Confidence tips for under-endowed men

mitchopatamus · 2019-07-03T03:47:37+00:00

There is at least a little you can do about this situation. First, I recommend checking out “thundersplace” because you absolutely can improve the size. Don’t expect anything magical, but you can make some improvements there. Next, you need to shred every bit of belly fat you can to make the appearance larger. Beyond that, you need to change the way you approach sex. Whether you like it or not, foreplay is going to have to become your specialty, with actual sex being more like dessert. If you can give women orgasms, then there isn’t any reason dick size will matter, unless they’re shallow. Nina Hartley has a great video of her recommendations for eating pussy if you want to check that out

rp2626 · 2019-07-03T13:20:42+00:00

You only have what you're given. Why should you be ashamed. If a woman is attracted to you she isn't going to be disgusted that you have a small dick. Ignore those mouthy size queens you see on social media they're too superficial to enjoy sex anyway.

I'm certainly below average but I've never had a problem in that department. I approach it with good humour and self respect. Don't waste another moment on this dead end pursuit. Focus on self improvement.

batfish55 · 2019-07-03T11:57:56+00:00

Learn to eat pussy well. If you can, they won't give a fuck if you're hung like a 10 year old.

darkkramer · 2019-07-03T03:51:34+00:00

Secret tip. There is a way to get a bigger dick that isn’t all the bullshit snake oil with all those dangerous risks. It has to be done properly and not half-assed, also requires a whole lot of discipline and commitment. Can’t risk understating that it’s safe only if done >>right<<.!

There’s this dick pump called Bathmate which you use in the bathtub or shower. Filled with water, put your dick in it and with suction when pumping out the water it will expand your dick. Goodlookingloser has a guide with NSFW permanent result pics after following a gradual slow and careful procedure with the right schedule. Google ”goodlookingloser bathmate guide results”, it went from average US male to average pornstar

One-two years and your dick will feel both better in terms of blood flow and size. I know it sounds too good to be true but I did it for a small amount of time and judging by the way it worked on me under that short period it actually seems to make sense. It looks yuge when you come out of the shower and it retains size more the longer you do it. After hard work and one or two years it will be stretched out mostly permanent and the gains will be somewhat cemented.

Most people won’t do it but if you feel like it’s worth your time and a hundred bucks you will literally have increased permanent dick size to some extent.

Hope this tip helps

Seahunter90 · 2019-07-03T03:26:38+00:00

There's definitely procedures you can do to rectify this. Why not look into that?

MurkyArtichoke · 2019-07-03T07:18:57+00:00

Listen. I'm quite small myself, around 4.7inches, and it has torn at my confidence most of my life. I dreaded showers in the locker rooms when i was younger, and i still do. I'm also a grower so it looks very small when soft. It's such a confidence blow when you see that most dudes in the shower have dicks that actually "hang" lol. I know you probably don't feel like im similar since it's not as small as yours, but know that i can at least somewhat relate to how you're feeling.

The topic of "does size matter" is such a universal topic that has no definite answer. People have different preferences. I mean, there's even a fetish for "small dicks" for example. Most people will tell that "size doesn't matter, it's how you use it" bla bla. Thing is, most girls don't wanna seem shallow when answering that, and the truth is, like you said, MOST(not everyone) prefer an above average sized dick. It's just pure biology. It's wired into a girl's DNA in the same way as how they prefer an alpha male. But a female friend of mine once told me this, and i think it's very viable and perhaps the most true answer to "does size matter?". I asked her, and she said "if you haven't had sex a lot, then yes, size matters. It will compensate your lack of skills. If you are skilled in 'the art of lovemaking' then it doesn't matter much in the end".

