Avoiding a fight. Right move by me?

asorals · 2019-05-12T21:55:04+00:00

Not worth it. At the end of the day it's just words.

barn3r · 2019-05-12T22:37:04+00:00

Despite what everyone is saying about honor and blah blah blah, you did the right thing. They posed no threat to you. You gain nothing by starting a confrontation besides some stupid shit regarding your ego or pride, but you should have killed that a long time ago.

Getting a charge, getting severely beaten or killed is not worth it. All they said was “hey faggot” ... Who cares?

FereallyRed · 2019-05-13T00:19:11+00:00

This is a frame issue.

You decided not to react to someone that attempted to enter your frame.

That was the right thing to do.

Here's a similar scenario... homeless guy comes up to you, calls you a faggot and he's fucking your girl.

You get bent out of shape? Tell him to fuck off? Punch him?

No, he's an idiot that doesn't deserve your time or attention.

What he says is funny because there's absolutely no context or rationality.

Don't engage idiots.

Nobody can hurt me without my permission

-Mahatma Gandhi

Daddy3asy · 2019-05-12T22:04:57+00:00

Are you a faggot? 3 guys in a car, clearly he has his own issues he’s dealing with that he rides around with his two buddies calling one dude by himself names and drives off. Fuck that guy.

What’s the best that could have come of it? You ever been in a fight? What about a fight with two guys? Three? That’s a lot to handle bro. Life isn’t prison where if you let it go and back down you’re going to be someone’s bitch.

MisterRoid · 2019-05-13T09:36:02+00:00

Sounds like a strange situation. My guess is that they wanted to pick a fight and beat someone up in a 3v1. Ignoring him was the best course of action for sure.

AWorseManThanYou · 2019-05-13T02:53:55+00:00

1 guy will never beat 3 determined men. Odds you’d see a hospital is pretty good. There’s a chance you wouldn’t need one, but not because you were unharmed. I’m a fan of violence, but this was brain damage waiting to happen. Smart move.

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2019-05-13T12:47:30+00:00

Would have laughed at it, waved my dick towards them and continue running

Pete_Worst · 2019-05-13T00:05:46+00:00

Those guys probably weren't even thinking about you a minute after they said that whereas you're thinking about it hours later. Don't waste your time or mental energy on unimportant shit like this. It's just some idiots in a car who shouted out a window, not a challenge for your honor.

virtualvirgincake2 · 2019-05-13T14:12:25+00:00

Three vs 1. THose are not good odds

Right call

JustSayM · 2019-05-12T22:17:58+00:00

I think it comes down to why you did nothing, if you are well trained and could have handled yourself you might feel happy with not saying anything. But if you know deep down you didn't do anything because you were afraid then that's the issue. A defencless man in this situation is running, where as one whom could defend himself would be ignoring. But there were three of them so... Guess do more training, krav maga trains fighting against multiple people. Your mind is nagging you because you have a vulnerability your ignoring. Just saying because I felt like this and hated the feeling, so now I'm training jiu-jitsu and krav maga.

Poltergeist-God · 2019-05-12T21:31:25+00:00

Well, somebody insults you and you do NOTHING about it. What a great man you are. This isn't minding your own business. Men need to be able to defend their honor, not be pussies. If someone slaps your girlfriends ass while you walk down the street and you do nothing it isn't because you aren't jealous. It's because you're freaking loser.

You have to be able to risk your safety for something. Idk what that is,family,friends your honor and respect, your country,religion. IDK. What kind of a man let's other insult him and does nothing?

You see all these Samurais in Japan that kill themselves after they fail their master? That's what honor is.A man that isn't willing to risk his life for his respect is a coward. I wonder what woman would ever feel safe around you.

Title	Avoiding a fight. Right move by me?
Author	bombgg
Upvotes	2
Comments	52
Date	May 12, 2019 9:28 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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