Whenever you go out in the field, it is possible that the women you are interested in won’t be interested in you. One problem I have is that we set up a date, and she flakes. In this case in particular, this girl (HB8) agreed to go out with me tonight, but she texted me that can’t go out tonight, but she told me in the same text that she can go out on Thursday or Friday. She offered the alternative and I have yet to respond back.

I know whenever they flake on you it means that you weren’t that high (or at all) on their “list”. How do I handle this situation without appearing needy and catering to her and the other women in the future when this happens?

EDIT: We agreed to go to a popular bar on campus if that matters.