. She responded immediately and we had a good night. This is less about her response, and more about how you actually did something you wanted. Congrats, you're able to take your life into your own hands and get what you want. I got a preliminary yes while flirting during the day, only to get a no at night. pout Why do you think this was? What was different than the time before? My bet? You initiated like a woman would. Multiple times in a r…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/25 05:32 PM
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They're written because you're not special and we repeat ourselves too much here.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/25 02:56 PM
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For a while after finding MRP I tried to completely shun validation to the point of almost getting mad about it. Now I can accept it without seeking it. Bit of a light bulb moment for me and mentally freeing. This time I found myself naturally thinking “that’s nice, thanks, how was tennis?” Say thank you and continue the conversation if there is one. I already knew I was doing right by my son and leading the family better. Praise and Compliments should be worthless to you. You're starting to fig…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/25 01:43 PM
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You do what you gotta do to keep the ball moving forward, but avoiding something entirely as a way of managing it is a good first step. However, I like video games and it's been a hobby of mine since i was a kid. Did i give them up for a while in my program when I got here? Sure. But the more mature version of myself has the discipline to still play them, and not allow it to be a timesuck on my life. My guess is by your defamation of Blizzard, you're a WoW guy who let's a video game control you.…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/25 01:33 PM
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It's me giving her the grace of my time and exclusivity. Like, why am I spending my evenings with you if I can be spending them with somebody else? Bitch, this is my gift to you! Hold your horses cowboy, your lifts still suck and you're still deep in the frame of women entirely. I mean, I get it, I had this same realization and wrote about it in my main event here (week 1) and also here (week2) - and then made a post about how it all came together. It's no coincidence you're having this "it fina…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/25 01:28 PM
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OP is banned, but the FR adds value on how one might implement cheat codes and be a fucking retard.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/25 01:45 AM
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Chaos is the adventure. Truth, but you don't want to ride this ride ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/25 12:39 AM
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Same difference, same result. Except you're not brown and scrawny so that's an advantage.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/25 03:14 AM
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You're Indian, aren't you? Classic IT overthinker.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/25 09:34 PM
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Re: scheduling guys outings... I used to be the only one who got our golf rounds scheduled with 3 other dudes. Some guys could only play on Tuesday, others saturday... blah blah. You get it. It was a shit show trying to get 4 men together for something that we all want and enjoy. So, I took it upon myself to figure all of them out each week, reaching out individually, then sending a group message when I found a suitable time/place including cost. No one ever missed a round. Sometimes it's the sm…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/25 06:22 PM
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No mental masturbation posts here. Go to the retard playpen that is /r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/25 01:26 PM
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Those arent wven lifts. Why not list the big 3 lifts? Bf%?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/25 03:51 AM
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You ain't lying.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/25 06:50 PM
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got a confused "I was expecting you would pounce on me like a tiger" response. There's still time for that, sweetheart. Just not this time. You must rebuild the trust that any sexual advances that you make are from a place of true abundance and giving. See, you’re giving your wife yourself. She is no longer giving herself to you, you are taking her. Go get em, Tiger. Taking her is vastly different than manhandling her like a horny Neanderthal.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/25 06:49 PM
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Yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/25 03:04 PM
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I’m not attracted to her when we start a session, it’s like I’m disappointed from the first minute. I’m attracted to her body but not the way she acts I get this. What i can say that's worked for me is to focus on the things I do like. And praise them. It'll do something for your dick, usually because it'll change her behavior if genuine into a soft little thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/25 01:43 PM
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Imagine a guy who sucks so much on the inside he's incapable of manifesting covert dread, so he resorts to lying to himself and creating overt dread situations to satisfy his ego. Seem familiar?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/25 01:41 PM
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Are you fucking? If you're not fucking, stfu about leadership.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/25 12:02 PM
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love cuddles/physical affection Cuddles ain't free. They're for women and babies, not you.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/25 09:10 AM
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I dont buy the panic attack victim stuff. It's probably a probable excuse for you to believe (because you do). But I'm also an asshole.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/25 10:29 PM
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Sudden stoppage of sex is usually indicative of an affair, period.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/25 12:52 PM
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In the last 3 months you have lost a whopping 11 lbs. You weigh 340lbs. Why don't you just give up already?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/25 12:47 AM
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You're about an inch away from Rule 9 ban for your entire sex section. Maybe another mod will ban you. Next time, just have her write about your sex life.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/25 06:46 PM
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Banned because you can't answer a simple fucking question.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/25 05:22 PM
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It's anger you dumbfuck. Not maybe. Make a fucking decision dude
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/25 05:21 PM
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I was definitely not operating in my frame and seeking her approval/agreement to go ahead with the plan. This is the most unattractive thing a man can do with a woman besides the basics.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/25 05:20 PM
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for my own sake. What the fuck does this even mean? For your ego? To pat yourself on the back for turning around some post-wall woman to liking you? So you can say "I told you so, bitch" ? This shit reeks of insecurity and being a fag.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/25 05:16 PM
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Going rambo might actually be good for the ultimate pussies. It forces the issues early and look dude, it's a 4yr LTR, what do you have to lose here? No one is lining up to keep a 35yo woman around.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/25 01:50 PM
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Sex Need to rethink the daily initiate goal. Reading through your sex section, it seems like you're just not able to get aroused, yet you have a woman making efforts to fuck you. How you doing with the anger, dude? How might this hinder your sexual performance? Or, are you just acting like an initiating robot? she never wears the lingerie I bought. She did it twice last year, now she's done it twice in two weeks, and I can't even respond. Your wife wore lingerie - which is how women initiate (su…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/25 01:44 PM
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remarried soon What's up with this? You can't even escape your ex's frame. What a shit show.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/25 01:39 PM
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people just want to get from A to B, so lead Women don't give a shit about how the sausage is made, or how smart and optimized the sausage factory is. They just want to wait at the finish line for the sausage.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/25 01:34 PM
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You did nothing, tileboybitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/25 01:33 PM
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One thing that I gained some insight into this week is the fact that I still have a lot of difficulty in getting others especially my wife to buy in on my plans and worldview. Why do you need this? Do you need mommy's permission to do what you know needs to be done? Or, are you still seeking her approval? Either my leadership or approach is sub par here. The rule is that if you're not fucking, shut the fuck up about leadership. But, I'll give you this nugget... it's less about what you do, and m…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/25 12:10 PM
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There's a reason that post covers 2 subjects.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/25 09:24 AM
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Working on dropping making sexual jokes. I made one this past week instinctively and it was ineffective. Of course it wasn't effective. You're not funny
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/25 07:23 AM
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You're still retarded. Give advice where you have expertise, and not ego
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/25 04:47 PM
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Look, he put up his stats, including 13% BF. It's up to him if he's lying or not. But, those aren't bad stats, and it'd be some dedicated lifting to get there- plus he's apparently a coach. If he's lying that is on him, and it'll work itself out. I think it's actually more plausible he's a roided retarded mongoloid. He did admit to being on gear from 19 yo after all. He's got bigger shit to worry about than what you think.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/25 05:52 AM
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You will fail as a fitness coach unless you fix what you need to fix. Everyone is going to read through your bullshit eventually, and I think if I were you I'd be putting together a plan that capitalized on my monetary gain with the least amount of my time required. That means being a coach to the affluent, minimal clients, etc.... and those people got into those spots by being smart. They'll read through your shit in a minute and figure you out. People pay you what you're worth on the whole.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/25 11:53 PM
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Listing them every week and your progress is important for you and also the advice you'll get. I'm starting to think you've been a roided out meat head since 19 that skipped most of the mental, and relied solely on his physical to make it this far... albeit poorly. There is a reason you are here. It's because you suck. Try to start owning that.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/25 11:49 PM
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I don't agree. You have to remember that most guys who come here have never lifted, much less for as long and hard as this guy. You know the reason we say lift. He isn't special, he just has completed that portion if the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/25 11:47 PM
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Then post what books you've read from the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/25 05:23 AM
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We did the audio books on the way to school on early mornings.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/25 04:51 AM
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Yes, would be fine to start those books at 6. I think the main character is in 3rd grade or so.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/25 06:19 AM
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initiated in bed, got "bloated, not feeling sexy, just started period". "Is your mouth broken?"
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/25 02:11 AM
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Good sex is your responsibility. Sometimes I get lazy though, and the sex sucks and guess what? Of course it does.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/25 02:08 AM
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Whats so hard about telling your wife "no"?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/25 01:04 AM
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Use chatgpt for that email. Done.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/25 01:03 AM
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Ima say that shit comes out way nerdier than sexy for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/25 01:01 AM
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I know you're fucking a hot girl. If it ever comes up again, my favorite is "You're welcome." "Daddy you fucked me too hard." You're welcome.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/25 12:59 AM
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Some of them just aren't going to make it.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/25 12:57 AM
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Every “no” I get is liberating. I don’t know how to explain it to you all. I used to let my mood ebb and flow based on sex. This is not the case anymore. You don't need you explain, you just did. Heres the thing that helped me - i knew we were going to fuck. Today? Maybe tomorrow, or the next day, but I knew we would fuck. Because like you, I liberated myself to be who I was: a healthy, sexual, masculine, dominant man. If you read through my OYS history, the next stage is "I just can't resist yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/25 12:47 AM
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If a woman sucks your dick, and you cum in her mouth, does Venus shift its axis and cause global warming to end? Do you fucking care? Doesn't matter, got laid.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/25 12:09 AM
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Working your ass off for a company so they can eventually maybe or maybe not make you CEO after you have already done all the work isn’t ambition. It’s being a good little worker bee. I think you've gone a little too far in assuming you know what it takes to become a CEO. And, I expect that this is the attitude of a mid-level manager or IC in a company, sure. Fair. But if you've ever been at the top, you understand that what u/generalist_D is saying, when he says: I should be walking around the …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/25 11:08 PM
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Journaling and getting feedback in OYS certainly helps but unfortunately this is retrospective and after the fact. What's so unfortunate about this? Do you lack the ability to learn? The more you do this, the more it happens in real time.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/25 02:35 PM
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Lol circlejerk
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/25 04:15 AM
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You knew who you wanted to be when you started. To take it back into the sidebar, yes, that's what happened because I made a MAP by answering the question of what i wanted without my wife in mind. Thats literally what OYS is for here, and what you did to achieve that potential outcome. If you've got a lot of entitlement, You mean, covert contracts as in NMMNG? The sidebar and OYS is all that matters.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/25 04:11 AM
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It's the newest breakthrough since the holy grail of cum experiment. "Thanks for your concern but this is on the cutting edge of retard science. We know what we are doing."
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/25 09:27 PM
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Frame is (or can be) constructed entirely in the mind (a la u/hornsofapathy). However, the path to it is often through iterative interaction with the world (empirical), intentional choices, and reading / discussion (as was the case for me). It's pretty simple, you craft a vision and lay your balls on the table. I always was very, very behind on my lifts, eating, and becoming the man I already knew I wanted to be - but my approach was steadfast in crafting it in the mind first, then making it a r…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/25 08:50 PM
3

