Cutting the shit first before asking the question:

  • Write down your stats (height, weight, bf%, lifts). You are keeping a journal of your workouts right? 6'1", 220 lbs, squat: 300 Deadlift: 300 Benchpress: 200 , bf\% 20, yes, journaling workouts with an app
  • Write down all the books you have read in the sidebar and one sentence about what you learned from each one (even if you haven't finished it yet). What was your main takeaway from the other erroneous material referenced in TRP sidebar and here?

NMMNG - I have been projecting my relationship with my father into my relationship with my wife.

WISNIFG - I am my own judge and have the freedom/tools to deny what I don't want/ Insist on what I do.

WOTSM - You must be stronger emotionally than your woman to get her respect.

MMSLP - Now I get intersexual relationships better.

MAP - I understand dread levels better and how to improve myself on step at a time

STLSM by BPP - Oh shit, I have a lot of work to do.

Rational Male - The reality of the feminization of our society and how it has affected me

Rational Male (Positive Masculinity) - how to raise my daughter as an alpha dad

Day Bang - don't be afraid to talk to hot women

The Natural - Re-learn how to flirt with women

What Women Want when they Test Men - just started

Ironwood's Alpha Moves - be creative and unpredictable

Art of Seduction - this is criminal thinking. At least I will see it coming.

  • Get your testosterone levels checked and write them down - Doctor said they were at normal levels
  • Write down your ratio of sexual initiations/rejections - 1:3
  • Write down the number of women besides your wife you could call right now to chill this weekend: 2
  • Shit, write down the name of the last girl you flirted with who isn't your wife - Nikki
  • Write down how many days over the past 15 you have actively gamed your wife - 5
  • Write down two things you do that make you a good catch - Mature and Multi-talented
  • Write down what you would do today if you did not have a wife/kids to go home to - take off for three days and go hiking
  • Write down what Dread Level you are on - 6
  • Write down how many more months you have to go until you are an attractive man with options - 6

Question - I have a couple of orbiters who know I'm married and I have done light lunch dates with both. I have kept in touch through text sparingly, but always fun and flirty.

I met up with one a couple weeks ago that I mentioned in my last OYS. She was very responsive to kino and we had a nice time together. We texted a couple times the last week. Three days ago, I text her that I'm going to be off work early next week and wondering if we can run into eachother.

Radio Silence.

Two days later, I figure she's not so busy she forgot to get back to me. Women are always on their phone, and I don't think she's too busy, forgot, etc...She always texts me right back. So, I text again: "Never mind, something came up. Cancel that."

Radio Silence.

I know she's attracted to me. I've known her for a couple years, and the last time she went radio silent on me, I didn't talk to her for a whole year. Then out of the blue recently I show up again, and she was all eager to see me. Now she's doing the radio silence again. How do I interpret this? I'm assuming my married status and the way we gave each other IOIs might have scared her into thinking I'm trying to have an affair. Or, is she just testing me to see if I pass and see if we will keep this little thing going?