I'm new to MRP and have gotten a lot of value out of reading through the sidebar and top posts. One thing I haven't seen is reference to oral contraceptives. I know the focus here is on changing yourself and not worrying about changing her...

But damn, stopping birth control was a gamechanger. Energy and sex drive up, weight and bullshit arguments about nothing down. There's a lot of solid science behind why as well. A lot of things I was doing that were in line with red pill philosophy went from having little to no effect to getting strong, immediate positive reinforcement. I suspect that a lot of the bad habits I picked up, especially around covert contracts, DEER and not gaming my wife, would have never developed if birth control hadn't been throttling her libido.

Is this something people here are aware of and talk about and I'm just missing it? If not, is it intentionally not talked about? I keep seeing OYS posts and other stuff and I'll relate and think, "This sounds like my relationship and all I had to change to fix it was her birth control."