you forgot the dragon cock sleeve.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/25 02:41 PM
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Motherfucker, running a reverse spreadsheet game - you've broken new ground making it her autist idea. I'm not lying when I say that shit's genius. I like my wife now. Waaaay different when you actually like her and realize it was really just you and what you did that you hated. Women fill the container provided. You were huge for me at my darkest times. You're welcome. It's always great to see another man finally waller around in a warm, wet hole.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/25 02:39 PM
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It had been almost 5 months since the previous time. ... because I kept a spreadsheet like a retard and avoided asking for BJs just to see when she'd think of offering one. Just highlighting this so others can read and see the lack of progress when you expect women to act like men with tits.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/25 02:28 PM
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It's amazing how much people can suck without doing anything. banned
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/25 02:24 PM
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Good to see you my man - glad you made it on the other side. Remember running in bloody socks just to get a magical hj? fuck yea Hows life?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/25 02:18 PM
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sweetly pathetic.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/25 02:15 PM
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it still feels like it was a shittest I tend to leave the feelz up to women, so you're probably right.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/25 02:15 PM
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u/AlphalfaSprout was a hoot
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/25 02:11 PM
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Occasionally a FR is posted where OP thinks he nailed it, and gloats, only to find out his level of retardation was even higher than before MRP. This was a giant comfort test. You're a fucking moron. Girl had a bad day, or period, or weekend, or whatever being a woman so good job responding like a robot incorrectly. her: "I came home and I thought I'd see you after the weekend but you weren't here" Take your woman right there. Instead of "getting" a HJ and thinking it's a reward for her? Yall ar…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/25 12:44 AM
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But are you willing to?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/25 10:02 PM
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This format OYS suits you, it's interesting to read.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/25 06:55 PM
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just go for it not knowing what will happen who will and won’t come. with no agendas and strings attached And just like that, you learn what outcome independence during a sexual encounter looks like. This is where the best sex of your life has/will occur. Do this consistently, and it'll open a door where women willingly do anything you want.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/25 06:47 PM
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WMP literally spelled it out for you here: You started off a few months saying you didn't know how to go pick up women - and now that you do, what have you done with it to improve your mentality/inner game? You self-validate by not sucking and allowing yourself to set reasonably higher standards for yourself and holding yourself accountable to them.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/25 06:41 PM
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This is such bitch behavior and I can even recognize it in the moment but I just don't care. But, you DO care, otherwise you wouldn't have written about it. "Stop acting like a cunt." Why is that so hard for you? What are you afraid of?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/25 02:38 PM
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why would I ever want to fuck her? Remove the wife from this question. Why would you ever want to fuck a woman? Is it this? ordered her to bed and fucked, just a quickie without any pretense. Honestly it felt good just to go for it, have some laughs and enjoy the moment. Or something else? What makes your dick work?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/25 02:36 PM
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When I nuked my career and was unemployed for 6+ months, it had little to no bearing on my ability to self-validate, be attractive, and not be unattractive. You're a needy little retarded shit playing games to boost your ego and get validated. It oozes in your whole OYS
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/25 02:34 PM
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Godamn I love this place
/r/askMRP31/01/25 01:01 AM
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At the end of the day, it's all about abundance mentality driving feelz and natural hypergamy. You have to be worth a shit, a man who fucks, and knows it.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/25 02:51 PM
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You can actually do things your way, without your woman's approval, instructions, or processes. The thing is though - you have to actually do it and be truly satisfied with the outcome. Then you can sit back and watch the hamster spin needlessly and/or tell her to shut the fuck up.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/25 02:43 PM
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My brain and penis have not been on the same page. The longer I go since I last got some, the louder the “sex for validation” voice in my head gets: “Shouldn’t you be horny? You should go and get some. A real man would be bursting at the seams by now”. Except the genuine desire often isn’t there. Sometimes it’s hard to tell the difference. You'll go through a period of extremely low libido. Your brain begins to rewire itself, figuring out how to make your dick work again because now it can only …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/25 02:21 PM
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A key win: she’s been actively wanting me to cum inside her, I've always enjoyed pushing this one just to see how far it'll go. Just tell her to get the depo shot and send you proof, it's really the only thing I'd stand behind. It's amazing how far women will crawl through glass to get a creampie from a man they deeply desire. Additionally, you need to go buy some PlanB and leave it on standby for yourself in case you act retarded.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/25 02:11 PM
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I don’t track calories but I know If you knew, you wouldn't be in this position. Track your calories or don't, but when you fail you'll know why. Because you're a loser.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/25 02:07 PM
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If ya'll are dating a young 6.5 Asian girl, she's not a 6.5. She's ugly.
/r/askMRP28/01/25 08:55 PM
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I'm contemplating outsourcing a bunch of my menial tasks, such as cleaning around the house. I just need an extra 8 hours in a day to get everything done. When I found myself as a single dad and also a young 20-something disorganized mess while still wanting time to fuck pussy, I did the following: Hired a hot Columbian maid to come 1x a week, usually on Thursday. I had a nice place to fuck for the weekend and it saved me many hours. If you don't want to hire a fully-fledged service, just start …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/25 08:50 PM
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Your wife sounds more stable than you.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/25 01:45 PM
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There's always that one idiot in a group that is dumber than the rest.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/25 07:45 PM
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Stop making your initiations planned (cringe). It signals you're a needy fuck. Because, you're a needy fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/25 06:21 PM
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My entire day came out to around 1,500 calories over two meals without any hunger. Write this on your mirror, it's all that matters. Turns out you fell into being smart after everyone told you to stfu and eat nothing. You really should be doing 18:6 everyday.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/25 06:19 PM
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Thanks. I like there are only a few OYS now.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/25 06:15 PM
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Holy fuck what a bunch of bullshit. How the fuck do you guys put up with these dumb fucking women who want to fight about your vote? Next time just tell her to shut the fuck up and you'll be nice and grab er by the pussy later.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/25 02:55 PM
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That'd be retarded overt dread. "Quit being a cunt, or ill replace you." Is better.
/r/askMRP18/01/25 11:06 PM
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"What makes you think I'd only want one girl?"
/r/askMRP18/01/25 10:59 PM
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If you're resorting to active dread, you're better off just ending the relationship. Not in all circumstances. Trust me.
/r/askMRP18/01/25 10:58 PM
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I shot a lifetime best 64 this summer and even I'm still retarded. But it works.
/r/askMRP16/01/25 02:55 AM
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I saw someone else here encourage journaling. That's how I got through the first one, I detail how I dealt with the situation myself, talking to another dude with the same problem, buried in this this thread. You keep repeating cycles with each new discovery, and that's not all that bad of a thing. People call that chasing the dragon. I call it slaying the dragon. I already know where and how to get that fucking dragon, I just need enough balls and resources to go kill that motherfucker. Just be…
/r/askMRP15/01/25 08:22 PM
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If you found yourself in this situation, here at MRP, you already suck, and have sucked for a long time. We're talking about doing enough work to move a fucking physical and mental mountain, and that takes about a year of sustained improvement. 95% will fail. With that said, the success rate of men *not* at MRP is probably much higher because they're not retarded enough for this place.
/r/askMRP15/01/25 08:12 PM
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u/rocknrollchuck is pretty good at what he does, take it from me.
/r/askMRP15/01/25 08:04 PM
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You're encountering a classic success-borne mental issue I call the Imaginary Finish Line. The reality of life is that chasing the dragon is the whole ride. Men who unfuck themselves and make a bunch of progress always end up where you're at mentally in the intermediate stage, because they wrapped up their ego existentially in some goal. Problem is, you are guaranteed to have an existential crisis once you reach the goal if you've redefined your existence through said goal. Thus the Imaginary Fi…
/r/askMRP15/01/25 08:03 PM
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Pretty close. This is where you lay out your vision, once. That's all that's needed, then you continue on doing what you were doing before.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/25 07:36 PM
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I was abroad in asia for a while earlier this year. We got on the topic of ozempic and americans. This cute little 5'4, 97lb thing just looked at me and said "Wouldn't it be easier just to eat less?" Yes, but..... yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/25 08:56 PM
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Truthfully, it's not hard being MRP Nostradamus when a guy starts to actually listen and make progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/25 08:43 PM
1

