I read the side bar, read rationalmale.

Long story I had a relationship for 8 months, first ltr. Girl was like 9/10 but I was taking ssri's before we started dating. As soon as I stopped I got Mysterious illness called pssd (post ssri's sexual dysfunction). I guess you can understand what the syndrome is about. No sex, she lost attraction, me developing oneitis and neediness (really fucked up time in my life, needed her support). No abundance mentality without a dick.

She sent me a message now, hi, I don't know if you want to talk with me or not, you decide it. Just wanted to catch up asking how are you.

Now, I'm conflicted. I can't make her a plate (can't fuck 😔) but also don't want to reassure her I'm fucked for life. I'm thinking of just being honest and stepping out of the game as Its has no use currently. Advices will be welcomed.