Hindsight...

screechhater · 2017-03-26T18:14:39+00:00

Once at about 18 I was all broken up about a girl that I had crowded

Dad sat me down and said, "Listen to me boy, never give a woman everything she wants, never do everything she tells you to do, fuck the hell out of her, never let yourself go and most of all remember they ALL want what they can't have ...."

So I had a leg up on most guys. Then about 3 years ago, I turned the heat up on our business and put all my energy into it, ignoring her. Last year I found this place.

I am the prize motherfucker. Don't ever let yourself forget that, nor my dads advice.

I have never had a gut or beer belly. I have let a few other things go like not cutting my hair every two weeks or not lifting, or wondering why she isn't DTF like she was..... but I got that shit straightened out.

Do the work. Never regret the work. She could die tomorrow and you'll be on the market. Be ready fucker.

16 Commandmennts of Poon should be words to be read every morning

Redpillbrigade17 · 2017-03-26T14:10:04+00:00

Do you have a custody agreement? Have you consulted with an attorney about how to protect your legal rights as a father from day one?

GargantuaBlarg29 · 2017-03-26T15:50:05+00:00

Of course it did. There's a difference between knowing the knowledge I know now back then, and believing the knowledge I know now back then. I used to be hardcore blue pill...so telling me all this back then I likely would have told you to piss off.

BobbyPeru · 2017-03-27T04:10:51+00:00

Your question is irrelevant. Do the work and be the best man you can be today.

BrazilRedPill · 2017-03-26T15:29:23+00:00

The RedPill won't prevent your marriage from falling, it will only reduce chances of it happening. It will also make you be the better man you can possibly be, and if everything fails, you will be ready to move on, spin plates and be happy.

bogeyd6 · 2017-03-26T16:00:25+00:00

Some of us are natura betas some are natural alphas. The road to beta is paved with the best of intentions. Ask anyone and they will say each five made total sense. Mine did.

Anyways. Hindsight is 20/20. Nothing more than that.

Sepean · 2017-03-26T17:14:23+00:00

do you think you would 100% have been better off had you known about MRP ideology from the get go?

Better off, sure. But not by much.

Also, MRP isn't an ideology.

FireTempered · 2017-03-26T18:13:30+00:00

The fact that you are asking this question, leads in the direction of your own dead bedroom issues.

You are about to move a "girlfriend" in with you. RP Redflag #1

Your girlfriend is already pregnant. RP Redflag #2

You are asking the men here "how long to get past shitty". RP Red Flag #3

You are talking about the benefits of a man's journey of self-improvement in the context of a dead bedroom before you have shown any evidence of your journey, other than you seem to have an egotistical belief that you are special. RP Red Flag #4

Do you even lift?

Wyrdewoodsdweller · 2017-03-27T00:38:01+00:00

Just wanted to put (yet another) plug in for the blog "A Shrink for Men". The archives, if you can find them, are a treasure trove of advice.

Run by Dr. Tara Palmatier back when the MRM was blossoming, it has article after article covering divorce, parental alienation, abuse etc.

BluepillProfessor · 2017-03-27T02:13:29+00:00

do you think you would 100% have been better off had you known about MRP ideology from the get go?

It took me many months of heart pounding nights reliving my life and how it might have been had I known TRP/PUA/MRP praxeology from the outset. I am naturally an asshole and with just a bit of game and charm and faked confidence I would have scored early and often. What I might have done with that real confidence gained from the early success is anybody's guess.

If we are talking marriage the answer is almost the same. Understanding male/female dynamics and the roles the men and women play would have been immensely helpful. Understanding Frame and Shit Tests and how women love would have made everything much easier and saved many, many years of pain and anguish. Without a doubt knowing that you are the captain is the most important thing.

The_Litz · 2017-03-27T05:50:37+00:00

I knew about the concept of Chad and Billy Bucks, I figured it out for myself years ago. I even named it as The Badboy Experience. What I did not know is that, if I wanted to, I can actually become Chad. I somehow did not believe that I was allowed to live my life on my own terms.

Unplugging earlier would have helped but you cannot dwell on the what if's, you play your card what you have in your hand and own it. Accepting that is the biggest step forward.

Don't overthink it.

Scurvemuch · 2017-03-27T12:59:08+00:00

the real question is WHY are you asking??

red__med · 2017-03-27T15:42:04+00:00

Probably more like not very good at thinking before I speak.

RBuddDwyer · 2017-03-28T23:40:25+00:00

Why are you rushing to move her in? What do you think you will accomplish with cohabitation that you cannot accomplish with coparenting? Did you ever stop and think about why she let you get her pregnant? It's not like women don't understand how that works, or realize how the baby trap works.

Title	Hindsight...
Author	red__med
Upvotes	3
Comments	54
Date	March 26, 2017 1:16 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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