Do you cheat in an LTR?

OrphanedVigilante · 2018-01-28T17:46:19+00:00

When you opt into a relationship agreement (oral or written) both parties are agreeing to sleep with eachother exlusively. Your going to read a lot of comments chanting "sexual strategy is amoral" like brainwashed sheep, and they're right, but unfortunately in the context they use it in they're trying to convince others as well as themselves that it equates to the justification of cheating.

When you cheat on any agreement in any aspect of life, you are by definition dishonest. This is not from The Bible, this is Merriam-Webster's Dictionary.

Spinning plates and being open about it is in itself an agreement, and a very reasonable one. If you can't agree to exclucivity then don't opt into such an agreement.

So what should you do? Whatever you want, but understand that by cheating you are not only dishonest, but inviting unnecessary drama into your life.

Personally I don't cheat because I have no need. Even when I would agree to a LTR I'm no so insecure that I would cheat to maintain the emotional need of feeling secure in a relationship. I don't cheat to "get her before she gets me because AWALT" either, that also stems from insecurity.

When a broad cheats I simply and unemotionally fire them from the relationship, like a boss would an employee that was stealing from work.

And should you let a broad see your phone? FUCK NO! That's not a part of any relationship agreement.

Burrowmonster · 2018-01-28T17:14:01+00:00

“Never give a bitch your phone, that’s a no no” - YBN Nahmir

JerryMullin1978 · 2018-01-28T17:28:09+00:00

I’ve never cheated because if I still want to hook up with other girls, I don’t get into a LTR. I’m also upfront with my intentions. If I only want a plate, I tell them. Then it’s their choice to stick around or not. Most do for awhile. A lot say, “Thank you for being honest.”

To me having an abundance mentality in a relationship has more to do with having the ability to walk than actually hooking up with other girls. I don’t put up with bullshit or drama because I can get other girls. I’m also fine being alone.

PreOrgasmGroanLness · 2018-01-28T21:53:22+00:00

Don't cheat, don't lie. If you go into a mono relationship with the premise that cheating OK it's the same as admitting of being too pussy to frame the relationship as open or polyamorous from the start

YasserZe · 2018-01-28T17:20:28+00:00

If you wanna cheat don't commit in the first place , and also never give a bitch your phone , l don't care if you got nothing to hide just don't do it

asapzombie · 2018-01-28T17:21:15+00:00

Before TRP I did it once and I didn’t like the feeling of hypocrisy that was present every time I was with her.

Also before TRP I had the same code as my ex but I think Post-TRP I would not let her just to fuck with her head

Bruchibre · 2018-07-23T03:55:48+00:00

I'm also fairly amoral and in a couple of occasions fuck other girls on the side. Kissed a bunch of girls too while going out. I'm also concerned with my LTR finding out but I'm good at covering my tracks. Worst case, she finds out, we break up.

Most of the guys point here is "how would you feel if she was doing the same" which is irrelevant.

moontripper1246 · 2018-01-28T20:27:21+00:00

I honestly don't care a bout cheating, I just don't think it's an issue. Like, if I'm not doing my job she'll cheat on me. It's not cause she hates me its just that I'm not pulling my weight and her reaction is to find someone who will.

Same with me, if she isn't making me cum like a firehose or she's being too clingy I'll go fuk around. It's not that I hate her, it's that someone else has what I want.

I think this idea that fucking someone else means you've somehow scorned someone you care for is idiotic. Well and truly, I don't give a fuck about sleeping with other people.

That being said, I don't think lying is cool and I don't do that. I have an oLTR and it's been tahtw ay from the start and every girl I've been with knows that's kind of what I'm about. If you're lying to your SO its up to you whether that's cool or not, an honestly I don't think it's wrong. It's just that I won't lie about it. I'll straight up say I'm fucking other women and I'll explain why she will never be enough for me lol And why it's healthy for her to fuck other people too

Edit: Why would I let a girl ever see my phone? So she can see how many girls I actually have naked pics of so she can really freak out? Just cause she knows doesn't mean I have to throw it in her face

Title	Do you cheat in an LTR?
Author	redpilledjoe
Upvotes	1
Comments	27
Date	January 28, 2018 4:53 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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