AWALT repulsiveness

TrpKid2 · 2020-11-13T11:30:35+00:00

Sluts are looked down upon for good reason. I say judge away freely. Our society is suffering from lack of well placed shame. As to your question, yes they're good for nothing more than a way better looking fleshlight

Stillwata79 · 2020-11-13T12:55:54+00:00

Even if they are NAWALT, keep it in your mind she can prove to be AWALT at any moment. This is the way.

jellysquat · 2020-11-13T15:17:39+00:00

AWALT is the same as "Treat all guns like they are loaded"

I can have a gun, check safety is on, verify it's not loaded and pass it to you, you should also check safety is on and verify it's not loaded and you STILL shouldn't point that shit at a person.

Same for AWALT. None of this "brutally focusing on yourself" stuff. Just understand that any woman at any time can branch swing or cheat.

Personally I don't care about a girl's sexual history. They'll never tell you the truth anyway. It's up to you what risks you want to take about condoms and giving head. For me this only matters for LTRs. Plates can fuck 100 guys I don't give a shit.

mr4kino · 2020-11-13T13:43:23+00:00

Completely agree with this.

BlondeHornyElf · 2020-11-13T15:26:40+00:00

a girl's sluttiness has never really been a problem for me when it came to casual sex... but i've been in LTRs where the more i develop feelings and the more i want to invest, the more ashamed i feel. i begin to realize that i'm willing to give everything i have to this girl (the full romantic and dedicated side to my personality), when she herself away to other men for nothing. why am i the cuck who wants to pay full price for what lesser and less caring men got for free? it fucks with my self esteem when i'm in that situation, and it only gets worse the more i actually care for the girl. i always end up bailing on the LTR when i have to decide if i'm willing to commit for real.

i can never figure out if this is a personal neurosis that i have that i need to get over, or if this is just part of being a man. i know other guys struggle with this too. i think it's probably some mixture of culture and biology.

helpmeverymuchthanks · 2020-11-13T10:36:24+00:00

I mean, its just your turn

TrenWarrior · 2020-11-13T13:50:20+00:00

Honestly, man, can't blame you for feeling this way... the way I see it we're blessed to be "Red-Pill Aware" imagine the sad simp AFC in an LTR with a girl he thinks is a white saint when in reality she has a history of slut indiscretions with multiple men... it's just a part of today's society.... my advice is just to play the game and know where your head is at, at all times. Don't tolerate any bs and take off at the first signs of red flags..... focus on your path and purpose... a woman is just an addition to your world.

Path-Quiet · 2020-11-13T14:01:49+00:00

And the hottest women are usually the biggest cock hungry sluts.

I don't think they're necessarily more hungry than other women but rather they have more options

i-am-the-prize · 2020-11-13T15:48:34+00:00

the reason this is (still) hitting you so hard is that part of you still (wants to) believe that women are special. that there is some mystical justification for the Pedestal. Secretly, part of you wants to find a unicorn, that diamond in the rough. And your revulsion and anger manifests from your need for such a woman. (PS you should't need a woman, any woman. you should want some sex, and some feminine energy and joy at times, but never NEED a woman).

so you say "AWALT. Always" But you don't want to believe it. Suck it up buttercup. The sooner you lower your unrealistic expectations, the happier you'll be. You'll stop thinking of women as the prize and make yourself The Prize.

Ironically, just like many guys will say "when i have a GF i get more vibes from other chicks" - even when the GF isn't there to provide visual social-proof. It's the neediness one gives off when you're in a dry spell, or conversely the OI you give off when you got blown that morning and will/can get laid 2 hours later when you leave the bar and hit her up. (this is one of the many reasons why abundance in plating > 1 woman is so important) but back on topic -- when you're NOT looking for a unicorn, is when you're more likely to find someone who is not (yet) trashed out. Whereas giving off the "BF vibe" and neediness to find someone to pedestalize is wrong. Wrong for yourself, but also less actually productive.

I know, "don't use RP to find a BP life" but honestly, you attract better women when you don't run around with a pedestal in your hand looking for anyone to put on top of it. It's neediness for a mommy. Remember the 2 biggest turn-offs to a high value woman: 1) a needy man, and 2) her needing to mother her male mate.

4everrekt · 2020-11-13T13:08:11+00:00

Meh, imagine you're a girl that has had to majorly repress their sexuality/keep it a secret for the entirety of their life either due to parents or not wanting to be viewed negatively by society. Ironically, it only fuels the urge to fulfill those desires and when they get the chance, they wild out like Bangerz-era Miley Cyrus.

