Can't cum with condom?

boy_named_su · 2018-06-20T04:14:08+00:00

Try jerkin it w a condom. Or find an exclusive fuckbuddy and rawdog that vag. You should pull out though cuz butches lie

Whisper · 2018-06-20T04:26:53+00:00

Are you kinda on the well-endowed side? They feel a bit tight?

The US government outlawed condoms over a certain size.

ValorElite · 2018-06-21T00:59:06+00:00

I had the same mentality as you, my brother. I used to hate condoms, said that they killed my boners, ruined the experience etc...

It takes a whole shift in your mentality. Instead of thinking about putting a piece of rubber on your dick, think about it as a natural step in the love making process. Slow down, truly be in the moment, and enjoy yourself.

I like to focus on the girl's pleasure. I move deliberately and slowly. Once I enter her, I like to just keep it there for five seconds or so to appreciate the moment. Then, just focus on her pleasure and mentally focus on your dick being hard, fucking her, etc...

It seems weird but once you change your mentality, anything is possible. Switch it up, my brother.

Ill_Will7 · 2018-06-21T02:45:52+00:00

I cant fuck with a condom at all. It ends up making me go soft, I cant feel anything and it smells not great and really awkward to put on in front of a girl that wants to fuck right this second. I pull out

wifeisbiorgay · 2018-06-20T15:55:40+00:00

A lot of suggestions about condom size, which you seem to have considered already. As far as I know, there are only two other things you can try..

First, use thinner condoms. That can make a huge difference.

Second, realize it's in your head. Difficulty cumming is a lot like psychological ED. You start getting worried that you can't cum in the condom and that anxiety is lowering your state of arousal and then, of course, you can't cum. I'm not sure exactly how to fix that, it's complicated. One thing that might help you is just to relax and not worry too much about it. We are conditioned from porn to think of sex as always involving penetration and culminating with the guy cumming. It doesn't have to be that way. Sex is whatever you and your partner enjoy and ends whenever the two of you want it to. By not worrying so much about it, you can just focus on enjoying how the sex feels and let it happen.

Pluglord · 2018-06-20T03:32:20+00:00

Have you tried reverse vertical anal?

Random_throwaway_000 · 2018-06-20T04:22:59+00:00

How many different girls have you fucked? Is this all with the same girl? Some girls are just a bit too wide down there to feel much with condoms.

beautifulmanlet · 2018-06-20T03:34:20+00:00

Have you tried putting a little bit of lube inside the condom? Making sure your wrapper actually fits you (I say everyone needs to try MySize brand)? Have you tried relaxing a bit and letting it happen?

WediSesa · 2018-06-20T04:15:32+00:00

You most likely are using I'll fitted condoms. What's your size?

Quantum_Jiraiya · 2018-06-20T05:02:00+00:00

Some guys can’t cum or get soft laying on their back during sex, but being on top requires more work. If you are going at it to the point you are exhausted you probably won’t be able to cum anyways. I’d try to up my cardiovascular health and in the meantime just ask girls if they’ll finish you with head whenever you get tired.

bluemoviebaz · 2018-06-20T13:36:19+00:00

Buy ribbed condoms and put it on inside out!

oneredguy · 2018-06-20T05:14:02+00:00

Throat fuck her and after she pukes again slap her, grab her by the throat and tell her to tell you that she loves cock, while she cries. Or be a nice guy and just fuck her up the ass, while you pull her hair, and tell her to tell you that she loves cock up her ass.

And she will say it lel.

Or you know find a whore you can marry and think in your head. Kids. Kid.

But yeah don't cause you can't even make a girl beg you to gag on your cock, throw up, while she cries, and smile at you soooo big in the morning.

Sick

zeromonster89 · 2018-06-20T04:30:22+00:00

Try jerking off with a condom for a while and you should get use to the feeling of a rubber on you.

Title	Can't cum with condom?
Author	Jda4190
Upvotes	4
Comments	45
Date	June 20, 2018 3:26 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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