This question comes off the back of an experience today - sunbathing in local park, hot girl also sunbathing there in a bikini. Saw her yesterday too. Today she even took her top off at one point, face down.

Anyway it’s a subdued park, people don’t approach each other. But I did consider going over and saying “hey what job do you have that lets you sunbathe all day?” (Of course not when she had no top on, guessing a woman would feel pretty vulnerable in that state).

Anyway, I didn’t say it, and frankly it was probably wise since the park is close to where my gf and I live together and I’ll invariably see this girl again when I’m with my gf.

But my question is, did you learn the theory of game first before going and trying it, or did you just go out there and make progressively less of an idiot out of yourself each time?