Escalating but she was talking about exams.

BusterVadge · 2016-07-14T12:21:20+00:00

Uhhh... she's weird? Or too nervous? Or just awkward? Girls like that exist. Just find one that's not awkward.

MyTrapsCauterize · 2016-07-14T16:53:23+00:00

It sounds to me like she's used to using her attractiveness to get what she wants. In this case, she wanted attention and someone to listen to her problems, and she was perfectly okay with using her body to get it. People calling her a good girl? Please. This is a typical case of AWALT.

Scurvemuch · 2016-07-14T19:24:41+00:00

she was nervous...

make her not nervous.

give her a story she can tell herself to make everything you two do OK and enjoyable.

cheers

Niko_Choski · 2016-07-14T13:32:47+00:00

The top comment about narcissism is half right.

Snap her attention back to you. You are not there to listen to her problems. You are there to make a connection. If she is too busy and distracted she can come back another night. You are not that thirsty.

That is the mindset.

DoofusCPA · 2016-07-14T15:25:26+00:00

She's fucking her professor.

Nergaal · 2016-07-14T19:12:56+00:00

Take it as her Anti-Slut Defense mechanism kicking in.

No chick wants to be seen as a slut, but if she takes her mind off she doesn't have to think about the consequences (i.e. your hand on her ass will soon mean her spreading her legs to you soon) and therefore she won't end up wondering if she is a slut for allowing you to proceed further. Be smooth and ignore the diversion just be careful so she doesn't get second day remorse.

deci-mator · 2016-07-14T22:34:28+00:00

She was nervous. Probably scared of what you might think of her. She was overwhelmed with excitement. In a situation like this, you need her to relax and get comfortable or you will have to fight to get your dick inside her. What you should do is prolong foreplay and take charge. Ontop of that you need to get her to relax. (also be prepared to leave at moments notice, she must know that if she doesnt keep up, your going to ditch real quick. Like good cologne this should be discovered not announced. That makes it easier for her to hamsterbate, and for her panties to fill up with good vaginal juices, she will then keep up)

dr_warlock · 2016-07-15T00:19:23+00:00

If a woman allows you to publicly grope her ass, it's time to take her to a location for sex.

full_package · 2016-07-15T15:47:59+00:00

Put your index finger to her lips. Literally say "shut up". Then grab her chin and go in for a makeout session.

sassypaella · 2016-07-14T11:25:58+00:00

Maybe your hands are not so good.

inspiron3000 · 2016-07-14T15:02:45+00:00

How about don't put your dick in crazy?

ex_addict_bro · 2016-07-14T10:59:25+00:00

Poor poor narcissistic baby. I can feel your ego over the damn internet. Mommy didn't validate you. Up vote because you make a great example for others.

stonepimpletilists · 2016-07-14T19:13:54+00:00

Maybe you have no skill laying pipe. Try putting a dick in her next time, see if she flinches

Metalgear222 · 2016-07-14T21:34:41+00:00

Act bored and dread her a little bit, you'll make progress when she's finally like, "why you being so distant?"

Then you can just be honest, "you're talking about all of this stuff, just be here in the moment with me. Take this in.."

Title	Escalating but she was talking about exams.
Author	wartorle
Upvotes	3
Comments	37
Date	July 14, 2016 10:32 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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