I have been with my gf for the past 2 years, she was a plate for 2 years and then I decided to be in an LTR with her. I have 2 jobs as an engineer and also I’m finishing my master’s in music for film. My gf was fired from her job last year, consequently I almost died from a surgery I had, so she moved in because she wanted to take care of me and I thought it was a good moment to start getting more serious, also with 2 jobs I was able to handle the expenses. First months were great, however her OCD started to cripple in. After I was able to walk and started to regain my health, she started complaining about things not being in the right place/perfect. There was constant bitching about things not being the way she wanted. However, I felt really bad because I was fat since I was only able to exercise since last month and I know what is to live with anxiety, so I wanted to help her. Eventhough I don’t help with chores, she’s constantly nagging about cleanliness. Until 2 weeks ago I snapped and set my boundaries, but her complaining is still there. Looking back, a lot of my relationships were this way, and my psychologist mentioned that maybe I give the attitude of being a child, but thinking about it, I have been on my MAP and read everything on the sidebar since 5 years ago when I started my redpill journey, I improved everything in my life, and there’s still a lot to improve, but to imply that I’m behaving like a child because I don’t clean enough seems like a stretch to me, what do you think?

On one hand I want to throw the towel and kick her out of my house, but on the other hand I want to disrupt this pattern I have with relationships.

Have you guys dealt with an OCD LTR?

By the way, a psychologist told her she had OCD last month