My wife hates that I go to the gym 6 days a week, I work nights and she's upset I'm never home to help her with "our" children, she has two kids both very young. I work 60 hour weeks. She quit her job recently and doesn't wanna go back to work until she can be happy. I told her happy doesn't pay her life style and neither will I. My smv has sky rocketed over the last 6 months, I insinuated a separation last night calmly and was hit with pure rage of "you'll never see my kids again" "you can leave with nothing its all mine" blah blah I told her she can have it all I just want my car and my blender. Then tears, my god, I had a moment of weakness and felt guilty. I know I would be better off leaving and living the single dream of saving money and getting even more physically fit. I guess I'm just looking for advice on how to not feel so guilty about abandoning her even though she has made my life miserable. Should I just go through and jump ship and allow the pain to flow until it doesn't?