I was planning on posting this and noticed just today another had asked a question regarding small size. Figured I have some different points to make which is why I am bothering posting this. I don't know what the earlier poster's girth is so his situation could be very different from mine. I am also providing more specific background information to clearly explain my situation.

The point of this paragraph is to illustrate that I have never been some autist or nerd and I don't remotely lack physical or social attractiveness beyond having a thin dick. I'm in my early 30s, college educated, military background and currently training to switch careers. Not doing financially great but am doing well enough and will be improving that situation. My facial attractiveness is a 9, I have broad shoulders and a good body type. I am physically fit and my posture is excellent. I am only 5 ft 8 as far as height goes but it has never been a confidence issue and I carry myself like I'm taller. I am an introvert but I am not socially inept and can talk to women and attract them. I was never a nerd, from late middle school till about 18 I was a bad boy type, used and sold drugs, engaged in generally criminal and delinquent behavior and had a solid group of friends. I never got laid in high school due to my dick insecurities but I masked it with anger and sometimes violence. Point is, I had opportunities to fuck hot chicks in high school. To cut a long story short, I first got laid at 21 to an escort and have only fucked escorts. I've gone years without getting laid and even when I do get laid regularly it is only on a monthly basis due to affordability of fucking a decent escort. Obviously these issues have fucked me up big time sexually and psychologically and this lack of primal sexual value bleeds into and pollutes everything positive and productive I do.

Everything I have read about and heard from women regarding having a thin dick since I was in Middle School is extremely negative.

The point of this paragraph is to explain that I don't have body dismorphic disorder or a skewed sense of what average size is based on porn. I believe most women prefer average length dicks and that any dick that is 4 inches or above can get the job done if their girth is at least average. Not saying a 4 inch length isn't a bad thing, just saying if you have decent girth you can still work with it. Average is 5.1 to 5.5 inches of length depending on which study one refers to. Any length above 4 inches is considered medically normal. Average girth or circumference is 4.8 inches if measured around the dick with a tape measurer or some other device that can measure around. I believe a 4.5-5 inch girth is considered average.

Women across the board say girth is the most important measurement. Even the many who say size doesn't matter say that is only true as long as it has some thickness. Women commonly say thin dicks are the worst. No need to post sources as everyone here is capable of using google.

My length is 5.5 inches, sometimes 6 if I measure bone pressed. Don't have any issues with my length. My girth is only 4 inches around. This is still considered medically normal so I don't have anything wrong hormonaly. About 18.65% of men are my girth or thinner according to some statistics. I'm sure most guys like me are in pretty bad shape as far as getting laid goes. I have the dreaded needle dick.

My intent with the above paragraphs was to show what my positive traits are and to show that I don't have any body dysmorphic disorders like small penis syndrome. I don't have a skewed perception of what average dick size is and I believe even the low end of average dick man is capable of realizing TRP.

There is much truth in TRP and it a great resource for self improvement. Due to my girth issues, I don't think I can ever actualize the red pill as far as getting laid goes. Meaning, most women worth fucking won't come back for seconds and many won't let me fuck them once they see my size. If someone lives in a smaller city or frequents particular areas to find women and sleep with them, word can easily get out that you are small and it will destroy your reputation among women in said town or area. This can also happen if one fucks women within their social group. Point of this is to show how one night stands can be detrimental for someone in my shoes. However, fucking women who are on vacation or that you probably won't ever see again seems viable. Also doesn't seem possible to have desirable plates or to maintain or even acquire an LTR.

Here are current mating strategies I am pursuing and plan on pursuing.

  1. Occasionally fucking escorts.
  2. Upcoming sex tour to the Phillipines
  3. Eventually getting an 18-20 year old wife from Phillipines or other Asian country.
  4. One night stands with women on vacation or women I will never see again.

Here are the strategies I don't think are possible for me.

  1. Spinning plates
  2. LTR or marriage(caveat to this is listed above, I can acquire a foreign bride for sure)

What I don't need to hear as far as responses is anything to do with enlargement. Anything regarding enlargement exercises, surgeries, injections, etc. There are a few avenues regarding enlargement I am researching and open to pursuring and don't need to hear about it here. If someone is curious what those are, I'll be happy to answer.

My questions are:

  1. Am I right that my situation prevents me from truly actualizing TRP?

  2. Are their other people on here who are as thin in girth as me and have any of you actualized TRP?