Go be cheeky elsewhere you retard.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/25 08:38 PM
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Probably a main event, enjoy the hysterical binding my man, its wonderful. i would just like to claim that i called that shit before it happened
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/25 03:16 AM
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At this point I think it'd be good for you to revisit it. It does help to develop some needed apathy. It's my most read book of the sidebar. I have long flights and listen to it often. Probably at least 60 times now. I remember something new about myself usually.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/25 03:12 AM
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You haven't done shit. You'll get the ban, whiny shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/25 11:19 PM
3

You're on oys #1, read the advanced material right away, and called it hippie foo foo. You're more retarded than you think, there's a reason it's advanced material. You are not that. You either won't get it, or use it as beta masturbation material.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/25 11:17 PM
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I think you're close, but unless you hear the following words, accompanied by snot bubbles, it's not a main event. "How do/can I fit into your life?" Maybe I missed it in your response, but that's it. This is the only question that matters. For now, she's admitting that you're sexy and attractive (my OYS #27) and basically saying what my wife said "You make me horny and I can't resist you anymore." That's a stepping stone. Keep the foot on the gas. It hasn't come to the epiphany phase yet where …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/25 07:09 PM
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Sharing notes.... I spent 6 months looking for one (there wasn't one). It wasn't until I stopped looking that it actually happened.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/25 05:47 PM
2

Bottom line, each requires discipline. That's what we are talking about here.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/25 05:46 PM
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I disagree. I think his mission is fine. A mission doesn't have SMART goals. Those are goals, not a mission, and not to be conflated.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/25 04:23 PM
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This week, I settled on Horns’ advice to just go all in on myself for 90 days without ‘looking over my shoulder.’ From my OYS #34: Therefore, I’ve chosen to give it 3 months of getting out of my own fucking head, giving this 100%, putting my head down and soldiering on. At the end of those 3 months I’ll restock and evaluate where things are. Am I in a better place? Is she? Is the relationship? It won’t be a decision point – but rather an evaluation. I think this needs more time. molding myself t…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/25 03:15 PM
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You're asking good questions but you're not ready for the answers. Get 8 OYS under your belt, keeping the focus on you, and you'll find the answers. Your diet would benefit doing an 18:6 fast. It's a proven method for fat fucks. Also a proven method for remaining a fat fuck is to be a lazybfat fuck and not tracking calories. But you're not that serious yet about shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/25 02:00 AM
2

There's a guide in here on how to avoid a DV charge. You likely won't be able to dodge it. Only prepare for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/25 11:45 AM
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This wasn't arch, it was the same post from WMP. Someone else csn find the 101 and 201 series posts. The only way the second "what'd you expect" conversation happens is if you're an already congruent man worth a shit that has respect and standards, and I guess only then is it overtly communicated when she suspects you're banging a smoking 24yo and you won't lie.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/25 04:19 AM
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"What did you think was going to happen?" I hear this in my head often, and for good reason. Almost said it a few times, but WMP is right this should come after step 1 of "let's not give each other reasons to have an affair" chat.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/25 01:26 AM
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A healthy dose of narcissism is required. Some say it's fake it til you make it. At some point you won't be faking it anymore. Not only will it yield better results for you, but also your interactions with women. Cue rationale male and Dark triad attraction and all.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/24 09:48 PM
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The closer you get to actually becoming OI about initiations, the more you will fuck. The "she gets first shot" mindset when initiating is how. But, if you're not willing to take your own sex life into your own hands... she certainly knows this about you and will continue to act accordingly.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/24 09:34 PM
2

Food as a reward is the most retarded mindset ever. Next time you think of it, say out loud: "awww I've been a good little boy."
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/24 06:47 PM
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Quit worrying about her. You said so yourself: my fault as a reflection of my unattractive past. Yeah, so here you are - putting in some work now, who knows if it's quality work - but nonetheless it's more work than you were doing before on yourself. And then, you look over your shoulder and you see your former-self staring right back at you. I get it, the anger alot of times comes from a need to cuck your former life (and former-self) so you can move on. But what if I told you that the same shi…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/24 06:41 PM
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I've been suffering alot mentally from the fact that I have had no Intimacy, its killing me slowly Suffering? You weak little crybaby bitch.... like this is all something that someone did to you. Quit being a victim and actually do something. I bet you haven't even tried, but choose to wallow in your tears and sad cum from your hand
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/24 05:03 PM
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You're still angry, so it clouds everything. But you should learn how to give one single fuck. Why aren't you fucking? Angry? Got a sidepiece? Unattracted? What it is? Why are YOU not fucking? Not "why are you angry". Why are you not fucking?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/24 04:58 PM
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ate roughly maintenance during my travel, though my tracking was likely off somewhat since I was estimating without a scale during vacation. This experience taught me that proper eating is not yet intuitive I'll tell you what I tell all the dudes who don't yet know how to eat properly and are watching their weight when traveling: Eat some fucking salads and protein only. It's not that complicated. cancelled a 4 day trip that was coming up this weekend so I can be home and lock in. Sounds like a …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/24 03:07 PM
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That's precisely what you're asking to do, whilst in her frame.
/r/askMRP26/12/24 03:40 PM
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I gave you constructive advice, you're just too fucking retarded to see it.
/r/askMRP26/12/24 02:45 PM
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old RP materials that I originally used years back to pick her up This is the problem, Captain McLarptard. Everything else is a symptom.
/r/askMRP25/12/24 10:31 PM
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You don't have to go far to read about how guys like you get fucked over. You're the prime target. Naive, fat little bitches. Get the lawyer engaged immediately, and as wmp suggests, go get it all, everything, every cent, and even your balls back.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/24 12:30 AM
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Your "game" would be alot better if you just went and spent $200 on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/24 12:28 AM
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Not only playing stupid games, but caring about his friends feelings as motive to do so? Bwaahahahahhaa. Gay.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/24 11:14 PM
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You know what.... get fucked. Banned
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/24 12:16 AM
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5' 8" 147lbs 7% I've started logging all my meals to ensure my protein intake is appropriate. What's your daily kcal and protein intake? You need to grow - it should be one of your top priorities as a fucking manlet.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/24 02:20 PM
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You're the incel, arguing with normal dudes who fuck women that you're right. The sense of ego and entitlement is fucked. Who do you think is right? You? Ok, then show me how great your life is.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/24 12:14 PM
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That's kinda my point. Continual failures. But hey, let's just watch and laugh at them.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/24 12:09 PM
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You can manage it. When in doubt, double down.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/24 04:40 PM
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So I think I'll be okay for 6 months at least. No, you won't be OK. You thinking you'll be OK is how you got yourself into this sexless incel bullshit in the first place. You are complacent with you own godamn life. You wouldn't be here at MRP if you were "okay". Quit lying to yourself. Day trade? Oh geez. You fucking retards. How about get a real fucking job instead of one lazy motherfucking pipedream like some retarded keyboard warrior. You'd do better just to go to a construction yard, start …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/24 02:09 PM
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Can you fucking read? What makes you think you need to say anything at all? And, if you DO say anything, why say anything at all about the actual hair? I'm different than you, but my angle would be "Let's see if there's still enough to grab onto later how I like." Slapass, walkaway. You guys are so fucking dense.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/24 02:04 PM
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I want you to try something. For the next week, be nice. But don't say a god damned fucking word about anything other than logistics. Shit test? STFU. Comfort test? STFU. Just be a goddamned fucking autistic fuck about it. Ok? Just SHUT. THE. FUCK. UP. Because just when you might pass a shit test by shutting the fuck up you open your little faggot mouth and fail it with this shit. Fucking hell man. Shut the fuck up. It's only a week. And she is going to shit test you harder. Just shut the fuck u…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/24 12:04 PM
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If you weren't a self admitted incel I'd ban you. This is the worst OYS I've seen in a year. NONE of your goals have any substance, plan, or direction. You can research your own diet. Moving to what city? Costs? Have you even done research? Make money? How? Approach artistically women for 2 hours ain't that bad. You need to stop mentally masturbating and doing nothing. That's how you became an incel. Start DOING shit and don't stop lifting.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/24 12:00 PM
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Suprise, you have had on your hands a sweet, cooperative, sexual, submissive woman who is married to a man who hasn't enforced any consequences and has never actually just done what he wanted. There's a reason fifty shades of gray is one of the best selling books of all time. Take a look at my posts of cheat codes. Based on your actions I think you've already read a bunch of my stuff. And if you haven't, you've stumbled into the exact same scenario I was in. You've basically been married to a ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/24 11:53 AM
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Getting a new hairdo is literally a scenario in the post: She fixed her hair different than normal. From across the room I looked at it - it looked great! It brought joy to me. I kept looking at her, feeling through her, and looking at her hair. She says, "oh do you like my hair? Does it make you happy?" I just smile. No words spoken. ....She reads into me. I read into her. But overall? It's all game. It's game, fellas. I'm constantly gaming my woman. Long story short... you missed an opportunit…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/24 11:35 AM
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You missed the point. And why are you replying to me?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/24 01:07 AM
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"sweat cum out of your eyeballs" which makes me laugh and refocus. accept the outcome and make a joke or say something corny. game her more: making her laugh None of this is a fucking joke. You dumb fuckers, all alike. Here, this will help you... Initiations: You're not that funny. You're not getting laid because you're a try-hard pussy. Cut it out. From that post: Only Chad gets to be sexually crass, because he's a guy who fucks. She knows it, he knows it. In fact, his little jokes about her be…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 11:42 PM
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This week my wife pissed me off by implying that I was sexist and didn't value women. "Oh, sweetheart, you bring plenty of value. You can show me later." Slapass, walkaway. why are you all so retarded?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 11:39 PM
2

