For context, I have been lurking for some time now. My focus has been just reading and putting these strategies into place. Listen, if you're new here, it works.

I'm 31, in the best shape of life, going places with my career and after years of being a drunk captain, I'm turning my marriage around somewhat.

Now, on to the reason I'm posting....

My wife and I now have more sex than we previously did, and my wife initiates it more than she previously did, but it's still not enough.

I have a high sex drive, and it's only grown the more I take care of myself. Every now and then, I'll get into a position with a female that, if I pushed it on, would lead to sex. However, I have deep concerns and reservations about an affair. The risk seems quite high, and the thought of someone else having the ability to nuke my marriage doesn't sit well with me.

Yes, there's always the opportunity to fuck a bird who doesn't know you at all, but let's be honest, they're not massively frequent when you work from home and visit nightclubs.

So, I've been toying with the idea of paying for sex. I feel that while this comes with an element of risk, it's actually lower than the alternative.

It's a transaction, I can be specific about what I want and I know that she isn't going to be adding my wife on Instagram if I decide not to go back.

Now, to conclude, let me categorically state that paying for sex is NO alternative to working on yourself within the frame of MRP and resources. I'm not doing this because I can't be arsed to put in the effort to make my wife want to fuck me. She does. I am still doing what I can do ensure that I am a man of high value every single day. I'm reading, lifting, and trying to maintain frame. Listen, if you take this shit on board, if you consume the sidebar and buy the books, and like all good books, you keep returning to them - you'll make good progress.

I just have an itch that I need to scratch, so I wanted to get some considerations from the community.

Fire away.