Before anything I’ve taken time to reread the old post and do my own thinking here, I like to make these posts in order to learn for the future I’m well aware that I can walk away as can she. The main question is towards the bottom if you don’t want to read all.

To the point...girl I’ve seen for along time now has given me “the LTR talk” and told me she loved me about 2 and a half times now I’ve gotten through it every single one of them and have been vetting her and doing my own thing still. Even after all of those times she told me I don’t have to say anything to her she just wanted me to know how she felt.

she texted me she had a question to ask when she sees me next I said okay. She never asked I didn’t worry about it and we had a great time together. Went to a dance place, then went driving around to a lake and I sang to her and played around in the park then went back home and had sex all night, woke up and she made me breakfast and I left.

B4 I left she was looking through her phone and I saw she had a “3rd party text app” I was like oh fuck this “in my head” it’s like she read my mind and said oh I got this because I had to text something to my ex that had blocked my number and deleted it instantly..I ignored it entirely. And carried on with the day and left I really didn’t think much of that. But haven’t texted her back in 9 hours “I’m busy” and that’s kind of punish worthy IMO. what are your thoughts?

But after I left she texted me a few hours later..

I think last night was the best night I’ve ever had with you..”we did have a great time”..and the question I was going to ask was when you look at me as a person do you see s future with me?

Is this a comfort test or beta bait..i haven’t really broken frame with her and she’s been doing me anything I ask, affectionate. She asked me to go to Colorado with her the other day and I told her we can a weekend I’m not busy and planned it out. With all this said makes me think it’s a test to see if she can keep me around and play with other options “she has orbiters like they all do on her phone”, or it could really mean she’s asking because maybe she’s starting to think she’s wasting her time....Which is the one I’m leaning on.

What do you guys think? I’m going to text and just say I’d rather talk in person. And then decide where to go from there. But I want to convey to her that I’m attracted to girls that want only me and if there’s anyone else around then I have to go. How do i say that here?