Question about OYS

UltimateCrypto · 2022-10-16T15:46:46+00:00

You’ve seen the red pill. Haven’t swallowed it yet.

olebobman · 2022-10-17T03:18:09+00:00

I will break this down for guys actually doing the work here, not some 18-year-old who is either trolling or trying to be funny...

Any guy that has actually gone through the sidebar will understand there are 5 phases when it comes to dealing with women in the sexual marketplace. This is a basic understanding to any guy that has been around the TRP/MRP space for a minute. Hell, even books on the sidebar such as 'Tactical Guide To Women', 'Rational Male', and 'Pook' go into this at length.

These are the five phases:

ONS: Your basic one-night stand situation. Nothing more, nothing less. Maybe you met her on a night out, maybe you met her through a dating app, maybe you picked her up at the store - doesn't matter. It's a one-time thing - that's it.
Dating: Another word for the dating phase is 'plate', which is where most people spend their time in the sexual marketplace. The rule of thumb around the space is that you do not consider promoting a woman to a relationship unless you have been dating her for at least a year (12 months), she has come to you showing more interest in 'something more' (AKA - relationship), and she has earned a spot in your life with good behavior. You should ideally have a few women in your dating rotation, which will give you insight into women who are invested in you, those that aren't, and those that you want to spend your time with. News flash, the majority of women out there that you date will never get past this phase. If they do...
Relationship: Another word for the relationship phase is better known as 'LTR', which at this stage it is an actual relationship with a committed person. By this stage, you have already dated this woman for a substantial amount of time, she is invested in you, she has developed the relationship over time with her commitment, and she has earned your commitment. At this point, you may consider this woman for a live-in situation, maybe a woman that you would get married to, or even a woman that you would have kids with. This is a woman that you consider above all of the other women out there and that you are in turn invested in. The entire relationship is fostered by the woman and there should be no "hard work" on your end.
Engaged/Fiance: This is a woman who you feel has earned that special place for you in your life and you are rewarding her for the value that she brings to your relationship (RE: Point 3 again for the same reference).
Marriage/Married: The final stage is now you are a married man with a woman that you choose to be with. You now accept all responsibilities for yourself and what happens in your marriage. There is no whining or bitching about your wife because at the end of the day, everything is your fault & your woman fills the container that you share with her. That's ultimately where this place comes into play, guys that got lazy, unattractive, needy, and looking for validation from a piece of pussy. At this point, you should have all the tools you need to live the life you want to live and accept everything that happens to you, your life, and your marriage.

You have work to do. It's all over there --> on the sidebar.

RStonePT · 2022-10-16T17:52:21+00:00

It's not a relationship, it's a plate.

KagedRageius · 2022-10-16T15:48:33+00:00

Why are you in a committed relationship at 18?

bussiinesstravel · 2022-10-17T02:58:01+00:00

I just turned 18 and been in a new relationship for about 4 months (my first relationship ever).

You don't even know the difference between 'dating' and 'relationship'...

Anything under a year (sometimes much longer) with a woman is someone you are dating, not a relationship. Go to the sidebar and start getting to work to learn the actual basics. You are at least 5 to 10 years away from an actual relationship, kid...

Title	Question about OYS
Author	Major_Ad_779
Upvotes	7
Comments	29
Date	October 16, 2022 3:34 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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