Get fucking good at foreplay. Like, really make it your playground. I've focused on this a lot, and it makes a huge difference. Do NOT show girls that you are insecure about your penis. Own that shit. Don't even mention it. Show confidence. Even if you have sex with girls that aren't attractive, it helps you practice. I've had "callbacks" from girls, like you say, and i currently have a girl who is very into me and we have sex all the time. She has never mentioned ny size. I think some girls don't mind as she can deepthroat me easily and it probably makes her feel like a pornstar lol. I also had a girl that i simply fingered to orgasm several times, and she called me once mentioning how i had "magic fingers" and that she "never came as hard as that before". There are opportunities dude, even if it seems hopeless.

I see lots of people commenting on ways to increase your size. Personally, i've never tried any of that, like jelqing and stuff, and i've read many people say it can have dangerous effects on getting a hard-on. I'm sure they mean well and i haven't tried it before so i don't know if it works. That's a decision you have to make yourself, and i don't blame you if you try.

You're not alone dude. I think this topic in general is not discussed enough, and the "sex god method", which is widely applauded here, doesn't apply in the same sense to someone with a below average dick. How much can you truly dominate a girl without the proper equipment? I still think a lot of the stuff mentioned there is viable, and you should read it.

bowhunter857 · 2019-07-03T03:27:03+00:00

You’re way more worried about it than a woman will ever be. Fuck her like you have a 12 inch monster and you’re splitting her in two, she will enjoy it. Just think of a woman masturbating, if they actually bring penetration into that do you think they are at home shoving a big ass dildo all the way inside them? No.

VaultGuy1995 · 2019-07-03T03:31:38+00:00

there’s nothing you can do about it so no need to worry . control what you can control

CaptainKidd96 · 2019-07-03T06:54:20+00:00

Dude there's a subreddit called Ajelqforyou which talks about penis enlargement and from what i' ve seen from the posts there it really works. I think if you follow their methods you will be able to get an inch or mayne even two of lenght.

KirthWGersen · 2019-07-03T08:54:32+00:00

With many, indeed most, women, this will be a problem; but not all.

I've had women complain to me that other guys' dicks were too small and it really mattered to them. These are usually the kind of women who only really like penetration and come easily through penetration, but who hate oral or manual stimulation because their clitoris is too sensitive. That can be refreshing and fun but ends up being a bit boring from my point of view.

However, I have also known women who can go almost entirely go without penetration. They love oral sex and other imaginative and fun ways of having sex, but don't get much out of penetration. Bag yourself one of them and you'll be just fine.

I know it is disappointing if your dick is not the way a woman wants it, but another way to look at it is that they are not the right kind of woman for your dick. It a compatibility issue and it is about her and you, not just you.

Plus, if a woman really likes you for other reasons, she will completely overlook all kinds of downsides in the short/medium term.

Publix_CT · 2019-07-03T08:57:50+00:00

I'll share my story. I started out average and did PE and gained 2 inches. My confidence sky-rocketed. I have lost 1.5" since not doing PE anymore and yet have lost none of the confidence.

idontmiind · 2019-07-03T10:04:52+00:00

how about fuck smaller girls? what height are you? I always thought smaller girls would perceive your dick to be at least average and wouldn't have a problem feeling it all in nice and full

EXPHustler · 2019-07-03T12:12:43+00:00

and have only been with about 8 women since i became sexually active.

For what it's worth, you're already well above average on this for lifetime number of partners for men. The CDC collects information on this, and it's something like 60-65 percent of men have five or fewer female sexual partners during their entire lives.

since good looking ones still don't give me the time of day.

but i just can't seem to get over the fact that a vast majority of women will never want me simply for something that i can't change.

This has little to do with your dick and everything to do with the rest of the situation.

masterpiece00 · 2019-07-03T13:57:47+00:00

Just have sex then fuck off, who care about if girls 'feel good', get yourself off with their body and feel good and that's the end -- they won't be satisfied a whole mans arm so its a moo point.

Title	Confidence tips for under-endowed men
Author	VaultGuy1995
Upvotes	16
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Date	July 3, 2019 3:06 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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