This might be a one part post, or this might be a 2 part post. It really depends on what people have to say about this post. I know this post will also be controversial, but from what I see, the red pill has become an echo chamber due to boomers echoing the same ideas. "Just lift bro!" "Learn game bro!". Rollo Tomassi had a good run, but after seeing all these old out of touch red pillers, spouting truisms like "men age like fine wine!", that might have been true in your day, but it's time for a change in the red pill discourse. Because many people don't see this, but for people my age (21), the worst is yet to come. I like saying shit that will stir the pot a little, so fucking bring on the controversy, I'm ready for this post to get downvoted to oblivion. Again, a lot of build up, but the conclusion will be at the bottom
For too long, the point of the red pill has simply been getting money and getting laid
But I don't get why we don't think bigger. As redpillers, we are blessed with knowledge about female nature, hypergamy, human nature, evolutionary pspychology, and finances. But rarely do we think about how this stuff affects society as a whole. Let's look on 10-20 years out and see what I see in the future, based on trends I'm seeing now. But first, we have to cover some topics, to make sure we have certain background knowledge. I'm also not going to format this post and write a proper essay, because quite frankly, I have work to do. But I wanted to get this out there.
"Men are polygamous while women are monogamous bro!" What is the real purpose of monogamy?
The past decades of the sexual market place in western society has proven that the idea that women are naturally monogamous is a load of horse shit. Young women especially love getting their backs blown out by various Chads, and high status men. Most girls in my age group don't even want relationships unless it's with a top tier man. THe men who were blowing their backs out and pumping and dumping them before, are now the men who are committing to them. Women have concealed ovulation, which is meant to genetically cuck inferior men. The only reason women "settle down" when they get older is for resources. They engage in monogamy because men value sexual fidelity, and they know that they have to keep up the illusion to get men to give them their emotional and financial resources. If it wasn't for men, they would be bouncing from cock to cock, fucking whoever gives their vagina the tingles. Nothing wrong with that. I like fucking whoever gives my dick tingles as well. But men just need to accept that women are no more naturally monogamous than men. Women are just pickier. So, knowing this, what was the purpose of monogamy? See, it has often been said that the most valuable resource was female youth, beauty, and fertility. But this is a misconception. It's the most valuable luxury, that historically, most men couldn't afford. The most valuable resources is actually male labor. Without male labor, society falls apart. You have two times as many female ancestors as men. That means for every one male who reproduced, on average, two women did. Throughout history, this ratio has varied from 1:1.3 to 1:17. Monogamy is a recent invention. You see, what happened in the past, is that the top men, the men with the looks money and status, would have harems. Above average men (or in today's terms, "medium ugly dudes"), would have like a single wife. And average and below average men were incels. They didn't even have the option to betabux, like average and below average men have today. These men would either A) Leave the community, and go seek women elsewhere. This would take away male labour, destabilizing society, and ruining local economies. This wasn't even good for the top tier men, because they needed lower tier men to work for them. This or B) go to war and destabilize society. This is largely what we see in modern polygamous societies, like in the middle east. "The Taliban are just incels with guns".
Either way, you are losing male labor, and having disgruntled men destabilize society. So in comes the Catholic church, they come up with this great idea: monogamy! Now, women are forced to pair up with even the lowest tier of men. Now are these men getting cucked? Absolutely! There's a thirty percent chance that there's paternity fraud in the past three generations of your family. BUt they're getting bimonthly good boy sex. Hence, society is being stabilized, and it allows for huge progression. You're keeping male labour in the community, children are being raised by families, having higher IQs, and growing up to do better and better things. Monogamy is the foundation of the west, and what has allowed us to progress so far. But there's one problem:
Male labor is no longer valuable and will become increasingly more worthless: betabuxxing is getting harder
The average women in our generation wants to work. Why? For multiple reasons: They understand the leverage it gives them. If they aren't reliant on beta Bob's paycheck, he no longer has leverage over her in the relationship, because she can provide for herself. In the 50s, she had no other income source, so she had to be more compliant to Beta Billy's demands for sex. Now, if she doesn't want to, she doesn't have to. If she cheats on her betabux, not only does she have her own income, but she gets half of Billy's too. SHe doesn't have to do anything she doesn't want to in marriage. She has leverage. Not only do they have leverage, but they actually enjoy working. They like going to work and gossiping. Plus, the average man works jobs like taxi cab driver, construction worker, oil rig worker, minor, garbage collector, tough shit that most people wouldn't enjoy. Women work cushy HR jobs, where they get to gossip with their friends and do nothing but plan office parties. Men HAVE to work. Women GET to work.
