As a married man with two young girls, a job, an employed wife, a house to take care of, things to fix, activities to attend, etc, etc, time is of the essence.

Often, the only time that wife and I have to get to fucking is in the evening. This is often also the only time I have to work on and grow my side hustles, which are a huge part of my plan going forward. I don't plan on working for the goddamn man my whole life, and I'm trying to build something here.

Lately, the wife has been very good. Definitely responding to the MRP path I'm on. 8 nights out of 10, when I get home, she is naked on the bed. She sends me nudes almost every day. Messages of support, all that. If she hadn't been otherwise earning my attention, I would simply sit the fuck down with my laptop and get to work, but she has been knocking it out of the park. Taking care of all of her assigned tasks, work, kids, etc. Not perfect, but she's doing very well. As well, she has an acute need for validation for a job well done. So I give it to her in spades as long as she earns it. She's a good cookie. This time at night is also the most productive for the work I want to do.

How the fuck can I balance these specific needs? If she earns attention, puts herself out there, and I reject, it's going to be a huge shitshow. Should I weather the storm? Try to find other times to do my hustles? That plan has not been going well thus far, I've made very little progress.

She knows I have a strong sex drive, and if she offers (and is deserving), she is likely to get fucked. And she loves getting fucked.

It's a good problem to have, but mind you, I was dealing with a deadbedroom for about 2 years, leading up to the past 2 months or so. Things have been very good in general for us both lately, and I hesitate to throw a wrench in the works.