Am I doing something wrong?

debes0 · 2020-12-17T21:08:29+00:00

Group hugs? Are you gay?

Also 152 at 5'9. Chances are you aren't as muscular as you think. Im 5'10 and weigh in at 165. Yeah you might have abs or whatever, but how much do you SBD? Stop worrying so much about getting lean imo.

Lastly, it's already been said. Just because you can get number doesn't mean you know how to secure they lay. What are the chances you are trying to hard when talking to them?

Khleb6 · 2020-12-17T21:46:03+00:00

152 at 5’9 is skinny. Go put on 15-20 lbs of muscle and try again

LLL3peat · 2020-12-17T20:35:52+00:00

Text them same day to confirm they have your number. Waiting 24 hours to text initially shows you play the stupid waiting game.

Relaxredditrockstar · 2020-12-17T21:14:24+00:00

A girl calling you cute is not a good thing. You’re 150 lb 5’9. Slim/muscular? Idk prob just skinny. Results are what matter. If you’re not getting pussy it’s because you’re not up to it. Until you’re real lean? You’re 5’9 150 lbs and you’re not lean yet?

7K60FXD · 2020-12-17T21:19:19+00:00

It’s not you. Online dating has given women unlimited abundant choice at their fingertips. Living in LA with a good job and a big dick isn’t going to cut it anymore. Online dating has really come down to a stalemate thanks to women’s lib. They are their own worst enemy, even they don’t know what they want anymore.

Project_Zero_Betas · 2020-12-17T22:00:59+00:00

can walk up to a random group of girls and get them to give me a group hug

Found the problem.

FinancialThanks1 · 2020-12-17T20:52:03+00:00

It’s probably about the interaction not when you call/text them. Try going for some instadates and see how that goes

Snowboard18 · 2020-12-17T21:05:39+00:00

Weren’t interested enough

Keep increasing your smv and approaching

The more you approach, the more you’ll figure out what works

Artistic_Guest4386 · 2020-12-17T22:03:23+00:00

Most men are not supposed to get sex

That's the real hard pill to swallow.

Sex is essentially our desire to create life. Everything about attraction, biologically and psychologically, revolves around SURVIVAL.

It's a brutal, harsh world out there and our instincts have evolved to REFINE our species to be the strongest, most mentally stable, healthiest organisms we can possibly be.

Female sexual selection is literally a genetic filter. They are SUPPOSED to only allow the "best" to breed.

Lift, work on yourself, gain experience and maturity by placing yourself into difficult situations. Grow, adapt, learn.

It doesnt matter how unfair you may feel it is. It doesnt matter how attractive or unattractive the women around you may or may not be. It doesnt matter whether it drives you to depression or suicide. You are not owed sex, and women certainly don't owe anybody their bodies. And vice versa.

You need to think like a damn survivor. You've been born with what you've got and if you want what you want you're going to have to work for it, and you know what, you might not even win in the end. That's life. That's being an adult.

Debating with women is pointless. Even a highly intelligent self aware woman who has logically grown to understand her sexual preferences and strategy will just shrug and carry on banging men they find instinctively attractive. It's a lost cause to debate with them....it won't change your situation.

TLDR. Whining and moaning amd debating women and why they behave the way they do and have sex with who they have sex with is pointless. You cannot rationalise attraction. Be the best man you can be, be a survivor, become strong, and focus entirely on yourself and the women will follow, maybe. You're not owed a thing. The playing field aint level. Be a man and earn it.

Title	Am I doing something wrong?
Author	I_cant_go_to_heaven
Upvotes	0
Comments	15
Date	December 17, 2020 8:23 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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