Do non-boring women exist?

GirTheRobot · 2019-02-01T00:36:17+00:00

I've thought this for a loooong time too. I remember when my biydd and I were like 19 and we'd go on dates with girls and we'd say "literally the only thing they do in their free time is watch Netflix" never have any hobbies, interests, things they're improving about themselves/learning. Literally every guy I meet regardless of age has SOMETHING he's doing that takes up his time and makes him smarter or better like learning an instrument, listening to history podcasts, reading books, playing a sport, whatever it is. Every girl I meet from 18-24 is "going to college" and that's it. Even then they usually talk about their studies as if it's some weird weight on their shoulders rather than interesting material they're paying thousands of dollars to learn.

Ad has been said, they don't have the biological inclination to do so (like men do), as they are the selectors, so why should they?

But yeah interesting girls are out there. They're just hard to find.

Bleu_Cheese_Pursuits · 2019-02-01T01:17:40+00:00

Yes but they aren't usually very good looking. Homely women are more aware of nature's cold brutality in face of absent beauty, and subsequently tend to be more virtuous. But hot girls don't need a personality to avoid loneliness.
I honestly believe that a woman who is pretty, cleans up after herself, and doesn't cost anything, has more than enough to permit most men to fall in love with her. Like a girl that is good looking, comes over, fucks, watches TV, and never says a word; absolutely fine.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2019-02-01T00:35:21+00:00

Oh, they're mostly along for the ride, to provide arm candy and sometimes do me favors. Ocassionally they say stuff that amuses me, I tend to not lend much thought to what they say unless it's something that interests me.

I understand that a lot of people find the sport of cricket to be fun and exciting to talk about. More power to them, but I don't really care that much. I don't expect cricket fans to tell me stuff that entertains and excites me. I don't expect the kind of stuff that women chatter about to be interesting.

throwawaytrp88 · 2019-02-01T02:54:04+00:00

Go to yacht club, go volunteering to feed the homeless, go live painting, go salsa dancing, interesting women are busy doing shit, go where fun activities are.

Your point is that 90% of women are meh, that's the same for men also.

mrmaldoror · 2019-02-01T00:47:24+00:00

I've made an effort to friend a bunch of interesting women.

I message artist women on the internet/IG
Going to backpacker hostels to hangout and hosting couch surfers
I work in Startups most of the women there are above the cut
The girls your alpha friends fuck

kcxvi · 2019-02-01T01:40:42+00:00

Interesting women are everywhere

gbnz87 · 2019-02-01T05:02:43+00:00

The majority of women don't have any reason to improve themselves. They will get attention from plenty of men as long as they are somewhat attractive. A lot of women could tell guys they are serial killers and they would likely stick around or hang on for dear life.

On the other hand I got out of a ltr and got rejected constantly and always felt like I was getting judged for my hobbies and interests at the time. I've matured and worked hard on myself and I don't spend my day trolling the web as I have goals I want to achieve. It's a shame as I'm finding most women really have nothing going on in their lives and I'm really trying hard to be interested in them.

One thing that I find really jarring is that I like to read a lot of women's psychology and pickup books. I very rarely get a conversation that even comes close to what they describe. If I ask anything more complicated than do you watch tv I often get some stupid answer which I can't do anything with (eg. What are you passionate about? Err.. I don't know, you?) It could just be the pool that I'm targeting or it could be me but I often do well when the girl does have something going on in her life though. I just have to keep trying harder to find gold I don't want to settle for silver or bronze

shitinhermouth23 · 2019-02-01T06:15:19+00:00

Girls hobby is gossiping. Men like things women like people

chazthundergut · 2019-02-01T06:22:43+00:00

And yet, here we are gathered on an internet forum trying to figure out how to catch these boring fish

frontyer0077 · 2019-02-01T00:16:13+00:00

The most fun women I have ever met was great fun. BUT, all of them where crazy and you would be stupid to be in an exclusive relationship with them. Thats my personal experience.

ghosts_of_me · 2019-02-01T01:53:36+00:00

Artistic girls tend to be the best imo.

TheStumblingWolf · 2019-02-01T16:55:58+00:00

Yes, but until you lose the paradigm that they don't you're not likely to find them. You tend to find what you're looking for.

TRP8myfeels · 2019-02-01T01:24:05+00:00

Yep. I have one currently and know a few others.

Bruchibre · 2019-02-01T01:49:12+00:00

That’s why lots of men become gay

Chad1738 · 2019-02-01T02:55:15+00:00

Be fun and you’ll attract fun women. You always set the frame. They live in your world. You dictate what happens inside of it. If they don’t accept your frame you move on and find girls who do because those women aren’t worth your time.

rugged79 · 2019-02-01T07:27:37+00:00

Yeah you got to expand your circle. The more hot women you have in your life, the higher the probability one of them is going to be interesting.

Sometimes I'll try something new like taking a cooking class, going to a Meetup.com event or Salsa dancing class 'cause when you start traveling, most countries have at least one banging salsa club with hot women in tight dresses.

Traveling and dating abroad can help expand your black book too. Dating apps like Tinder are hit or miss sometimes but mostly works if you're in shape and have decent style.

Kurush559 · 2019-02-01T13:51:50+00:00

Fun and interesting guys are most likely to recognise and attract fun and interesting girls

maljo24 · 2019-02-01T02:29:59+00:00

You are hanging out with the wrong crowd of women. Maybe you are with boring women because you are boring. I don't know any boring women.

rDiothe · 2019-02-01T00:01:49+00:00

. I don’t really think there’s a place to meet these women, I just think it happens.

Also, as a guy who considers himself fun, I can turn a lot of interactions with women into “a good time” by controlling the frame with my humor my point of view.

It’s like a big game, and they LOVE it.

I also tend get really bored hearing about some of the surface level shit girls talk about, so I stay away from it. Either I stay out of the conversation or I “create” a random situation that is fun for me.

When they open up really they can tell you all sorts of fun shit. That’s the key.

Otherwise, create your own frame constantly and just let them take part in it, that’s the best way IMO anyway.

livefreeofdie · 2019-02-01T06:43:19+00:00

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Title	Do non-boring women exist?
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Date	January 31, 2019 11:35 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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