Bringing it back from a stupid mistake - specific question related to 2 plates and me.

makethemflaunt · 2016-01-20T01:57:16+00:00

Laughing at this. It's been 4 hours so obviously the conversation has progressed. What's the latest?

Personally, I would completely ignore it until she brings it up. And when she brings it up you need to show absolutely no shame and also be able to shut down the conversation quickly. Whatever achieves that.

Do not discuss over text whatever you do. It will take tremendous effort for her to bring it up in person. She will want to either make you apologize or make you the enemy so she can justify "dumping" you. Refuse to be seen as anything less than an awesome dude who she'd be crazy to leave. She'll feel shitty for allowing you to treat her like shit but once she does accept it, she may get really depressed. That's when you show her your sweet side and buy her an ice cream and a teddy bear.

lynnflextime · 2016-01-19T01:19:28+00:00

She proably thinks you were just joking or is insecure about it. Its maybe not even bad if not, i would say it depends on the girl.

Anyways just wait for her message and dont think too much about it (it seems like you give too much fucks about a girl you consider a plate).

Sementeries · 2016-01-19T06:27:42+00:00

she knows im seeing other birds

Then how exactly did you fuck up? Be cool about it and dismiss it if she brings it up.

i just dont particularly want to drop her or have her go all shitty with me

Be ready for anything and expect it with every girl.

yolosun · 2016-01-19T17:52:00+00:00

It will only make you more attractive to her and possibly make her step her game up. However, the way you handled it messed you up more.

Sending her the wrong message wasn't the mistake, openly panicking about it to her right after was beta af.

Play it off, subtly let her know you're fucking other girls and if she goes shitty? Then you dread/next her. Plates break all the time anyway.

oldslut · 2016-01-19T08:03:31+00:00

really, the most stupid error? no, not at all. i do things like this intentionally sometimes, just to fuck with them (of course, without the sorry part--that was your only mistake). just forget about it. if she brings it up, ignore, or just joke about it.

Title	Bringing it back from a stupid mistake - specific question related to 2 plates and me.
Author	Ishazak
Upvotes	7
Comments	11
Date	January 19, 2016 12:17 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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