Does being a "player" require you to be above average or top 20% in looks??

amwfhunter · 2021-01-07T05:49:51+00:00

Non white guy here. Asian. Definitely possible. At the moment I'm balancing between a Mexican, French Canadian, mixed slavic, and Chinese.

I have a black girl that I see occasionally, a Canadian white girl and precovid and post covid was and will be fucking a romanian girl in europe. I have a white girl in socal that i see when im in socal. Also a plate in Hong Kong , a Chinese girl that I've known and fucked on and off for a decade.

But in terms of looks definitely top 10%. K pop star looking mixed with Asian gangster and jacked. But I also have high status and prestigious career. So I think that may also play a role but these girls were on me before they knew what I did for a living and they buy me dinner or gifts.

lonelyshark911 · 2021-01-06T22:43:05+00:00

My thoughts that if you want to be a player (someone who goes to a nightclub to pick up) you have to be a 9 or 10. Your results will be too inconsistent or actually pretty crappy if you are less than this in the looks department. Game just isn't enough in this environment.

LoverRomeox · 2021-01-07T01:25:28+00:00

Women ping off your behavioral cues. If you think you're the shit, act, and speak like you're the shit, you'll be able to hook girls left and right. There's a reason why deadbeats can hook hot women, it's because they know how to activate a girls feels. Being able to stimulate her feelings is chick crack. A deadbeat might not be able to keep a girl around forever, but he can definitely have an abundant sex life and be the guy girls seek outside of their marriages because he knows how to hit her feels, he provides the emotional rollercoaster. This guy has nothing going for him, yet his sense of self is so strong that it draws people in, they get curious. It's a frame battle of whose sense of reality is strongest. The problem with insecure people is that their frame crumples at the first sign of adversity. You literally have to be all in on you. 100%. You have to KNOW, without a doubt, that you are IT. The majority of people will never make it, it takes a lot of pressure to be a diamond. It takes a lot of time, suffering, and awareness to become someone who is unshakable in the face of adversity. It's easier to just fuck off, watch netflix, and hide behind insecurity. Even wanting to be a player can come from a place of insecurity, to derive your sense of self by the amount of women youre sleeping with. Awareness is key. At the end of the day, you cant bullshit yourself, you cant bullshit life.

alternateaccount49 · 2021-01-06T22:51:34+00:00

If you get your smv on top 20% (looks, money, job, hobbies, status, etc), then you’ll be able to have access to 80% of women. Probably be able to have about 4 plates if my math is good

DoubleConversation4 · 2021-01-06T22:54:15+00:00

well, you can be a player with low SMV. but you'll come off as either a pervert, or a weirdo. or a rapist.

Bannedstiny · 2021-01-07T16:54:21+00:00

Can men below a 7 with no status get multiple decently attractive women? If you close your eyes and enter REM cycle, yes. Better question, why do you think you deserve multiple attractive women without any of those characteristics?

Meloxian · 2021-01-07T20:31:06+00:00

Depends on what the situation is, I’m a pretty good chess player but I’m not much of a uno player, ya know?

FinancialThanks1 · 2021-01-06T22:49:01+00:00

There’s no specific looks requirement. If you can get 1 plate you can get multiple

Musicgoon · 2021-01-07T01:26:10+00:00

Yes your social skills and game have to be good and your clothing and grooming help.

Your attitude and game are the most important thing you can do for success.

Ensifror · 2021-01-06T23:15:21+00:00

Nope. Don't know if you've seen some of those old RSD guys, but many if not most of them are definitely not above average physically. Luke and Tyler where down right obese. Madison was also black since you mentioned race.

Looks definitely help though, and since it's not hard to be top 20%, why would you try to succeed without looks?

Remember. Women are not men. For women looks are not the only factor in sexual attraction. For women, looks, perceived social status and charisma all play a role. And if you got 2/3 nailed, you will be able to play the field effectively.

cfbovernfl · 2021-01-07T03:09:41+00:00

No.

Is this even possible for men below 7 or 8 out of 10 in looks? Non white guys?

Yes and yes.

Noodlesoupe2 · 2021-01-07T00:06:47+00:00

No but it requires status and game

Title	Does being a "player" require you to be above average or top 20% in looks??
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Date	January 6, 2021 10:24 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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