So, my GF befriended her friends (now Ex) BF before we met. My GF is Ms. Sweetheart-dudley-do-right and her friend was Ms. Everyones Vagina..the guy was the BF/Fuck boy pony-tail, vegan, street artist, takes in stray cats and sulks in the corner of the bar while his GF is seeking dick from other dudes. Seriously, night I met my GF her friend was trying to fuck my buddy while this guy (her friends "BF/Fuck-buddy")sat 20ft away sulking then scurried away. My girl told me she was friends with him when we met/started dating, I gave no fucks, she was a plate. She will tell me how nice a guy he was, how he was a "male version" of her. They would text back and forth talking about her friend he was seeing. Like a 3 way girl triangle of catty back stabby shit..the sweet girl, the nice guy, the slut best friend using everyone. One point she changed his name in her phone so she could text him while in her friends company.

I dropped all my plates for her around month 3/4. She witnessed other girls contacting me, me ghosting for 3 days, other plates contacting her to talk shit. She went through the shit, stuck through it all, still pursued. Had a great job, can cook, cute, never married, no kids, and the tightest body, ass, and cooch Ive came across.

But then month 4/5..I took notice finally. Dude texts...alot. He INSTANTLY likes everything she post via social media in a split second (clearly has her on notification) and shes "Liking" all his shit instantly (she has it on notify also) Him and her have little icons displaying they Snapchat frequently. I'm at a 7 on the "This dudes gotta go meter" at this point. I hit 10 when one night at dinner she recalls a night she was a plate and she went into a crying fit at her friends house.. She says "That night ***** came over to see my friend and saw me crying on the floor after you left. He said if he ever saw you he'd punch you in the face." Houston..we have a problem. I hit level 10 and I laugh, say "whatever, fuck him" and bury it..

I approach her a day or two later and say "I not feeling the interactions with this guy anymore. Its clear he has a crush on you and I didnt appreciate his comments." She admits before we met he told her her liked her..exactly what I knew. Spend the whole days fighting with her about him. Im not budging and shes saying stuff like.. "If you met him youd like him!" "Hes a vegan with a pony-tail! Wtf would I want that for!" "If you met him youd see your better in everyway and laugh aboit how your acting!" "He fucked/dated my friend so I have a strict rule he will always be out of the picture!" "He has 5 cats!" And of course..."your trying to control me!" "I had a BF try to control me like this once before, never again!" She wears me down..I conceed..keep your pony-tail buddy.. First month after this she tells me every time he text. I tell her she doesnt have to and she stops.

Flash forward to now..10 months. Him and her still catty chatting all the time via text, still snapchatting. He still likes all her social media stuff but, even tho she said she doesnt want to be controlled, she has stopped liking his stuff. I'm still irritated..dude clearly is a orbiter who is annoying me. Last straw was her phone dings a IG notify, he posted, then a ding message, he text her. Hes clearly posting on IG then sending her the pics as he post. I say nothing, muster up all my thoughts, opinions, and gut feelings over the night and the next day once again hit her with the "Dude has gotta go arguement"

I inserted some accusations..said its clear she told him the deal with social media so thats why he sends his pics via text now. I say this isnt being honest with me this is conspiring. I go into the same song and dance about how I dont like him, dont like their relationship, etc.. She does her same song and dance as before, meeting him (which I still refuse cause I might punch him) how Im better, how it takes two to tango and how she would never choose anyone over me, how she waited and pursued me for so long why would she screw around behind my back, how I'm better in everyway. Telling me how they send cat pics back and forth and talk about her friend behind her back like 2 girls. And again, she ends it all off with "Your being controlling and I jist cant do it or be with someone who wants to pick and choose my friends!" Tells me Im crazy, over jealous, delisional etc..

And..thats where we are right now. Arguement happened on Mon. 7 days ago. I'm still touch and go with her not sure if I can get over/deal with accepting her with this orbiter/guy-BFF around.

To top this off..Im on this shaky ground, and she knows it, and she went and put a bid in on this house on Thur and has been begging me to come live with her. 4 times the size of my place, pool, jacuzzi, etc.. offering me up a man cave cause it has a finished basement.. She wants to play house all of a sudden while I'm stressing over this dude/guy-buddy.

Maybe I am being controlling? I gave up my options..got weak. Shes a clear winner in body, mind, career etc.. But..but..orbiters, guy buddies, etc.. I just DESPISE it. They can be the geekest lame dude and I see a dick in a glass case if I go out of town. I see a shoulder to cry on I dont want her touching, I see a dude hearing secrets she aint telling me.

Do I buckle on this? Give it all up over this? Do I accept him, laugh it all off..