Pretty new to RP. I've (mid-thirties) been seeing a girl (late-twenties) for almost six months. We've had a pretty fun and light courtship with an over-arching narrative of not getting attached or having feelings. I've developed a bit of oneitus but keep it in check and haven't spilled my spaghetti. While it seems clear that we're working towards LTR status, neither of us have broached anything smacking of "feelings."

Unfortunately, she's very smart (psychiatrist). She dreads me better than I can her. She matches my stone cold stoicism beat for beat. She has less outcome dependence than me. No jealousy. Very little emotional displays. Amazing sex. It's exhausting.

My lifting is in check. Hobbies and purpose are in check. Frame is in check, though it seems like she exists beside it much more than in it.

Fuck. I really like this girl. Has anyone ever experienced a girl that out-dreads them? What is the way out? Is the only option GFTOW?