I think we just need to start banning anyone who's weight starts with a 3. They're just going to fail anyways.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 08:00 PM
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Don't fill the sub with a novel of shit. No one cares. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 07:33 PM
2

What's more enjoyable? Fucking holes, or masturbating to what your wife thinks?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 05:04 PM
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I have a strong hunch that the massive leap in vulnerable comfort building and passionate kissing needed to be decoupled from sex for the moment. Huh? what the fuck is this? Train the bitch to seek comfort in your cock. Are you even fucking? This was first successful initiation that wasn't ovulatory since beginning my MRP journey, could signal that I am getting upgraded from ovulation-only sex to pity-sex. This was last week. No, you're not fucking. If you're not fucking shut the fuck up about a…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 03:52 PM
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I agree these fags need to state consequences, but also I don't see a single one of them enforcing them unless they feelz like they're the prize. Obviously, having another woman they're fucking validates that mentality for better or worse.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 03:47 PM
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he is not mentally tough enough What gave you that impression? Oh. It must be he has a giant history of being a weak and fat Fuck for a sustained amount of time. My point is this: this guy probably will fail. I give it 95% chance. Quit coddling him. It doesn't require ego retardation like Goggins, but he needs to drastically change - not baby steps. Hang around here long enough and you'll see you waste your time on these guys. Show them what really needs to be done and walk. Stop treating them l…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 03:38 PM
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You're a solid lifter, clearly you've done the work, but this fat fuck is 350+ lbs. You're 195 and 10%BF. I'm not so sure you understand that you're giving him excuses in your advice. Yes, he might binge later, but right now he needs rapid improvement. There was a dude here that lost 100lbs in like 5 months by crashing. I don't think you've ever been as fat and fucked as OP. He does need to crash IMO. This fuck has 150lbs of fat. They simply aren't like normal dudes.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 02:10 PM
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You know what sucks about ego lifting? It keeps you fat.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 01:28 PM
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If it does fit, I'd wager this is nothing more than her ego, and I've seen this hundreds of times at MRP. It's just part of the epic test. Most would answer here that it’s because she wants to put her little beta-boy back in his box. I can agree with that. But it’s also because she wants to protect her own SMV. If she ever admitted you were better than her, it would require her to admit that there has been a power shift in the dynamics of the relationship where you start to hold the cards of you…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 01:12 PM
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Reading your interactions with your wife, I'm going to take a shot and tell me if it sticks. I think the reason you're getting hard no's is obviously, yes, this behavior is new, but I think there is a problem with your mindset and your woman is reading right through it. You need to imagine (for now, until you really are) yourself as the prize here. Deep down you might not see her as the prize, but it's certainly not you. Your woman needs someone to fuck the bitch out of her and put her back in t…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 12:35 PM
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Don't give shit advice.
/r/askMRP16/12/24 11:54 PM
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BPPs 12 levels of dread are not on the sidebar for a reason. 12 levels of dread are a covert contract 3 stages of dread
/r/askMRP16/12/24 11:08 PM
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Your advice is 5 years behind.
/r/askMRP16/12/24 09:27 PM
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This is the way.
/r/askMRP16/12/24 05:00 PM
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Tell me how you could STFU and puke in counseling at the same time.
/r/askMRP16/12/24 01:24 PM
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Frame. You don't have it.
/r/askMRP16/12/24 02:00 AM
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Good sex is your responsibility. Quit shifting your own inadequacies in the bedroom onto her. If you're bored, that means you're boring. As far as the CIM, I'd be taking the good girl angle. Only good girls get to swallow Daddy.
/r/askMRP15/12/24 08:16 PM
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Your advice is the joke.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/24 06:41 PM
1

Eat the fucking pizza, bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/24 03:24 AM
1

