Does this make me a blue-pill bitch?

Whisper · 2015-11-24T20:45:24+00:00

It means you want a relationship with a good woman, rather than a string of psychologically damaged sluts.

Pumping and dumping sluts is second prize. It's better than being an incel, but it's not as good an LTR with an LTR-worthy woman.

You should pump and dump sluts when an LTR-worthy woman is not available. This may be often, as you have no control over how LTR-worthy women around you are.

Axoc · 2015-11-24T16:45:03+00:00

No. To be honest it's easier to keep around undamaged women for multiple meetups if you cuddle rather than P&D. Regardless of whether or not you're actually keeping them around just for sex, they don't necessarily want to feel that way.

Chicks with damage and problems are different of course.

third-eye-brown · 2015-11-24T19:29:17+00:00

You are inventing a dichotomy where non exists. This is a logical fallacy called "false dichotomy".

I love to fuck my lady hard, make her cum a few times till she is exhausted and mumbling jibberish, then when we're done she snuggles up to me in just the absolute best way possible.

I think if you tell a woman you would rather cuddle than fuck her, you are starting to get in trouble. Remember, you can feel cuddly on the inside but do her and yourself a favor and make sure you're a big bad manly man in your actions. Women want to cuddle with a big, strong man who knows what he wants, and what she wants. Give her what she wants and she will be happier.

OmLaLa · 2015-11-24T18:46:00+00:00

Eh, so long as you understand that the likelihood of sex with that particular individual will be severely hindered in the long run, go for it.

Do what makes you happy. Just understand the consequences said actions have on the future.

rddtgold · 2015-11-24T19:23:35+00:00

Not at all, i cuddle the shit out of my main girl whenever she comes over. Just make sure you fuck/get blowjob and are always grabbing her ass/tits so she knows what's up. If you cuddle and only have sex like once a month then you're a straight up sucker.

Also, do not show clingyness. I'm crazy about this girl but always stick to the 2/3 text rule and remain "aloof". It helps that I'm genuinely busy during the week. As a result she's the one almost always asking if she can come stay the night, once she's over that's when I discuss plans for the next day or whatever. never resort to "hey are you free this weekend", just no contact her until she texts or text her something like "Netflix and cuddles"

shiggityshoo · 2015-11-24T17:27:36+00:00

Nah dude. Wanting companionship and to have some company isn't wrong at all. You'd be a bitch if you threw everything you had at a girl, just to cuddle her. Deeper relationships can be a good thing, and if you want them, strive for them. Just keep your self respect and the mentality that you're the boss.

silver_nuke13 · 2015-11-26T11:18:04+00:00

Hugs are built into us, they release all kinds of good hormones and are ok, even if publicly, your friends could call you a fag. So no, don't fight biology to the end here. But don't let the hug-lust make you too pushy or idk.

Rorta · 2015-11-24T20:11:40+00:00

No. But one thing that makes you a BP bitch is going to /r/asktrp and asking for the validation of others.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2015-11-24T21:54:06+00:00

You'll make someone a great wife someday.

Out of curiosity, why is this hypothetical phrased as a binary choice?

redthrowawaypill · 2015-11-24T19:23:26+00:00

Let me ask you this: would you cuddle with a chick who has no vagina (can't have sex with her)?

Title	Does this make me a blue-pill bitch?
Author	twinhed
Upvotes	6
Comments	16
Date	November 24, 2015 4:05 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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