The wage gap is a fucking meme. In our age group, 21-30, women actually make MORE money than men if they don't have kids. 59% of college graduates are women, and in 10 years it will be 70%. The only high paying field men are still dominating in is STEM, and maybe trades, and they're invading STEM too now. So what is this causing?
Women don't wanna marry or date a man with slightly higher or equal income to them. More on this later. So the income needed to compete is now increasing too. And it is projected in the next 20-50 years many of the male dominated fields will be automated out. Self driving cars are coming, so many transportation jobs will go. Construction is projected to be automated out. Jobs in service are too. Average male jobs not only can't compete with the average female salary, but they're fucking going away. Even war will largely be automated in the near future.
We are entering a time where male labour, and hence the male gender, is useless to women and society. Men are currently making themselves obsolete. With women working, they don't really need most men. With automation taking over labor jobs, you don't even need a large population of men to keep society running.
The average man is getting worse looking, and the top tier man is getting better looking
Here is the controversial part. Most of my average friends, 5/10 dudes overall, get sex once every 6 months from below average women. Most of my above average friends get it once every 2-3 months (admittedly, this is where I currently fall. I have a long way to go). The top 20% get it when they want. But who are the top 5%, the absolute slayers? I've met a lot of these dudes due, the Tiktok celebrities. The super good looking pretty boys, in shape, but not necessarily ripped, full package man. But here's what you guys don't know: how much fucking work these men put in their looks. Old boomers will call this feminine and say: "looks don't matter! Just run game bro! Quit your black pill defeatism!". I'll ignore this cope. These dudes are getting hair transplants, roiding, getting jaw fillers, genioplasties, nose jobs, all this stuff. And it is PAYING OFF. Girls DM them just for looking good, they are slaying hotter girls than you guys can ever believes, girls with 100s of thousands of followers on instagram, making millions, all just off looking good. These guys aren't even making money off tiktok, they are doing it all off looks alone. These top 5% of guys are paying more attention to their looks than you can even imagine, getting work done to keep their looks into their old age.
The average man, however, is getting worse looking. Dropping testosterone levels and sperm counts and shrinking our jaws. Bad diets and shit hormonal GMO foods are making our penises follower and we are getting out of shape. Average dudes are becoming soy-pheno ugly, frumpy clowns. The difference between a good-looking and average man is exponentially increasing. And because women see the good looking men on tiktok, their standards are increasing to them. Average men, even those with "game", are having a harder and harder time finding their looksmatch. We used to live in a time, where a 5/10 guy could use game and casually sleep with his looksmatch. That's changing fast. 7/10 is now needed for casual sex with a 5/10. (I'm just saying this as a general rule, obviously other factors can change this). Now, these 5/10 guys are having hard times finding LTRs even. My best friend, 5'8", average height, in shape, 5/10 face, 90k/year salary, has a hard time even finding a girlfriend. A 5/10 man now has to stoop to a 4/10 even for just an LTR, and can only casually sleep with 3s. Looks are becoming increasingly important.
Marriage is falling, not due to redpill copes tho
Right now, I am at the level where I can casually sleep with 5s and 6s if I approach fifty of them. But a guy at my same level in 20 years will not be able to do that. Let me explain:
They did a meta-study where they took the average man, and compared him to the average married man, and the results are shocking. The average married man is 2 inches taller than his unmarried counterpart, and makes 50% more (80-90k) compared to his unmarried counterpart. These are the requirements just to betabuxbux. Being 5'11", make 80k, let's say you have a 6/10-7/10 face, BUT THE REQUIREMENTS ARE NOW BEING a 6.5/10 MALE JUST TO BETABUX. BETABUXXING BEFORE COULD BE DONE AT THE 4/10 LEVEL BEFORE. THIS SHOULD BE ALARMING.
