Did I overreact by soft-nexting a plate because of this?

RAiderNat88 · 2018-02-15T21:33:11+00:00

Her: Uhm..when did you take this decision?

Next time say, "Just now"

Her: You told me very late (etc...)

She has dick lined up already and now you're complicating her wanting to see the other dick AND you.

Around 5:30pm (more than 3 hours later) she said "sorry I can't be ready by 9pm, we can meet after that or some other day".

Her dick appointment is going to take longer than expected and she still wants to see you after.

After that I said that she should have told me earlier and proceeded to soft-next her

No need to even reply to her just hit her up a couple days later to try and set up another fuck sesh. Getting butthurt about it just plays into her hand and gives her power over you.

Later on Facebook she saw some pictures of me with another girl at the place we were supposed to go together.

No prob with this at all, shows her you have options with some social proof. Hit her up in a couple of days and her tiger will probably devour you. Just don't bring up what happened.

PhantomNishobrah · 2018-02-15T20:49:24+00:00

So you gave her a whole 6 hours to clear her schedule on one of the busiest date nights of the year?

Sounds like she had other plans and you threw a tantrum.

fnordsnord · 2018-02-15T20:58:27+00:00

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anusbleach11111 · 2018-02-15T20:51:01+00:00

She’s a plate. Probably has a beta bucks who already made plans with her. Why are you tying to put yourself in his position? Good luck coming back from this, now she knows you want something more and probably put you in the beta category.

yes_we_can_t · 2018-02-16T01:13:22+00:00

Long-story short I tried to find out what she's so busy with

Why care what she's so busy with? Also on Valentines day it's almost certainly another guy.

she said "sorry I can't be ready by 9pm, we can meet after that or some other day". After that I said that she should have told me earlier and proceeded to soft-next her

Butthurt. Better to just say no problem, and hook up with her after the first girl or another day.

Proceed like nothing happened.

LordThunderbolt · 2018-02-16T01:48:17+00:00

So you tried to set up a same day Valentine's dwte with a girk who's not committed to you. What could possibly go wrong? Newsflash: Someone else already beat you to it, and she had other plans. You hit her up at 2pm to keet up at 8-9pm on Valentine's day. That's too short notice.

CutLiver · 2018-02-16T04:34:39+00:00

Always plan stuff at least a day ahead of time. People have lives. She had another guy lined up. Ignoring her 9pm text was about the only thing you did right

Redpillx94 · 2018-02-15T22:24:33+00:00

Savage

RedLegendx · 2018-02-15T20:58:10+00:00

Should have rescheduled for a later date, like in a week or so THEN soft next her.

aresvlight · 2018-02-15T23:35:40+00:00

Damn that's gonna sting.

Title	Did I overreact by soft-nexting a plate because of this?
Author	onpuzzle
Upvotes	4
Comments	18
Date	February 15, 2018 8:46 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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