This last week has been pretty miserable for me. I finally made out with a girl that I like and typically like some kind of thunderbolt oneitis has hit me hard. For a couple of reasons pursuing more with her is going to be hard. So it’s like a toxic mix of oneitis, loss and jealousy.

I recognise all these emotions that arise within myself, but is that the only power I have? I have tried to project an abundance attitude, talking to other girls etc, but I find my thoughts quickly slip back to thinking about her and I start to feel bad again.

Is oneitis simply something you suffer until it passes? Is being aware you have it enough?