Redpillers cope with "men are realizing marriage is a bad deal! That's why marriage is declining! I'm MGTOW!". The average low IQ Kevin Samuels and Rollo Tomassi fan's mouth waters when he sees this statistic. "See," he says, with his mouth watering and his erection hardening at the illusion that women will someday not have infinite options, "Men are walking away! We're saying no to marriage and single moms! They'll change the divorce laws soon!". He continues to subscribe to Kevin Samuels, masturbating to the thought of some single mom somewhere out there is crying because she can't get a 6-figure man like him, as his IQ drops with every video.
The truth is, most men would die at the chance to betabux for some 6/10 in shape girl, and pay to take care of her children from another relationship. The truth is, women's standards are just raising. There is almost no such thing as MGTOW. There is only MSTOW (men sent their own way).
Another study showed that by 2030 (ten years) 80% of women above thirty would be unmarried.
Anyone who's in touch with the female population will know this: this is by CHOICE. THEIR choice, not men's. Women would rather be single and die alone then settle for an average guy. A recent episode of the roommates podcast demonstrated this well. I don't usually watch stuff like that, but it brought up a good point. Women are perfectly happy to be top tier men's side chicks and chase his commitment forever over settling for an average dude. Right now, women hit 31 or 32 and snap out of this. But that age will increase to FORTY soon.
Where does all this lead us to? The sexual market singularity
Women only fuck for two reasons: genes and resources.
Knowing this, the sexual market is going global. The best looking, and most high status men in the world are sleeping with your local 7/10 due to social media. Women are now getting tastes of hyper Chads (and when I use Chad, I'm strictly talking about looks money status), and once they get this, they're not going back. Even seeing them on social media, they compare them to their average friends. With male labour no longer being valuable, and the sedation of men through pornhub, and probably VR porn in the future, society has no reason to compensate average men with women for their labor. All they will do is use chemical warfare and porn to make you too week to fight back.
Women's standards will cause us to reach a sexual market place singularity. A point of no return. One where the average man will be fucked. Beyond belief. Women's standards will have risen so high, that most man can't compete on a meaningful level.
The average women doesn't need men anymore. She can provide for herself, so she doesn't need to fuck for resources. And because of social media, and tiktokkers getting plastic surgery, the standards for good genes are increasing rapidly. They don't care about getting married, so they'll just sleep with Chad even through their thirties.
The sexual market singularity will be the point when WOMEN START ADVOCATING FOR POLYGAMY OR POLYAMORY. Because they would rather fuck Chad, than settle down with a betabux average looking, average income dude, they will eventually advocate for Chad to just marry two or three of them. We are seeing this right now, as polygamous relationships are beginning to form in society. Or, they will all be "polyamorous", meaning they will be married to some 6.5/10, while still sleeping with the top tier men. Regardless, when women start advocating for polygamy and polyamory to be socially acceptable (WHICH WILL HAPPEN), you will need to be a 6.5/10 MINIMUM TO COMPETE. This future is not that far away. With most women being unmarried by 2030, you will start to see this in the next 10 years. By 2040 polygamy or polyamory will be completely normal. I firmly believe Gen Z will be the last generation that can even betabux for a point within their SMV match.
THE FUTURE DISTRIBUTION OF THE SMP
The way the SMP is distributed right now is that every man eventually settles for 1-1.5 points below his SMV match, (so looks and age for women, looks money status charisma for men), except men who are 8/10, who get can get with even 10/10 women because 8s, 9s, and 10s all sleep around too much. The incels are 2s and 3s, but even 4s can LTR someone.