At some point they may realize living like that is a miserable existence and that those days are over. Or not.

I think the thought of someone else having sex with your girl is instinctually repulsive, too much for most guys to handle, or want to handle.

Regarding women not being the focus: As you alluded to, you should be brutally focused on you and improvung your life. At some point you may come to the conclusion that sex isn't worth it if you have to jump through all those hoops for ~20mins of pleasure. Add to the fact that the refractory period temporary dulls the ambition you need to achieve your goals, then it really becomes not worth it.

To answer the question of how best to deal with it:

Don't optimize for the most attractive girl, optimize for the one who can add the most value and can best help you achieve your long term goals. Kissing don't last like cooking do. Scenario: if you're trying to break into some industry, there's some guy out there that can be a mentor and greatly accelerate your progress. It's likely that he's simping over some girl. Find that girl, get her to call in a favor on your behalf. No sex needs to be involved, as she's already provided something more valuable.

johncillo · 2020-11-13T14:10:17+00:00

Sorry bro, but you’re putting pussy on a pedestal, why would you need a girl to feel like the leader of the pack? Have some respect over yourself and build something where you can feel that way.

“If AWALT teaches us anything, it should be that women are nothing you should set as your goal. Brutally focus on yourself, your hobbies, your values. Sculpt a great body but do it for yourswlf and yourself only. Delving into the hedonism that is pursuing women as a goal will only bring emptiness and disappointment.”

This is the only part of your discourse that makes sense, and to the other part I tell you: stop looking for a unicorn in order to get validation from women, if you don’t like how they are AWALT go to MGTOW and they will agree with you on your resentment.

And for fucks sake have some common sense, there is no “virgin verified” tag on Tinder.

CHEEKY_CUNT1 · 2020-11-13T13:18:40+00:00

Lol dude just don’t eat her pussy. Fuck the shit out of her, get your nut then toss her to the side like the 20 dudes before you.

send_it_for_the_boys · 2020-11-13T15:19:54+00:00

7th? Holy fuckin shit.. I was the 2nd in a day “at least” and thought that was bad

Max_Wing · 2020-11-13T15:47:04+00:00

The hottest woman also have the most choices. They can jump from one alpha to the next. There‘s not much competition anxiety, except from the male she‘s going to choose. And since she‘s able, she‘ll play the lady‘s game.

empatheticapathetic · 2020-11-13T12:44:11+00:00

I’ve been living with different girls for the last 3 years in different flats. I am honestly surprised at the lack of guys they fuck. One or two usually have a bf who sometimes visits. One has a fwb or two. The quietest one is usually the biggest slut. One sells sex but never has guys over otherwise and I think she just wants the attention. Many are frustrated at the lack of men showing interest these days (which gives me a MRA boner) and occasionally end up with a disappointing sexual encounter.

Is there anything connecting all the girls you meet who are major sluts? All girls give it up on the same night, all have been and can be sluts to different degrees, but it seems to be a phase for most. Most know it’s not good for them and can’t handle being such a slut. 7 guys in one day is fairly extreme.

And it goes without saying that all ethnic girls are major sluts.

319Skew · 2020-11-13T15:25:23+00:00

You're not a lion. Women are women. People fuck.

You can want the dream of the virgin that's your own personal slut but that's just a dream. She learned all those things you like from past guys.

Just like how you know your mom and dad fucked, best not think too much about it.

2020-11-13T12:39:39+00:00

yucky

Richard_strokerr · 2020-11-13T14:57:38+00:00

Can I ask what country u moved to? UK?

2020-11-13T15:39:56+00:00

Are you trying to say all women are whores? What's a whore exactly?

Are all men the same? What makes you think all women are the same? Guess it's kinda true in today's time because of the lack of male leadership and men fucking anything that walks as well as fucked up divorce laws. Who's fault is it? Men not being men.

bats000 · 2020-11-13T16:29:21+00:00

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cunningcaring · 2020-11-13T11:00:47+00:00

It's all in your head.

TheRedPillMonkey · 2020-11-13T12:59:25+00:00

Awalt is the most important trp lesson. The most important question for you is how you leverage that information.

AltruisticBeautiful7 · 2020-11-13T13:38:23+00:00

well ok dude but

"I've known that since I started my trp journey many years ago. As I'm getting older my standards get higher, not lower. Been in a few LTRs since. One with a virgin, others with hot girls who didn't fuck around that much (and still don't)."

THen what is the meaning of this?..

And out of curiosity, what is your age?

Title	AWALT repulsiveness
Author	Well_hung_Yakuza
Upvotes	45
Comments	49
Date	November 13, 2020 10:14 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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