Did I get ghosted?

eaeulis · 2017-11-13T12:35:23+00:00

"i'll let you know= NO"

JinSantosAndria · 2017-11-13T12:26:56+00:00

Well, she told you. If she didnt let you know, she is with someone else. Do more important stuff. There is no reason for you to message her.

MattyAnon · 2017-11-13T12:48:20+00:00

which she didn't stop me from

Did she reciprocate?

"I'll let you know".

You got second placed. This is an option date. "I'll let you know if nothing better has come up".

You should never accept them. She says "I'll let you know" and you say "Yeah, I might have something on too" and you write off that day. She backs off, you back off further. Otherwise you're her bitch.

TheStumblingWolf · 2017-11-13T12:40:21+00:00

You're not that important to her. Should tell you all you need. An interested girl will even cancel existing plans to be with you if she's interested enough.

Kommanderdude · 2017-11-13T14:10:59+00:00

If you have to ask. Then yes.

StrongAffordance · 2017-11-13T14:21:46+00:00

“I’ll let you know”

“Let’s reschedule for another day that definitely works”

WISE_TURD · 2017-11-13T14:30:36+00:00

https://markmanson.net/fuck-yes

BusterVadge · 2017-11-13T15:21:42+00:00

And how should I respond?

Radio silence. Don't say a thing, ever, unless she contacts you again, then you get a definite yes, or you hard next.

Viscount61 · 2017-11-13T15:45:28+00:00

Next time, replace “what does your week look like?” with “I’m going to [insert cool event or fun bar/cafe or art museum special exhibit or monster truck rally] on [insert day] at [time] and you should come too.”

WallaceforPres1968 · 2017-11-13T14:44:26+00:00

Hard next this stupid bitch

Title	Did I get ghosted?
Author	OversuspiciousT
Upvotes	2
Comments	15
Date	November 13, 2017 12:15 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/7cmpcl/did_i_get_ghosted/
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