In the future tho, 8s, 9s, and 10s will have harems of attractive women. 6.5s and 7s will be able to get 1 or 2 4s and 5s each. 6s will get fat and ugly chicks, maybe one each. And 5s and below will get NOTHING. 50% of the male population will be incel. Again, we are already seeing this, something like 20% of men between 18-29 are virgins. I fully believe this will increase to up to 50% in the next 20 years. 5 and below's only option will be to settle down for a single mom in her forties, when she finally values companionship, and not being Chad's cumbucket. The "nice guy" mating strategy will be an utter failure.
Obviously this is not sustainable for society, but that's for another post.
What this means for gen Z and younger: Slaying and learning game is a waste of time
Right now, college age kids and below can run game and fuck girls who are 7s and 8s, because SMV is looks money status and charisma, so guys can compensate for a lot with charisma. A 6/10 can pull a 8/10 with charisma. However, in just 10 short years, this will not be a sustainable strategy. Women's standards will rise, and they'll care about male companionship less and less. Betabuxxing will be obsolete, unless you make DOUBLE what the girl makes. Sure we can all self improve for a few months and sleep with 6s, 7s, maybe even 8s. But we have to prepare for the future, where this is no longer a reality. If you settle for that 7 you've been fucking, once she divorces you in the future, when the SMP is more brutal than ever, you will have NO OPTIONS and be left an incel in 2033.
You as a young man don't have time to slaying.
You have to prepare for the sexual market place singularity that will happen in the future. Because you want to have options 10 years from now. I guarantee you that over this decade you will start to notice the difference.
You have to prepare for the dark future that awaits most men. But because you know this, you are already ahead of the curb, and ahead of 90% of men.
You have to work to make 150k/year MINIMUM, to satisfy most women's income requirements in the future.
You need to be able to afford the fancy skin treatments, hair transplants, potentially even plastic surgery, that tik tok Chads are getting. You need to maximize you looks as much as possible. Never has it ever been more important to be an 8/10 in looks than now. (Red pill boomers will say, "Nooooo that's beta" Shut up bro, we're entering a new age, where men have to worry about being just as pretty as women.)
You need to focus on your health and fitness. Having a good body will be mandatory, and you need to stay healthy and alert to compete in the future hyper-competitive SMP
You need to have the financial option to leave the west if necessary. Because as I may or may not discuss in part 2, the west will begin to collapse by 2055.
Sure you as a Gen Z man can "lEaRn gAmE", and spend hours cold approaching. But that's a waste of time, will only get you pussy in the moment, and in the future, this will be a failing strategy. You need to improve looks money and status to their absolute fucking peak. Then, you have the spare time and spare money to do whatever you want, and can learn charisma then. But you have to become the peak version of yourself to compete in the near future, especially if you're ambitious and want attractive women. You don't have time to "lEaRn gAmE" and spend 200 hours to sleep with 2 or 3 6s. You have to improve the tangibles.
This SMP singularity will have a dark impact on the future
But I will save that for Part 2 (if I ever make it). But let me know your thoughts. With the Sexual market place singularity coming soon, young men have a lot to worry about. You have a lot of work to do if you want to be well positioned when this happens.
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Ur proud of being 6'2 and 150k earner? Basket ball players all mog you to infinity. In the year 2042 you will be cucked by the entire NBA roster.
You will have to pay a sex tax to the government where you allow your girlfriends and plates to be creamed by NBA players.
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Machines,machines,machines. There's enough slaves bitch betas who're going to invent anything to make their overlords happy.
Overlord is in the kitchen cleaning? Make a dishwasher Overlord making food? Make a microwave, oven and stove Overlord cleaning house? Make a mop, vacuum cleaner and glass cleaner.
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This comment is a gold mine, any mother fucker who reads this and doesn't scream loudly "IM GOING TO HIT THE GYM TIL I BREAK AND READ BOOKS TIL I GO BLIND" is a beta.
I've found the RP 3 months ago and now I KNOW I have a ticking time bomb waiting to explode unless I become powerful.
Any retard reading this and thinking he's got good time and things will turn out alright needs a lobotomy.
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