i commonly hear that dating/getting laid gets easier for men once they hit their 30s..

i understand the benefits of being that age, namely looks peaking, more life experience, but still relatively young, better financial situation (for some), and so forth

but it still doesnt make sense to me how it gets easier. when youre in your 20s: you can be broke and nobody cares, you are naturally around girls your age, there is no social shaming of pursuing young girls, and you can get away with more (no expectations of fatherhood, people expect you to party etc)

so does it get easier with 30+ year old chicks, or with girls across the spectrum? and how exactly? or is this just some feel good bullshit