Being a father while also struggling with desire to fuck around with other women

Innovi · 2019-12-25T12:44:48+00:00

You're pretty much the male equivalent of women who want to ride CC until they hit the wall and then find a valuable man.

Bruchibre · 2019-12-25T13:03:51+00:00

Make sure to never get caught. Never confess even under torture. Deny everything.

robetyarg · 2019-12-25T15:23:11+00:00

You've been saying in this thread that you love this girl and want to be there for the kid, yet you have strong desires for sexual variety.

Either this girl is going to be okay with it or she won't. Just talk to her, and boom you have your answer. If she isn't okay with it, you can be a piece of shit and cheat on her every so often. Or you can be a man and leave her, and still support the baby. You kinda fucked yourself by getting her pregnant. Your options are very limited.

Some situations you can't weasel your way out of and make everyone happy. Sometimes you gotta deal with the consequences. At the end of the day you need to do what's right, and cheating on someone is a fuckin' stupid and selfish thing to do. If she isn't okay with you being with other girls, then time to sack up, move on, and take care of the kid in the best capacity that you can.

Retstortion · 2019-12-25T12:32:23+00:00

Should have wrapped yourself up or got the cut. If she wants it, you’re paying support. You fucked up.

TakeYourTime109 · 2019-12-25T12:49:52+00:00

Don’t do this to the mother of your child - in fact, if she is “your girl”, you wouldn’t think about having to commit to her, it will come naturally. Don’t use stupid excuses to lose something precious and loving.

2019-12-25T13:54:33+00:00

the issue here is one of not knowing what your morals are. figure out what you believe in and what right and wrong mean to you. and then live honestly, not secretively. whether that means you will be derided or praised.

there is no right or wrong, only living honestly according to what you believe.

Patches0wholahan · 2019-12-25T14:19:09+00:00

It’s tricky dude. But blow jobs and easy fucks come.

Being a father a lot of times is doing the right thing and not the what you want in the moment thing.

Congratulations. May fatherhood take you on the ultimate adventure.

jakeyv123 · 2019-12-25T14:20:34+00:00

Well don’t say you will cheat if your making up your mind whether to stay around or not. Other people in this sub will say yeh go cheat yay, but that’s your baby who will be born with a piece of shit father. Act liking a fucking man instead of this bitch you currently talk like. Either drop the baby and the mummy and run or suck it up. Hearing that shit disgusts me, step up.

kfd_capital · 2019-12-25T15:13:59+00:00

This is a great way to get your kid to hate you.

Just cheat, and dont get caught. If you do, accept the consequences.

spiceb0ss · 2019-12-25T15:11:06+00:00

Hookers are the obvious answer.

2019-12-25T17:03:33+00:00

Open relationship if you set the ground work right and are significantly higher SMV than her.

Snowaey · 2019-12-25T12:56:58+00:00

LMAO

2019-12-25T14:03:10+00:00

You need insane SMV and Frame but you can pull it off. My STBX knows I am leaving her and cheating but still wants to fuck and would be happy to share me verses lose me. I don't want to be owned by a woman so I am getting a divorce.

You are fucked here bud. Go fuck other women and live alone. Support your woman but don't live with her if you want to fuck bitches on the side.

Or only go into an LTR with a woman who is OK with sharing. OLTR is the way to go IMO.

xoxuv · 2019-12-25T14:45:17+00:00

Ignore the moralists trying to put you down. It can be done, but there are no guarantees.

It is your right and your nature as a man.

Just never give explanations, and never try to "convince" her, no matter how bad she caught you.

Try threesomes, so she gets accustomed to share you.

Tousen71 · 2019-12-25T16:33:05+00:00

I love how dudes will cry and complain about their LTRs cheating on them (and thus bringing them to TRP) then be the first ones to yell “cheat and don’t get caught” when a stupid question like this comes up.

Retstortion · 2019-12-25T16:54:46+00:00

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jojojijo333 · 2019-12-25T14:38:04+00:00

You tell her that you will fuck around but still take care of her and the child. Cheating is beta why would you hide?

Title	Being a father while also struggling with desire to fuck around with other women
Author	Retstortion
Upvotes	2
Comments	48
Date	December 25, 2019 12:13 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/effulp/being_a_father_while_also_struggling_with_desire/
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