I have a curious dilemma. I want to fk my wife but she (says) has a headache. After talking her into taking her clothes off, she just star fishes and tells me to do the fking and get it over with. Unfortunately, this typically makes me soft and unable to perform. One time, however, I was able to perform and my wife got an orgasm from it. So, it’s a shit test , I think, but I’m failing it often. I’m not using porn ( about 30 days clean), but past usage may have residual effects. Usually, if wife is enthusiastic, I deliver. Must be a codependent thing in me. I’m 47 this year, 6’6, 215lbs run 5k and squat 215lbs.