The Holy Grail of Cum experiment It's at askmrp for a reason.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/24 01:00 AM
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5’9 140lb , 24 Fix this, and I bet the sperm count fixes itself. Currently you're not a man. Maybe a gay twink. If you've always been like this it's no wonder your balls are underdeveloped.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/24 12:58 AM
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Now yall see why I tell dudes to just give up all the time. Glad to see others getting on board.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/24 08:08 AM
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In that case, I think you have the same sentiments as me. The dating market is insanely unfair, and dangerous because of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/24 08:41 AM
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value leach, can't even OYS. Do you even lift?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/24 02:56 PM
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I didn't really, really know either. Most of my SMV was tied up in some unique game and good looks until I hit 40. When I pulled it all together, game/frame/looks, the insanity of potential was realized. Basically, I'd know my beta game was 110% better than anyone that ever arrived here at MRP. I had a good foundation for building trust, intrigue, and attraction (albeit, novelty attraction). When I was able to add in some "alpha" game after MRP, it went to the fucking moon. For those reading alo…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/24 02:55 PM
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Guy2 = me. Identical. I married a 27yo 8.5, who was a 9 in her prime. I was an 8.5 with a massive ceiling before I took a c-suite role. The actions premeditating the post-mindset of guy2 are identical as well to my journey. To a fuciing T. Now, guy2 ends as a 9. That's some dangerous as fuck territory where 23yo 9s are throwing themselves at you. That's my point. Guy2 already was an 8. He knows how to handle women. Did you write this about me? Hahaha
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/24 03:25 AM
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Yep, spot on. The only thing that changes really is time. Most of the dudes here are in the 36-48ish age range. It's no coincidence. It's only when their lives has sustained shit long enough that they take action. I'm an example of this too, I ventured for answers at 37. It's entirely possible to go from a 4 to an 8 in life when you've previously topped out at 6 "normal average guy".... You just have to be 26 years old or younger, divorce without baggage, and lift for 10 years maybe to pull 8s. …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/24 01:00 AM
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Sounds like she isn't cut out for the job. That's fine. Fix it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 10:05 PM
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Iron Rule 7. 9 month marriage to a girl who fucked another man while with you.... you really don't believe they just kissed, right?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 10:02 PM
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I think this goes back to our conversation last week, and how these normal dudes will probably get the best sex out of their wives. after 10 years of check-the-box sex A new guy emerges, Chadlite, and he's kind of the same loving beta guy as before, but now he has the lite edge to him with sexual overtones (not undertones just yet). He's interesting, so she tests it. My point to all of this was that most of these guys wives want them to win. From that post: She WANTS you to pass this test. She d…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 09:54 PM
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What you describe is the difference between dominance and control. I can't tell you the number of times I've encountered a "Dominant man,", only to discover he's using control, not dominance, to validate and manipulate. I have zero desire for control. Brats bore me. On the other hand, the amount of women who desire to give up and give you control is somewhat infinite when you have the mindset of a dominant man.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 07:02 PM
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When I do show or speak dominantly it sounds like bad acting. About 70% of the time it’s not taken seriously. The more overtly sexual it is the more defensive the reaction. Other times it has had a negative effect, specifically when I am physical, specifically touching her head. Want to know why this is happening? It's because you aren't a dominant person, or at least have the mindset of one. You're faking it. No Toys for Baby”. I responded, “Good Girl”. Her reply was that it was her own decisio…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 04:30 PM
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Going monk mode is just running away from your problems. You're afraid of fucking up. Remember, doing things is better than not doing things.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 01:20 PM
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Some say there's no magic to be able to tell the difference but i disagree. No one here is mentioning the genie. Have you tried rubbing her butthole?
/r/askMRP01/12/24 06:23 PM
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think whatever clever thing I come up with now (some variation of laughing it off, I guess) Ahh shit you're one of those guys. Initiations: You're not that funny. I wrote a post for you, you're that common.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/24 05:30 PM
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These kinds of exchanges are usually for those just reading along, not necessarily for OP. /u/futilefighter , myself and others tend to take this approach of teasing out things for the guys doing the work. It's not a challenge. You have nothing to improve. You have things to do. That's easy. So STFU, Lift, Read, and do things.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/24 05:26 PM
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Yes, my wife was a model. And yes, I would have had to have to good qualities to start with. But my point is that it's all relative. So my wife was a 9. Ok? I was probably a 10% guy at some point to even be able to crack that glass. Again, most guys who even "complete the MRP program" successfully never become a 10% guy. And they never will, it's designed that way. But to their SMV 6-7 wives, they are remarkably better and more fuckable and more attractive than most any man they've ever been wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/24 12:42 PM
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I'm happy to elaborate more, but here's my quick thoughts, again, happy to get intonfirther discussion. Yes, it fairly easy to get to 10%, especially in the US. Agreed. But.... There's a reason those dudes make it to the 10%. Maybe 1 out of 10 guys that come here and do the work actually get there, despite its comically easy gap to achieve. That's my point. Most guys will improve. But they'll never be "great". They are normal. Which is why I believe they won't be able tp do what you or I can wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/24 12:55 AM
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(insert complaints, counterattacks, plausible deniability, how come you won’t engage in our relationship? Can’t I express my opinion?). So it will create the kind of pressure that in history I’ve ended up DEERing and placating. So, I guess it’s the perfect opportunity for me to work on changing my internal and external reactions. If it's anything like what happened to me, and most dudes who also placated for years and avoiding conflict, you can expect things to wildly escalate the more often you…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 08:54 PM
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Did it ever occur to you that women derive even more validation from sex than men? If you accept that (even just for the moment), how would it change your approach to sex? I've been saying for years... a woman's highest source of validation is being selected over and over by a high value man. And of course that implies fucking. I've been thinking lately, maybe men should ask themselves: Have you ever been a woman's fantasy? Especially the freshies so they don't wife up pee-pee toucher #1
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 08:42 PM
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Couple of things I noticed that might help you: "rediscovering" RP. I was a frustrated nerd trying to get laid. It's just like that now, but with extra restrictions and responsibilities. The bolded part... I actually think it's quite the opposite. In your case I think your wife likes you. She's probably not attracted to you, but at least she likes you enough. At some point in time she really liked you and was really attracted to you. So there's a baseline there that isn't that awful. If you laye…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 08:30 PM
1

Still not generating tingles or enough dread. You're either boring, or every unhappy wife is a rape victim. If you're boring, how?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 07:09 PM
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If you think attractive women are checking you out at 351lbs, you are delusional dude. Keep the focus on yourself rather than your desire for validation.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 01:08 PM
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Think we are learning that your current girl likes a semi broken emotionally closed off partner. Can tell by her actions, submissive and sexually available You're an idiot. Example being able to make a woman orgasm is a beta trait. And a fucking retard.
/r/askMRP25/11/24 11:13 PM
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The next morning, my wife tried to corner me about not informing her of my plans. I took my gym bag and just went to the gym. STFU. Quit acting like a fucking retard Mr. Mysterioso. The captain doesn't just leave the fucking ship without telling the crew his general plans. That's retarded as fuck if you're the leader. You're just attempting to play stupid dread games, and you like it. Quit being a bitch and actually be attractive and mysterious.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/24 04:49 PM
1

This is so fucking retarded. You're arguing with your wife over $25, and it's not even a problem. Let that sink in. I went shopping later and only got the stuff that I was sure was going to get eaten. She mentioned that I didn't get everything she wanted, so I quickly reiterated what I said earlier and ignored her comments about me being controlling. She did not bring up the subject again. You could have just done this and STFU.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/24 04:44 PM
1

Good you're admitting the truth. That's what this place is for. Next question: Do you want to ? If the answer is yes, maybe you should do something about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/24 04:29 PM
1

SO when was the last time you fucked your woman?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/24 08:05 PM
2

Me too, shit is exhausting.
/r/askMRP20/11/24 04:50 PM
2

I love the silent treatment.
/r/askMRP20/11/24 02:38 PM
1

Did you try using a spreadhseet? Or alternatively, stop initiating like an autist and do so authentically. Tried that?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/24 01:20 PM
1

Never change your mind just to please a woman. -TWOTSM, Chapter 6. You know exactly why you're doing this, but let's look deeper. You're afraid she will get upset. On the other hand, you have a good reason (for you) that you need to do this. It's all a test. If it's that important to you, and you're on a path, then nothing she says will change your path. This is strength. This is attractive. Instead, you're scared she'll be mad. And then what? Seriously? Are you fucking afraid of a little girl? …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/24 01:17 PM
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Why the fuck are you guys who aren't fucking "initiate softly". Are you guys who want to fuck or not? Godamn yall are a bunch of shameful pussies. Lay your balls on the table and let them get crushed. At least then you're giving it 100%.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/24 01:13 AM
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I think I’m scared for some reason, and not sure what that reason is. Oh come on you pussy. You know why. Trading notes, but my wife blows me when I get home from the woods.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/24 01:09 AM
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Timeline: Escaping Sex for Validation, and Quitting Porn Until you fix this, nothing will get fixed. Your porn usage has you stuck in this cycle, and the only way to free yourself is to stop cucking yourself. This effects everything. When was the last time you fucked your woman? My guess is years, if ever.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/24 01:02 AM
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What is the answer to “why aren’t you saying anything, you never talk”? You're likely in robot STFU phase. When I went through this, before I knew how to talk properly, my answer to this was "I have a lot to think about". Then went broken record when the questions came. My response inadvertently caused dread.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/24 12:16 PM
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Congrats on getting fucked.
/r/askMRP16/11/24 05:02 PM
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You just married this woman on a green card, and now this...
/r/askMRP16/11/24 01:14 PM
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One party, two women
/r/askMRP15/11/24 01:42 PM
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How to respond to shits tests about other women.
/r/askMRP15/11/24 12:22 AM
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I’m the one that brought the pizza meme here You sure about that? I don't remember you back here in 2018.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/24 01:32 PM
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Ok, so why aren't you fucking other women instead? Let's have some fun. What if OP was being authentic in everything he said in his OYS... and he was also getting his rocks rolled by a woman who was way better at working a dick. What'd you say then? I'm curious because.... science. And let's presume he likes his wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 05:56 AM
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Do that without opening your mouth.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 02:58 AM
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You've done the work in an area. Appreciate it.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 02:55 AM
2

