DREAD GAME: How to react?

FinancialThanks1 · 2020-03-09T18:53:17+00:00

Don’t react

i-am-the-prize · 2020-03-09T20:02:43+00:00

A woman shouldn't dread a guy*** like we have to dread a woman. Hear me out, this isn't a sexist double standard:

women have automatic abundance, yes, the 2 studies with 70:0 and 68:0 female:male immediate hookups in the sidebar, and life observance: a non cave troll woman can get laid without effort by simply going out and (worst case possibly lowering her standards), any night of the week. done. (whereas for a man of equivalent SMV, it's not automatic)
guys don't usually try to change their women, yet women (try to) change their men after commitment. listen to this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6KzCfIYArmQ

so.... men need to keep some Dread in an LTR to counter these 2 points. why? using corresponding numbers:

to show her you have abundance (too) which is NOT automatic for guys; this is important because it means you're high value and not a chump/AFC. Women use Social Proof to subconsciously rank you as well. She wants to be with a man other men want to be and other women want to fuck. When you're so beta/lame/nasty/fat/lazy/needy/jealous/unmotivated/un-masculine that she's the only woman who'd fuck you, it's doubly a turn off, and then she rules you with her vag.
it shows that she can be with you (companionship), but she will NOT rule you or take your balls (or fishing boat/pole). The key line from the video: "...because if I lose my ability to catch fish, then you're not gonna find me sexy no more... you gotta smell fish on me ... so that you know I can catch fish ... so you can act right ... "

***A woman dreading a guy doesn't understand the differences between the genders (like when they talk about ex's-BF to you and expect that you'll think she's hotter; No she'll think you're hotter if you're a stud, you won't think more of her, it's Solipsism at play). anyways a woman actively dreading her man/bf/ltr is a nuclear shittest and boundary cross. Treat appropriately.

PS don't educate her on the differences in abundance between the genders or why the dread thing isn't the same both ways, STFU and move on if your Actions don't work. Do not try to logic-her.

DullIntroduction · 2020-03-09T19:08:40+00:00

It's called a shit test. Don't react, or soft next.

PRW63 · 2020-03-09T19:41:37+00:00

I don't think you know what Dread is then.

It is similar to Competition Anxiety. It means she is afraid you are going to dump her or leave her for another option for some reason, and you are the one with the most power,...so what would be the logic in "nexting" her at that point????? What do you gain from "nexting" when you aren't in any kind of current "loss" at the moment??,...Nexting results in you had her, ...and now you don't,...so what do you gain? That doesn't make logical sense. If she was "costing" you something, or causing some kind of "loss" than that might be different.

You don't "make a dread". Dread is the emotions she is feeling for whatever reason she is feeling them. She's a chick, not a trained puppy.

Iluvalmonds83 · 2020-03-09T23:18:35+00:00

1-What exactly is the girl doing?

2-is she in your frame?

3-during this time having met her, have you been maintaining abundance(both with general life and with potential sidepieces )?

If 2 and/or 3 are a “NO”, I’d advise to for now, don’t feed her attention for her antics and let it roll off your back, and act like normal. Don’t even worry about revenge tactics or trying to “teach her a lesson” because it will fail. Then correct #2 and #3 immediately. Once you fix those, you might even see that corrective actions are no longer necessary because she will more likely step in line.

odysseysred · 2020-03-09T19:31:11+00:00

The ability to do anything but removal of attention or to treat it as a shit test is high level and if it's necessary for a plate or girlfriend you are better off focusing attention elsewhere. David deida (sp?) Way of the superior man has some deeper interplay for ltrs or marriages.

AloofusMaximus · 2020-03-09T19:50:49+00:00

Welcome to women, I see you're new here. See the thing is a woman always has several options (if she doesn't, there's probably a reason for it). You should always assume this (as it's often the case).

Where you fall on that list determines how things go with her.

Mr-Blonde123 · 2020-03-09T20:46:47+00:00

Make yourself busy , don’t react verbally. Let your actions do the talking

Domebeers · 2020-03-09T23:19:43+00:00

Girls dread game all the time, the removal of pussy is dread game lol.

You should learn game my man. The sidebar is full of good stuff about not being a total pussy.

PM_ME_CHILL_MUSIC · 2020-03-09T18:58:45+00:00

I like to covertly tell the girl I know what she's doing by doubling my respond times compared to hers. If she spends 1 day answering your text, you spend 2 days, if she spends 4 years, you spend 8 years and so on

frognads · 2020-03-10T09:24:13+00:00

Siiiiidddeeee baaaaarrrrrr

MotorsportEnthusiast · 2020-03-09T18:40:09+00:00

Pressure flip. You dread them.

misfithustle · 2020-03-09T19:38:11+00:00

What is dread game?

Title	DREAD GAME: How to react?
Author	scorpionkg
Upvotes	3
Comments	25
Date	March 9, 2020 6:35 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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