How do I tackfully turn women down?

EasyDaysHardNights · 2021-03-22T01:33:02+00:00

Have a cute friend you can bring?

UEMcGill · 2021-03-22T14:24:46+00:00

I'm going to give you a bit different advice than you've already got.

You're new again to the world of dating politics and you're starting to see the potential interest. Instead of trying to turn them down politely why not do nothing. You don't have to say yes or no.

Women that are attracted to you offer benefits even if you don't reciprocate. You can go all dark triad on them and get them to clean your house, or make you dinner. Or you can just keep them around as orbiters and instant social proof, for the women you want to date.

Work your game, practice flirting, use them to get a new social life. When I was in college I had a friend who was totally into me, and literally told me to my face I could use her as a fuck toy even if she couldn't have me as a boyfriend. I wasn't attracted to her at all, but she'd bring me around to her friends, and I got to fuck a few of them.

Female orbiters are a thing and can be used positively if done correctly.

2021-03-22T00:51:25+00:00

No means no

griz3lda · 2021-03-22T01:52:01+00:00

Work is so crazy right now that you barely have time to get enough sleep let alone go out recreationally, and there's no end in sight. If there is no plausible deniability for her that it was a flirtatious/romantic/not broish invite, say "Hey, I'm really flattered and someone would be lucky to go out with you, but I just don't see you that way, I'm sorry."

2wo2wo3hree · 2021-03-26T03:12:46+00:00

~~How do I tackfully turn women down?~~

How do I DEER to women I don’t give a shit about?

-If there’s something you’d rather do or already doing, say it. That’s all there is to it. But don’t lose the opportunity in building alliances and resources by friend zoning women. Good to have, bad to need.

business----travel · 2021-03-22T03:34:09+00:00

I say build yourself a solid pipeline of around three women and throw them into your dating phase for a couple of years, while continually entertaining new canon fodder. Not sure what the issue is here... Get your dick wet, fucker.

razenha · 2021-03-22T13:15:43+00:00

Just say you are busy. If you go the "oh, I don't date people from work" route, they will get angry, that will trigger something evil in them, they will think "how dare he does not risk his career and reputation by going out with an awesome goddess like me", they will answer something like "who said anything about date, I was just asking you for a coffee, you perv" and proceed to badmouth you.

BobbyPeru · 2021-03-25T00:36:46+00:00

Sounds like you are being viewed as possible beta bux. I’d take a look at that

dicers · 2021-03-22T09:41:09+00:00

Do not date woman from work. Just don't. You do not shit where you eat!

Furthermore, do not reject them, just ignore and play dumb as if you do not see/understand the interest. If they do not get the hint, say you like them and not ruin that and only want to be friends.

Girls will fuck you up on your workplace when you eventually break up.

WorldlinessComplex36 · 2021-03-22T01:59:49+00:00

Ask them to smell your jock strap and ask them if they think you caught something.

red-sfpplus · 2021-03-22T02:01:51+00:00

First realize these DM's are from autobot oF accounts marketing on IG

Over60_FireTempered3 · 2021-03-22T02:48:05+00:00

You bring up a really interesting problem. So here is EXACTLY what you say - no more and no less. But your delivery is also important, it must be authoritative and spoken with the certainly of law. What you say is...

NO

Every word you say after that, diminishes you by a factor of x10.

2021-03-22T12:22:54+00:00

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Title	How do I tackfully turn women down?
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Date	March 22, 2021 12:50 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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