"Cute"

Max___Power · 2013-08-30T22:13:50+00:00

Relatively physically attractive and non-threatening. Cute is bad. You want hot.

thedangerboy · 2013-08-30T15:20:59+00:00

If you are just meeting a girl or do not know her very well, most of the time she is talking about your physical appearance. You need more than to just be "cute" to get her attracted to you.

Kreature · 2013-08-30T14:38:00+00:00

Context would be helpful here. Is it when you first meet and she's looking you up and down, or when she sees your penis and starts giggling?

vx6 · 2013-08-30T16:05:09+00:00

Many times cute means "you look good and would compliment me well". i.e. they'd look cute together, your friend is cute, any use of the word cutie.

Cute doesn't really hold sexual connotations in this case. So cute shouldn't be your end goal. In fact many times cute is a step in the wrong direction.

[deleted] · 2013-08-30T17:00:10+00:00

It means that you are not creepy.

[deleted] · 2013-08-31T05:37:50+00:00

When women say "cute", it means having a sweet personality (i.e. being a Nice Guy^TM ). It has nothing to do with looks.

Try to avoid being called "cute". If you are assertive, they'll call you an "asshole", but in a teasing way with a smile on their faces.

MTLSNowman · 2013-08-30T14:50:34+00:00

Not as bad as "You're sweet" but not the frame you're pulling for. Best guess in the dark here, you have a baby face.

RNAofYouListening · 2013-08-30T20:31:37+00:00

Holy shit, I made a long post about this last night, and it got deleted or went to spam or something annoying, but I hope you don't mind if I piggy-back your post to talk about it here.

I just got back to my college town and was hanging out at my buddies (very low key) a few nights back. One of the guy's girlfriends comes over and brings her friends. One of them is very petite, attractive, social, loud and [attempting to be--with some success] cute. They were all a little tipsy.

I was playing video-games and planning my escape since things had winded down, and a group of about four people were chatting in the kitchen. The girl was introducing herself and said, loud enough that I guess she wanted me to hear it, "he's cute" [referencing me].

IIRC, one of the guys said something like, "yea, he's our little cutie" with a shitfaced grin, and I said, "yea whatever" with a smirk, or something to that effect. That was that. The girl herself changed the topic pretty quickly.

Was that an IOI? Was I supposed to go up and start gaming her? I feel like girls use the word "cute" to refer to beta guys. In fact, I think I've only ever been called "cute" by girls. Maybe she was just tipsy and saying anything just to make noise? What do you think?

[deleted] · 2013-08-31T10:43:44+00:00

Cute usually equals dry panties.

NakedAndBehindYou · 2013-09-02T03:16:59+00:00

The problem with 'cute' is that it can mean fucking anything. Just look at the answers here: nobody fucking knows, because it depends on the context of the situation, which is why you need to figure out how to read people yourself to find out what she means.

Title	"Cute"
Author	Kreature
Upvotes	6
Comments	16
Date	August 30, 2013 2:10 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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