Does leaving her on read seem butthurt?

Cryativity · 2020-11-06T10:02:32+00:00

Best to give no answer than a shitty answer

MotorsportEnthusiast · 2020-11-06T09:34:13+00:00

No. Flaking is disrespect. Leave that bitch on read.

IXseed · 2020-11-06T13:39:27+00:00

Some girl flaked on you and you're worried if she sees your butthurt? Why?

sanholo14 · 2020-11-06T10:53:09+00:00

No.Dont reach out,let her initiate after flaking

Rev_Irreverent · 2020-11-06T12:19:34+00:00

Stop caring about what you seem to others. Instead, internalize the idea that you must be true to your own feelings.

WeDontLetHateWin · 2020-11-06T12:32:04+00:00

Just did this. Nah, let her reach out. If she doesn’t, then don’t even waste your time.

Jdamoftruth · 2020-11-06T14:47:16+00:00

Does leaving her on read seem butthurt?

I would ask myself what would Chad thundercock do?

Would Chad thundercock care about what a girl thinks who flaked on him?

Of course not. He'd be too busy balls deep in another chick, working out, gaming, sleeping, or doing whatever his purpose is in life to care.

pyth0ns · 2020-11-06T14:07:51+00:00

You care for this. Why?

What made you feel like this required a post?

johncillo · 2020-11-06T14:20:56+00:00

Ok, so I was like you in the past and I think I have sorted this out. The essence is to be true to yourself and feelings that means being authentic regardless of what people think of you, also what you think it’s reciprocal in every relationship. There are a lot of ways to command respect, one of them is to tell people to not cross boundaries or just simple silence, ignoring. Silence and absence are great ways to command respect, is not that you’re butthurt, because you’re a busy man and you can replace her hours with productive hours, is just that you deserve better treatment and you won’t give any until the relationship is reciprocal. Flaking is plain disrespect so act accordingly.

jjj2576 · 2020-11-06T14:39:02+00:00

Depends on your Frame. If you are actually butthurt, then it will show.

Strong Frame probably doesn’t care.

Weak Frame is asking this question.

HurricaneHugues · 2020-11-06T16:30:08+00:00

Do you think she asked anyone how it wouod make her look when she flaked on you?

iceporter · 2020-11-06T15:28:37+00:00

what is flakes ?

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le_wolfe · 2020-11-06T16:36:06+00:00

Sweating it too much seems butthurt enough if you ask me.

dagadsai · 2020-11-06T17:02:08+00:00

Don't give a fuck dude

daproest1 · 2020-11-06T19:44:50+00:00

No. No answer is a good answer. The hamster is your best friend

chazthundergut · 2020-11-06T20:42:46+00:00

No but worrying about how something may seem to her seems needy

madfrombrad · 2020-11-07T00:22:54+00:00

That’s the only good response to that

SpinPlates · 2020-11-07T01:11:37+00:00

Fuck no leave that bitch on read and immediately go make other plans.

BurnMuscleBuildFat · 2020-11-07T03:00:23+00:00

No response is a response

2020-11-06T16:56:00+00:00

The answer is yes. If you aren't responding to her, she knows she hurt you big time. If you don't want to see her anymore, it doesn't matter what she thinks anymore.

I personally try to be polite and will give her a diplomatic answer saying that its ok that she couldn't make it. But I wouldn't try to continue the conversation. If she tried to continue the conversation, I would say that I'm busy for a little while, and I'll get back to her, but never do.

But I know that ghosting is pretty common today, so that can work too.

Title	Does leaving her on read seem butthurt?
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Date	November 6, 2020 9:24 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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