Anyone else becoming numb?

pretty_bread · 2019-01-04T17:08:36+00:00

I think this is the essence of what TRP teaches, after you learned how the dating game works and how woman function, and then start applying it and getting results, you just stop lusting after woman and view them as another enjoyable (and sometimes annoying) addition in your life.

So no you’re not numb, you just started seeing how the real world works.

josh_e_pants · 2019-01-04T18:06:26+00:00

Your standards are just getting higher, man. You probably could form a deep bond with a girl, it would just take longer and she would have to be more worthy.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-01-04T19:30:43+00:00

That's the bluepill in you, dying.

Mangasbzo7 · 2019-01-05T02:59:07+00:00

Unfortunately this is just the inevitable destination of TRP.

Once you realize and accept women's hypergamous nature, the consequence of that unfortunately is that you will never be able to really invest emotionally in a woman.

It only sucks tho bc we're all raised with the lie that one day we'll find our soulmates and live happily ever after. There is no such thing. You can still find happiness & satisfaction tho. It's just realizing that it will NEVER come from a woman, or anyone else for that matter - it will only ever come from within you.

One more thing to note, utimately, to a woman a man is essentially a sperm donor/dildo (AF) or a wallet (BB). You need have the same outlook on women - they are either a womb for your children (madonna), or they're a fucktoy (whore).

Remember AWALT and Hypergamy never sleeps.

_Zalos_ · 2019-01-04T16:47:25+00:00

Same boat.

I catch onto Red Flags real easy

FlyingSexistPig · 2019-01-05T01:12:51+00:00

5 stages of grief:
denial,
anger,
bargaining,
depression <-- you are here.
acceptance

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-01-05T03:38:00+00:00

Yep...it's the old BP emotions dying. It is a good thing.

You're not becoming numb, sounds like you are just losing your neediness, dependency, and seeing people as human.

The more you ingest the pill, your relationship with women and what you want from them will continue to change.

People that are really worth your commitment, are few and far between...so don't be surprised when most don't measure up.

Aimchat · 2019-01-04T16:27:22+00:00

Yep. Same boat. It’s a cess pool out there. I’m very extrovert and find I get impatient with woman that are not on the same wave length ambition wise. Plus I’m in sales so when they try to start trying to sell me on how I plan to do xyz, I see right through it. For reference, I’m in my early 30s, dating similar.

CoinMemo · 2019-01-04T22:21:53+00:00

The wool isn't covering your eyes anymore, the illusion is destroyed, the fantasy doesn't exist and this makes you feel empty.

Funny thing is, this very emotional numbness is what will give you the power in mot relationships, the tradeoff? The numbness itself.

You will never find a perfect woman, instead look for a woman who is the closest thing to a woman that would make you happy, do you like goofy girls? Serious girls? Very feminine girls? If you start looking for a girl with the righ personality for you, you will be much more happier in life.

jy432 · 2019-01-04T18:08:48+00:00

“They say its lonely at the top in whatever you do”

-Gangstarr. Truer words have never been spoken OP.

rockyp32 · 2019-01-05T09:04:40+00:00

Add some more emotion

trpppp123 · 2019-01-05T16:57:28+00:00

This is a good thing

Vouch33r · 2019-01-04T16:42:12+00:00

I will hopefully be 20 this year and I feel similar. I feel like I achieved everything, actually. That's why my drive with women as well as all in other parts of life is non existent. Hope you will find upsides to your situation, brother.

Son_of_Gatsby · 2019-01-04T17:17:51+00:00

on this sub, moderate n-count can mean anything. I've heard people mean 5 and people mean 50 when they mean low n count. Which range are we talking about here? At what age?

Ziczor · 2019-01-04T15:51:22+00:00

Come on man, it's a blessing. You can focus on IMPORTANT stuff in your life.

Title	Anyone else becoming numb?
Author	Rkingpin
Upvotes	33
Comments	21
Date	January 4, 2019 3:33 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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