Last New Year I celebrated with my girlfriend in my apartment. It was just the two of us. I'm an introvert and I don't like a lot of people, it's best when the two of us are alone, and she's an extrovert and wants as many people around as possible.

I raised the topic of celebrating the coming New Year, and I said that we should celebrate in my apartment again, just the two of us, like last year. She denied it, said she was bored and we were in my apartment almost every week and she wants some change. She also said she was bored when the two of us were celebrating and she wants to have fun. She told me that she had received an invitation from (female) friends to celebrate the New Year together. I thought it was a shit test and I didn't react. I want to get the frame back and that she asks me to celebrate together. How to achieve that in this situation?

I don't want to celebrate with my friends because they go to a nightclub and I hate places like this.