I'm the father of three children. I have been watching videos by sandman and johntheotherother. I want to ask how much time I have. Look, I know this is a dumb question, I'm just looking for feedback to see if I understand some of the dynamics.

I'm currently provisioning my wife. As long as she has three children she has a very low chance of attracting a more attractive male than me. I am reading and lifting and improving my life outside the home. So if I play the red pill game well enough I can get enough sex. So she "seems" attracted to me at the moment. I sense that she knows I have a higher SMV and is completely satisfied. I don't think she could attract a man with a higher SMV than me and right now she's too tired raising children to even care. She might cheat with a man with lower SMV but that wouldn't make any sense.

I am not sure how much provisioning she could recieve from government assistance and alimony but she "thinks" she would be much worse off if I was gone. If she divorced me she would have to get a job and would be even more exhausted, not into sex. But all in all I don't think she can replace the level of male attractiveness and material provisioning that I am providing.

But, if I understand this correctly, once the children are older she will be more willing and able to cheat and divorce. Is this correct?

Another question. Is the difference between MRP and MGTOW that, while we both see the truth of human nature, female hypergamy, and cultural misandry, MRP men feel the need to stay in their relationships, and therefore manage them by increasing their social/sexual status, while MGTOW have disregarded the value of social status all together (therefore they don't accept the labels alpha and beta, they don't want status at all) and remain outside the system. In just the same way that a good credit score makes you a good potential slave to banks being alpha or having a higher SMV only makes you a better potential slave to the female imparitive. SMV only means something to you if you are in the market. But since the market is just another word for slavery, they just extract themselves. But we don't have that option. Of course we do, but we choose to stay with our wives, even though we are aware of the dangers. But we are really the but of the red pill joke. Does that sound right?