Met a girl recently. 10 years younger than me, late 20s. First night she texts and asks if I want to meet up for drinks. We hang out, have a great time. We end up in my room, messed around but she wouldn't let me close. Said, "I'm trying to be good." Which I know was LMR. I escalated/de-escalated about 5x through the night. Making out, kissing, grinding but every time I tried to take her clothes off, she resisted. I probably would've plowed through but we work for the same company and I didn't want to be accused of anything so I'd back off. She spends the night.

We meet up a week later. Same thing. Drink, have fun talking, blah blah blah. I don't hide the fact that I'm married and wear the ring. I'm know she's seen it. She doesn't ask about it or my situation. This second time we hung out though, she wants to spend the night again. Less kissing and heavy petting and I'm not getting the vibe that she wants to fuck, just mess around. Didn't get any shit tests or comfort tests. Just hanging, all else seemed natural. All seemed natural but why the f come hang out if you're not down?

I'm not looking for friends and I'm definitely not down to be cuddle buddies, lmfao. Text game is hard. She seems a bit on the flaky side, disappears in the middle of convo, etc. She's def not married, no kids and as far as I can tell, no bf and wasn't on the rag.

I'm wondering if she feels guilty about me being married but likes me anyway. Maybe she's seeing how much I'll invest before she opens up (LMR tactic). I'm looking to add her as a plate but have no experience dating this young generation.

Do I need to address the marriage at some point or just let it lie? One other detail....she's mentioned she didn't have a mom (died or wasn't around since an early age, not sure).

I read Rollos articles, "LMR" and "Wait for it?" I'm guessing my answer is in those and I should NEXT her.

Flame away assholes, but give me some analyzing here.