I cycled through all the supplement ideas I found on Reddit you haven't found the best one in askmrp yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 07:59 PM
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she did literally say "I feel like I don't even know you, you're never vulnerable with me" - read 'you never share any feelz with me, so I feel disconnected from you.' If you can't be vulnerable, your frame is shit. She isn't wrong. Took me too long to figure out myself (5 years+). Vulnerability looks different from this side, it's not some BP fantasized shit like before.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 07:54 PM
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you've been asking some really good shit lately, just commenting to tell you that I can see alot of guys getting some value out of it
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 05:59 PM
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I initiated once a few days ago and was rejected. Last night we had some hot makeup sex after a fight I caused with my anger. Are you sure that your lazy libido and lack of fucking isn't because you're boring? I know, because the moment you generate some feelz (good or bad) with some manufactured outrage, you get laid. I've been suppressing my emotions for a long time This can also effect your sex life, particularly when women run on feelz. If you're been a boring emotionless cunt, it's no surpr…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 05:57 PM
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Are you sure you aren't gay? Besides lifting like a twink, you are exhibiting quite a few behaviors that say so.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 05:42 PM
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"chair yoga" I had to go look this up, and it is equally cringe as it is fucking gay. What the actual fuck?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 03:03 PM
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I am a natural beta husband so the absence of the alpha characteristics/traits are dousing the fire before it starts. You talk like a bitch, act like a bitch, and fuck like a bitch... but can you explain to us here what you think "alpha characteristics/traits" are? The level of weights are still right for me but I know that I'm mostly training for aesthetics. You also lift like a bitch. How would an ALFA lift?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 02:58 PM
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Mentally divorce yourself from the old(er) drunk version of yourself and stop flogging yourself needlessly. Seriously that's your biggest problem. Your woman can read into your pussy thoughts and lack of self- confidence and responds accordingly, even if she doesn't know it. Respect yourself and see what happens.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 01:31 PM
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Same fucking question I had. Dude sounds like a puppy following mommy around showing her tricks he's learned
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 01:27 PM
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my wife went to instigate cuddles after the children had gone to bed. I think to myself we haven’t had sex over the past few days so I rejected cuddles. You probably don't understand this just yet, so let's just tell you. Your wife was initiating sex with you here, subtly, like most all LTR women do. Your woman is not a man with tits, so stop expecting her to initiate like one. Next time escalate, and when the shit test LMR happens - which it will, a simple "cuddles ain't free, babe" while you c…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 01:22 PM
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What I find most interesting about it is that even if the notes "got out" what ILYBINILWY was to women, I highly suspect we'd never see a change in behavior and words used. Cue some youtube redpill retard
/r/askMRP11/11/24 04:08 AM
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Mate guarding is her job. Not yours. The relationship is her job.
/r/askMRP10/11/24 04:56 PM
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Eating big from now on will be a bar only benchpress. This is your only goal. Hopefully you came away with that.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/24 05:49 AM
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I was keeping a running list in the post itself (see under examples) but at this point the post would need updating weekly with examples.
/r/askMRP09/11/24 03:25 PM
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As a reminder folks, this is the guy who got ILYBINILWY and fixed it in 5 days. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/1e6i6be/i_got_the_i_love_you_but_ilybinilwy_and_solved_it/ We appreciate you coming back to update us and add to the list of guys who got ILYBINILWY, and also thought we were all wrong. Sorry dude.
/r/askMRP09/11/24 01:47 PM
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and I would have to decide between a nuclear family and living with my kids OR having a fantastic sex life with other women, I'm not sure what I would choose Then just quit now. Because you are going to fail and waste your time. Why you must be willing to nuke your nuclear family. But right now I don't have a choice yet, so I didn't contemplate much on this. Yes, you do. Stay plan is the go plan. But that link is required reading to get there.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/24 05:23 PM
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My wife will ask me to talk dirty and tell me what I want -- outside the bedroom even -- and I either don't know what to say or don't want to say what's actually on my mind. If I do say something I feel awkward about it and not sexy. Have you tried "yeah... do you like that, you fucking retard"?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/24 11:33 AM
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Have you considered your goal of a fantastic sex life isn't with your wife?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/24 11:25 AM
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Give the bitch nothing to do but fuck you is my field report on doing exactly this.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/24 11:20 AM
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It's literally the only thing between you and your goals. A pizza. Go eat it and report back.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/24 11:10 AM
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Did you eat the pizza yet? pushing that baby out of me. Bwaahaha, glad someone else experienced it and I'm not the only retard.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/24 12:32 AM
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I still get sex like once a week without trying, but I feel like I should be getting more Hahahahhahahhahahahahahaha You've done nothing except the BP stuff, and yet, you have a sense of entitlement. What a crock of shit Look dude - everything you just wrote me coule be "she's nice and a good person". How about you work on you, understand she adds no value (right now) and do the work starting with the sidebar? That way you concentrate on the shit that matters. Not your wife's pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 09:20 PM
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Daily Protein Target - increased to 225g More. And take the shit pills (psyllium husk tablets). How many times have I said this? 225 is easy. It's 4 shakes for 160g (40g each), then you have 65g remaining. You can easily do 300g. It's literally 4 shakes and 2 steaks. Eat the fucking pizza, bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 08:44 PM
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If you're doing everything, what value does she add?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 08:42 PM
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This is Nice Guy 101. Covert contracts included.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 08:36 PM
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Let's put it this way: your wife's cycle, and currently where it's at, is in control of your sex life and dick.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 08:36 PM
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Read the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 07:28 PM
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You're retarded. This was a joke. But thanks for playing How pathetic do you need to be to be in your wife's period's frame? I guess pretty pathetic. You guys who track this shit are losers.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 07:15 PM
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You're starting to get decent IOI's and passive dread building, and also not DEERing and shit. noticed when you do the slightest deviation from the herd. This mentality applies to the bedroom as well. If you want to speed up the process, just go to a baby shower. I was on week #35 and it kinda fell into my lap. I suspect you're in for the same soon, fair warning. I didn't even phase me, much like your mentality about the soccer moms and rando bored wives.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 07:08 PM
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Goals To have a fantastic sex life. To be a calm, steady rock for my family. To show good example for my kids Laughable... until you see that all 3 of these goals might be mutually exclusive.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 07:01 PM
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Sex is more regular but I am not getting it as much as I want. There's your mindset problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 06:57 PM
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“aren’t you ovulating?” She said “yeah?” And I put my crotch near her face and said “take some initiative in this relationship” she giggled but said, “no I’m tired” and I replied, “so you’re not horny but ovulating? That’s weird.” The worst part is, about 3 days ago Maybe your spreadsheet was off by a couple days
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 06:55 PM
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I tell dudes all the time being not-fat will solve 80% of their problems. A real simple fix to all this is if you had someone else that wanted to fuck you as well. This is literally the fix for the remainder of their problems.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 06:52 PM
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According to “the science”, the problem is the stress. But according to RP, that wouldn’t be a problem if the man was high enough value. Bingo. I went through years of a highly anxious and stressed wife. Guess what made that go away? Being a man who fucks. She had no choice but to fall in line and grab the 1000 ft tow rope, or be left behind. While you might have made physical improvements, you seem to lack the ability to clearly tell your woman to fuck off or get on the boat. It was only at thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 03:50 PM
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Im on alert now of a retard that might escape the retard playpen. Let's see if he finds a way to OYS, it's rare Years ago we ran a retard experiment here at Askmrp, and the success rate was 0%. Or 100%, however you interpret the data.
/r/askMRP01/11/24 12:46 AM
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new tinderella is to watch what she is dying to do. IME creampies top this list. I once had a girl go get long term BC with the explicit reason of dying to do this her first time. For some it's eating ass, and you can feel she is crawling to have your asshole in her mouth. I think that's our version of feelz, and I know exactly what you're talking about.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/24 05:10 AM
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I went back and did some research because I was curious. Your lifts at week 34 are: Squat 165, Bench 142.5, DL 250 Mine, at 34 weeks: 265SQ / 265DL / 155BP And I weighed in at a whopping 164 pounds. You have 13 lbs on me and we are basically the same height. Same amount of time. I had never lifted a barbell in my life before week #1. This kind of tells me you've been eating like a slob AND fucking around for 6 months in the gym. Likely also lying to yourself focused on weight gain being a measur…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 09:45 PM
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> I asked for a form check to put my money where my mouth is. I'm not your daddy. And I don't care.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 07:32 PM
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Dude. Why can't you just video yourself and be your own judge? Plenty of form videos on YT
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 06:47 PM
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So I'm looking for ways to get into state even when I'm out by myself. Have a purpose, and don't just go "to see" as an audience member would. Something as small as "im going out to talk to a new person" will put you into an entirely different mindset, which is the one you desire from your OYS. Sometimes my purpose is to simply observe how women behave. Sometimes I want to watch a ballgame for a couple of innings and see if anything interesting happens.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 06:01 PM
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There is no fucking way I believe your squats are ass to grass @ 270# when you're walking around with 366# of fat. Are you going ass to grass? Doubtful and I bet you're doing half squats.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 03:40 PM
