So i met with a tinder girl and was blown away that within 10 minutes it was almpst as if we were soulmates. i held frame well and deflected multiple shit tests, but inside I was thinking I scored big time. Then we had sex... The whole next day she showered me wth weird messages. It was as if she was trying to talk me out of seeing her. Then she said she didn't want to become "more attached than I already am" (her attached to me" I didn't really know what was going on here but then she dropped in. "I have bpd btw".

So after reading a whole bunch, I know this isn't going to end well, and at this point, all she knows about me is my first name and my phone number.

I know I should get out of there, but fuck that. I want the sex, and I kinda want to Ride the rollercoaster. I feel I can gain valuable red pill experience from this in frame control and handling women on general.

While reading, I realised I have a lot of bpd symptoms myself, except the extreme mood swings. I want to know how to handle this girl so that we can enjoy the good times. This is what in have to far.

  1. Validate her feelings. Let her know its ok to feel mad and depressed.
  2. Be there for her and talk to her, without judging.
  3. maintain frame and set clear boundrys
  4. Do not engage in arguments

I am the kinda guy who is touchy feely. I am dominant and like to exert this, not only on the bedroom but in every day life. In the past, if a girl was mad at me, I would mock her for being a bratty child and bear hug her so she couldn't escape. Or pick up a girl and carry her if she was trying to storm off. Or grab her a and pull her in fairly forcefully.

These things seem normal to me, how do they work with bpd girls? Any tips are appreciated. She's such a nice girl when not having an episode, but I'm not going to let this fool me, as I know it's probably fake. I have a no contact exit strategy so I'm ready for the life experience this bitch is goin to give me. If I get burned, which I definitely could, I will accept the Consequences.