Girls trip help

mrp_awakening · 2019-02-12T23:00:54+00:00

Saying no comes off as insecure, mate guarding, and controlling. Not really attractive features, and it's not really an enforceable boundary if you're still deeply beta. She'd likely call your bluff, or just cheat on you at home if that's really what she's after. IT's absolutely a shit test... if you say no it exposes insecurity or weakness on your part. She's using dread game on you and it's working. The best response is to get your SMV up and use dread back at her. Look up the 12 stages of dread.

The bigger issue at hand is that you're married to a woman you can't trust, and who doesn't respect you. If there were respect, she'd moderate her drinking without you being there or maybe not go on these types of trips. If she really is untrustworthy, and she doesn't respond to dread/SMV raise then you'll have to ask yourself why you're with her.

hack3ge · 2019-02-12T23:43:42+00:00

When is she going? I could use a trip to Vegas right now - it’s cold and snowing here.

red-sfpplus · 2019-02-13T00:23:54+00:00

Women go in a group to Vegas for one fucking reason.

And its not for shows and to gamble.

LPT about Vegas:

Weekday Vegas trips are way worse than the weekend in terms of hooking up.

Weekdays are when the locals go out and party. So there are local Vegas guys looking for traveling girls.

Everything is cheaper during the week to.

Man she is coming home with at least three different cocks in her during that 4 days.

Fact.

Edit: Earlier in 2018 I was in Vegas for a huge IT conference. The first girl I hooked up with had landed about 5 hour prior. Landed. Checked in to the hotel, changed and was at the bar. Second chick was at the conference as well. Two different women in 4 days and I wasnt even trying. The woman at the conference was married. The first one was some 20’s THOT with her group of girlfriends.

Imaginary_Historian · 2019-02-13T02:23:15+00:00

I've wondered what would happen if you went out and said women go to Vegas to fuck other guys, so you get a hall pass, and here's some condoms, stay safe.

screechhater · 2019-02-13T04:51:39+00:00

If mine did her shit in the missed flight and bags and we were married - next and she fucking breathes it.

Listen up, cuck boy, she is out getting what you arent giving her, like some fucking passion.

What bothers me is you actually have no boundary mentally that you agreed, when you have kids at home, and her past missed flight was perhaps cock not alcohol.

Get tested for STDs and start the “go plan” as in today.

No valuable guy is looking for Buffy’s luggage in another city. Got it ??

Get the fuck to work.

Answer - let her go. Go to reddit divorce and read the top divorce revenge post

CrazyLegs78 · 2019-02-12T22:36:50+00:00

You can't retract permission on that for anything other than financial reasons or lack of preparation(child care) without coming off as more beta. Fuck it, let her go. If you are the prize, she'll not risk anything. If she wants to get some strange dick, she don't have to go to vegas for that.

MrChad_Thundercock · 2019-02-12T22:39:01+00:00

Life time Beta with her?

This is her annual vacation where she gets to fuck different Chads...or perhaps the same one.. She is really looking forward to it.

You know that, right?

NMMNG_1 · 2019-02-13T17:31:57+00:00

Knowing what I know now I would have established a boundary when she originally asked

What boundary would you have established?

Get your hamster-brain excited if you want, but being insecure and second-guessing yourself is unattractive. I would use the time off to relax, lift, read the sidebar, and show you're the captain of the ship by showing some leadership and getting some shit done/fixed around the house. Outcome independence will set you free.

JameisBong · 2019-02-12T22:33:27+00:00

Let her go, you already fucked up. You'll never know what she does in Vegas, but i can confirm i have unknowingly fucked married women in Vegas. Let this one go, plan for her next vacation and let her know your wife is not going on solo trips with her girlfriends. Set a boundary, be prepared to leave if she doesn't respect it.

idriveavanitswhite · 2019-02-12T18:54:15+00:00

First time posting, let me know what else would be helpful for me to add to the post.

adeptintact · 2019-02-14T03:59:23+00:00

I know your beta because after she missed her flight from being drunk, you went to go pick up her bags in a different city like a good boy. She trained you well.

weakandsensitive · 2019-02-15T13:59:23+00:00

Your wife doesn't need to go to Vegas to fuck other dudes.

Not everyone in Vegas is hooking up, but there is definitely hooking up in Vegas.

Title	Girls trip help
Author	idriveavanitswhite
Upvotes	4
Comments	20
Date	February 11, 2019 5:32 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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