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You should be further along than you are with the sex and mindset. Your problem is this: 5'11, 177lb, 21% BF You're unattractively skinny-fat. 9 months ago these were your stats and struggles: 5'11, 155lb, 21% BF My biggest hurdle is eating enough. You've made good progress on the weight, adding 22#. However, you have made zero progress on the bodyfat here, which should be linear if you're lifting heavy (think: for every 10lbs you add, you'll need to drop 3% BF. If you'd done this right, and ate…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 03:25 PM
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After a few minutes we finished with a good hard fuck. Best session in a while. Afterwards and all the next day my wife was withdrawn Read up on aftercare. Cuddles ain't free, but they're also required.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 03:16 PM
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I can literally fuck the frustration and anxiety out of her now which is something I've never experienced until now. Yep, this happens. Just go read Dunlops latest FR here. Be wary though, if you reinforce and praise this you're likely to have your dick worn out.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 02:30 PM
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Given enough time those other women will figure you out also.
/r/askMRP28/10/24 08:36 PM
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Seriously what's so fucking complicated about the sentence "No."
/r/askMRP26/10/24 06:31 PM
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Askmrp delivers again, jfc. I am constantly surprised at how hilariously retarded people are.
/r/askMRP26/10/24 12:51 PM
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All my hobbies are related to sports Dude, you probably want to requalify the "sports" thing if all you're doing is batting a ball on a table back and forth with some other lonely gayfags. I think you have some ego here, but maybe I'm overreaching. Just tell tale signs I am used to telling her everything Don't you have any friends? Yeah...
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 08:36 PM
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I'm more impressed with him getting the number of a rare lonely thot mom.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 08:33 PM
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Am I supposed to be impressed with his ability to negotiate desire?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 01:18 PM
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Worst rule 9 in ages.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 01:18 PM
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You sound like a real joy to be with and fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 11:23 PM
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Your feelings are bad and you feel bad for having them. Anger is cyclical. If you're still dancing a bit and have covert contracts you haven't discovered, thats #1. This is where your anger lies. When you finally get to that, you'll start to see your wife's behavior improve (most likely from my experience in this exact situation) or she won't and you'll ditch her. Either way you'll give way less fucks and be more authentic in your anger, which ironically, makes women wet.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 11:16 PM
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Why are you starting over at OYS #1 again? Did you ever clear up that case of vaginismus? I got oral that night How nice of her.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 10:44 PM
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You can want and have both if you're congruent. That's my point. Your mindset limits itself to either/or. If you're a first gen hunter this will absolutely become your mistress for the next few years if you want to be better than bad at it. 10 years later you might be OK. It's a time in the seat endeavor. I think you understand that commitment and are afraid of your wife instead. Pick a path and walk it, you know the risks. At least this way will be your own path.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 10:41 PM
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Daily Protein Target - increased to 187g Still not enough, twink.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 07:28 PM
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trying to bow hunt more this season. This creates some friction with the wife because she doesn’t like being left alone with our toddler. She is a SAHM but doesn’t have hobbies. So far, I plan to go out, inform her ahead of time, and allow her to get angry/indignant, don’t argue or try to make-up for it, and do what I planned anyways. It’s worked some, but other times I cave and don’t go. Very weak mindset, so trying to focus on doing what I want and not letting her tantrums deter me. I bowhunt …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 07:23 PM
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at 6ft and 156# you're a walking fucking skeleton. Why in the fuck are you on a cut?? And don't tell me what I know you'll say. I'm a guy who was 6ft and 141# at one point.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 07:17 PM
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Look at you, acting like a man who fucks. With no acting involved.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 07:12 PM
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My wife needs verbal intercourse in order to focus and enjoy sex. Highly unlikely in my experience of getting the best out of girls. I think at the basics, it's worthwhile exploring if it might be your game, and your ability to elicit feelz from a woman that leads to good sex. Everything from your body language, your temperature, your ability to truly DNGAF, all of this matters way more than the words you say. In fact, I'd wager that if you were a congruent man in all of this, she'd probably muc…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 06:58 PM
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Still failing to see the point, or question of your whiny bitch post.
/r/askMRP19/10/24 02:44 PM
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What the fuck? How is this anymore relevant than a play retard games win retard prizes? Get a fucking grip dude.
/r/askMRP19/10/24 02:56 AM
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Won't make sense to a guy who's retarded. Control = you want the dominance through force Dominance = she gives up control to you, naturally
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/24 05:53 PM
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Great. You're welcome.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/24 11:39 AM
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I'm sure others here would benefit from your notes.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/24 09:30 PM
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during which I was informed that the reason why I’ve made such a physical transformation was because of the dinners that she was cooking. I knew, knew it was a shit test but still got a little mad. I think this was more of a comfort test than a shit test, personally. She's grasping at straws here seeking your approval, that was my read. “so that’s why you haven’t been doing what I want, going against my will”. I responded with “so?” and started laughing. Great response. Why? Because it's probabl…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/24 08:13 PM
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She's not the prize.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/24 07:55 PM
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10 years lurking and you still catch a rule 9 on your first try. You should probably just quit, i think that's in your heart.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/24 07:51 PM
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Might as well just give up now dude. Glad someone else says this shit here and understands why we say it
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/24 07:50 PM
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The thing about mate guarding... is when you finally are on the other side of all this garbage, you don't mate guard at all. If she's a good girl, she mate guards herself.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/24 07:48 PM
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I tried the “push your emotions into her” thing as suggested last week. I had been thinking about her ass and seemed to transmit it. It got an “I feel what you are doing” smile and certainly had an effect of upping the tension even further. For reference your OYS last week .... but before we get there, let's talk about the progress you've made in just 2-3 short weeks: You were weaning yourself off fucking for validation. You realized you were camped in Stage 2 of escaping this, often where men s…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/24 07:39 PM
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Men without frame and the things they do.... this was a hilarious read. You're a fucking pussy dude. Stfu. You're attempting to get in the ring by talking with 8 inch biceps. Just stfu
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/24 10:51 AM
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Incel fantasies
/r/askMRP11/10/24 01:45 AM
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A year ago you're searching for a woman who dresses modestly to date? Wtf?
/r/askMRP11/10/24 01:43 AM
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I don't doubt it's effectiveness, but you're telling retards to take mind altering drugs... it surely makes for a good Rambo story
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/24 05:55 PM
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micro dosing psychedelics. Here we go again with someone giving this suggestion, giving the 'tards dynamite every few months
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/24 12:58 PM
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Don't worry that's a really old movie for grampas
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/24 12:56 PM
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I'm not telling you what to do, only what has been most helpful for me. If I do this, I go into it with no covert contracts, as that's the experiment itself. It's fine to set your boundaries. Can you enter into the game without an outcome in mind (aka covert contract) and just to practice... wait for it.... Outcome independence?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/24 12:49 PM
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Don't approach it that way dude... but I get it. If you're looking for proof from the start, you won't find it. The idea is to get out there authentically and observe while having fun. Treating it as a game with a desired outcome will wreck the game itself.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/24 12:02 PM
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Yes. At its core, it teaches you how to only care about the things you can control... the inputs, not the outcomes. When you realize you're the one in control over all your emotions, or at least recognize when something happens that doesn't align with your desires, it means little to you. Here's an example: let's say you're happy with your body in the gym and the gains are now only small increments instead of noob gains... and your woman throws you a shit test about something asinine to put you …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/24 11:59 AM
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It's a call to action, rather than wallowing in victimhood. This is how you learn to give less fucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/24 02:28 AM
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I've got a fair amount of work travel over the next quarter to ponder this. Catch and release (or whatever you want) could not only help sharpen your game, but also get you out of your head when it comes to being who you are.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/24 12:09 AM
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More simply put, it's why the success rate here at MRP is about 5%. Thats just the way it's meant to be. Pretty decent entertainment from the tards and autists though.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/24 09:42 PM
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Hope you're ready to slam some 10+ year younger pussy. Have fun.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/24 08:42 PM
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They serve a purpose, not sure if it's valuable though. The normal dudes don't really compare themselves which is likely a foundational element of why they aren't losers.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/24 07:18 PM
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Some guys are just so extremely slow getting through their own bs. I also can't recall a guy that was slow and actually made it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/24 07:00 PM
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clearly my wife wanted to fuck, but didn't want to be seen as the cause of it. Read up on madonna/whore complex. She even acted like a whore with the payment stuff, might as well treat her like one.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/24 04:49 PM
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Might look at trying sumo deadlifts to see if angle will help. Also look into a hex bar for deads. I switched a couple years ago to it
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/24 04:42 PM
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Good on recognizing it. Now you can apply this same logic to other areas and you'll know the work you have to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/24 04:34 PM
