I’m 25M and I’ve recently hooked up with a girl I met through a mutual friends group chat. This situation has taken some turns and I would like some sobering red pill input on how I should handle this. I want to efficiently communicate the situation without it being a drag so here we go.
She is 28F (🚩). She invited me exclusively from the chat to go to a drive in rave where we would meet for the first time. There was attraction already created with through my text game in the group chat so I was aware that I would most likely be hooking up with her. We met for the first time, I worked my game on her and held frame, partied all night, and hooked up (heavy making out and touching only) before leaving since we both worked the next day.
At this point, I was pretty interested in seeing her again because she’s a BADDIE. Huge tits, perfect ass, long hair, and an awesome personality(recipe for disaster). So, at this point I work my text game with her which was basically communicating that I’d like to see her again at some point and then from there only a few texts a week so she knows I’m not some texting buddy and my time is valuable. My plan was happening accordingly, she communicated that she had a hard time wondering if I liked her since she would hardly hear from me.
I was busy for a few weeks and although she’s a college graduate with a career as a psychologist, she’s the type of girl who can’t sit still and always partying every weekend (🚩) so she told me she was flying to Texas to party with friends one weekend, then another weekend somewhere else. So I said “looks like you’re going to be pretty busy so you let me know whenever you have some time to meet again” and I limited the communication from there.
A few weeks go by and she reaches out to me about meeting a second time, this time in Vegas for a rave. I agreed and she booked a hotel room. I was very skeptical about the fact that I’m meeting a girl I’ve only met once for the second time and we are spending a weekend in Vegas together. My inner simp started to surface as I got excited to spend a weekend with just her and I but I always make sure to slap myself silly with tons of RP content. Anyways, weekend comes, we meet and make the drive to Vegas.
The whole weekend was a blast. We end up fucking multiple times a day in the room, explore all of Vegas together, and basically were playing the bf/gf role for the weekend. I literally don’t even know this girl. I learned with women that I don’t ask questions I don’t want to know the answers to but since we spent so much time together, the questions of our intentions started to come up. The main topic that stuck out the most to me is when she said that she planned to be married with children by 25 and upset that it has not happened yet. It’s clear she’s subconsciously realizing the wall is approaching.
I got kinda simpy and basically at this point, I really like her, I feel those one-itis symptoms. I started picturing “this is the one, she’s perfect me me” (what a fucking jackass). There was much more that went on in our conversations that caused me to feel this way but I want advice about going about this? She’s 28 with her own career and looking to settle down, I’m 25 and a focused MGTOW bodybuilder with zero plans of marriage or children. I love my bachelor lifestyle and endless freedom but I’m stuck in that mode of making any justification possible to work something out with her all because she’s HOT with a great personality.
It’s crazy how complicated things get when you involve yourself emotionally with women and the games they play. It’s just that unfortunately I was one weekend in Vegas away from the plantation. Any advice on handling this situation so that I can stop being a little bitch and don’t get myself hurt and endure the red pill rage 2.0?
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