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You used the word, not me. Your words will always betray you. You DID think that until just now, and now you capitulate. Why? Because you're a liar.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/24 01:12 PM
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You're happy with this outcome because you're lying to yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/24 12:21 PM
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I advised you to game/flirt because you needed this: That evening I started to feel a real intense desire to fuck. It’s hard to describe, but my mindset seemed to flip You were so stuck on fucking for validation that you don't know why you want to fuck without it. Now you've experienced one of the good reasons to have sex. And also: must’ve read the Timeline: escaping sex for validation post half a dozen times, and said “nah, not me, I just like fucking”. Well reading it now, seems almost word f…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/24 11:59 AM
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now talking with her feels empty and boring to me What's the likelihood that you're angry at yourself instead for having nothing better to do than sit around and listen to a boring woman?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/24 11:53 AM
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You are attempting to control, not dominate. The difference is subtle and the mindset is not. What you're trying to do is control her actions and such, often with a revenge fantasy as retard dread, especially when she doesn't do what you want. The truth is you're a fucking loser and resort to this kind of behavior because you have a woman who isn't attracted to a pussy. Newsflash: you're an unattractive pussy who can't even dominate himself. Domination begins with dominance over oneself.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/24 11:44 AM
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So much drilling. Literally.
/r/askMRP08/10/24 05:14 AM
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This guy definitely doesn't need to be saddling up with a 6-7 crazy. But me? I prefer it. That horse can ride.
/r/askMRP08/10/24 12:32 AM
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Aloha's wife was in a secret affair and set his girl up with the affair partner for her playing beta. Too soon to tell. Blargs wife went lesbian. The gap (smv and life in general) was too large for her to overcome so she quit. Still too soon to tell. Futile doesn't see his kids. Rpeed abandoned the kids to travel. Cad/perseus/archwinger stayed for kids if I recall correctly, but were running trains.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/24 02:26 AM
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My entire first year
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/24 10:24 PM
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Long term they fare better (10+ years). Short term they are worse. It would depend on the age of the child IMO.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/24 08:32 AM
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You'd have to be more specific about those issues, but without knowing what they are... my answer is yes, and they are worse. My notes say kids in this situation fare emotionally worse than kids with absent fathers. They detach from a willing father and have cognitive dissonance they can't confront.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/24 08:12 AM
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100% sure if I want to marry or start to have a girlfriend living over, things gonna go over the hill as HOA said. It was at this point that all of those dudes mentioned in this post, myself included, that it went downhill. We have all seen each other's ex's pics and current girls pics. Objectively we have all remarried or live with a hotter, younger, more submissive chick that is easily 2-3 points higher in SMV. That's what starts all of this. My advice to avoid this is to not LTR another girl …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/24 08:01 AM
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What every skinny guy should know
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/24 04:28 AM
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Average Daily Calorie Target - 3350 Kcal - gonna bump up to around 3800 next week Daily Protein Target - 130g - gonna bump up to 140 next week You're 5'11 and 148lbs. I was 6'0 and 141lbs when I started here. You need to increase your protein to 300g a day, and take psyllium husk tablets for the brick shits. I am dead fucking serious. This is how I gained 35lbs of pure muscle in about a year while maintaining 9-11% BF the whole time. Download myfitnesspal, pay for the thing, and scan everything.…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/24 04:25 AM
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There is no Morpheus without a willing Neo.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/24 04:36 AM
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If you want to stop, you'll need to divorce yourself from yourself and objectively look in the mirror. DEERing is a sure sign of the lack of ability to reflect. Basically, you're a fat bitch. Until you're not that, you'll continue.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 11:37 PM
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I didn't want sex and admitting that makes me feel like something is wrong with me. It extends to the past few years. I've wanted sex to validate that I was a good provider and deserved it. These two are linked. You're removing the need to have sex for validation, and also struggling to discover why you need sex. Since you don't know yet, you don't want sex. It's that simple. Have some curiosity. Nothing more. I describe this in my post escaping sex for validation. Where you need to let your sex…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 11:33 PM
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You're right, the whiskey isn't the problem. The problem is you're 400 fucking pounds and give yourself cheats by "rewarding yourself". You aren't allowed a fucking cheat you fat fuck. It's how you became a fat fuck. You fat fucks and your DEER excuses, it's so predictable.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 10:17 PM
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I’m down almost 50 lbs since the middle of June. And that means.... what? It means you're still a fat fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 10:01 PM
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Yeah, makes sense.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 09:51 PM
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Yes. And women read through this.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 09:50 PM
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You're still a fucking idiot, and I'll ban you soon. Red Pill wisdom says that rooting through garbage is a mistake but right now I'm getting my sexual needs met and I enjoy her company. You're 23. Clearly you're smarter than everyone before you then. Learn how to ingest advice or fuck off.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 11:49 AM
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have been focusing on gaming, flirting and trying to fuck this week Try gaming, flirting and trying NOT to fuck and you'll do better with the parlor trick videos. I'm being serious. Wives can read through games and see you're just doing it to fuck, and that kills the feelz. Have a little abundance mentality you needy bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 11:36 AM
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Because you have oneitis and are 23yo. Iron Rule #7.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 10:45 AM
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Lets also not forget that he's been with this girl since 19 and he doesn't have the field knowledge to put it to use. I think we can all agree we wish we had this knowledge at 23. I didn't lack the field exercises though at that age. I don't see him succeeding without drastically changing his circumstances at least short term. Hell, he won't even get a number and throw it away.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 10:43 AM
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Now if someone just doesnt like gaming his wife except for sex, then one has to wonder why is he with her Bangmaid delusions with the lack of emotional connection is generally what I see. Good sex requires emotion. Secondarily and pretty common also is that retards expect women to want sex like a dude with tits.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 10:23 AM
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Your wife actually likes you. Problem is, she's not attracted to you. had to work hard to hide my butthurt It is impossible to hide this from women, especially ones who know you. That's why you got 4/10 sex the next day. She may not be a rape victim, but she sure as hell is acting like a whore, and not the good kind. What are your big 3 lifts? I'm only asking because I bet they're high enough, and you suck at everything else that generates attraction.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 10:18 AM
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Any tom dick or harry can give women some emotions to generate interest I spotted this too. OP is delusional thinking what he did this week was great. At best, he satisfied his ego that he could fuck a woman he's fucked hundreds of times before, and talked to an average at best girl. OP reeks of insecurity and the inability to tap into his sexual nature, whether it through conversation or non verbal communication.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 10:13 AM
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Here's the magic response to that shit test. "Aww. Trading sex for chores? If you want to act like a whore, babe, I'll treat you like one." Then get your money's worth.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/24 12:34 PM
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Read this and thought the same. Pretty good spot there dude. Tell thus dude how you got so good at womanese...
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/24 12:08 AM
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When you fix yourself, your next relationship will be better. It remains to be seen if that'll be with your wife. This is the true danger of MRP. That is the willing risk you undertake when going down this path.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/24 10:10 PM
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The mind always plays tricks on itself. You like thinking of yourself as the scrappy hero who succeeds despite the odds. While you may have been that once and gotten great satisfaction from it, once you do it once it's not special. It's just who you want to be. Problem is you'll never be that low again, so you create the lows. Seems retarded to me, but I was also retarded.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/24 08:34 PM
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I dwell on the question of whether I really like her or whether my resentment over her not giving me her best has poisoned the well for me If you took all this anger and resentment and realized it for what it truly is, it should be fuel for you. Problem is, you don't realize that you're just mad at yourself. You accepted these things because that was the kind if man that deserved those things. It's your own godamn fault for being who you are/were. How'd you expect anything different? Your woman …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/24 04:40 PM
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I’ve noticed this coming out chiefly in my career - an unconscious desire to be zeroed out and ‘get the chance’ to build up from nothing again to feel worthy. Fuck that - I don’t need to visit the bottom, I’m going to make the most of where I am and go from here. You are recognizing your need to create unnecessary challenges so that you can give your ego a sense of worth. Ask me how i know....
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/24 04:35 PM
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It's been a month since you got laid? Dude, just bend her over and stick it in, it'll do you both some good.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/24 01:26 PM
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So, you're not attractive. Accepting the bare minimum because that's what you deserve.
/r/askMRP24/09/24 12:21 AM
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Only works if you're attractive.
/r/askMRP23/09/24 11:34 PM
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When asked about why, what did you respond with? Read the post. I told her that her pussy belonged to me. And meant it. Did you say you wanted to save it for later or did you just say “No” and STFU? Again, read the post. Its a lot of advanced STFU. Lots of this was non-verbal communication. Here's a post I wrote on that, too. It is intertwined with this. I must tell you this, and you're the only one to guage this, but in order for a woman to be submissive, truly, it must be something she wants a…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/24 11:59 PM
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Banned for Concern Trolling.
/r/askMRP19/09/24 08:13 PM
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Son of a bitch, he stole my line 'tear
/r/askMRP19/09/24 08:10 PM
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Dude is indian, i think we know what his lifts are if not listed.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/24 05:50 PM
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