Gentlemen, I could use some advice. Some background: I swallowed the pill a couple of years ago and can see the female perspective played out everywhere. I’m aware of the games and the roles women play. I’ve always had alpha traits from an early age but was raised by a beta dad and played that role during the entirety of my marriage. Only when I eventually left and took on my own life did my ex-wife want to fuck me and do all the shit she wouldn’t do during our marriage. But that’s another story.

Why I’m here: I have a GF who I enjoy being around. I wanted a LTR and that’s the framework our relationship is based upon. She’s not perfect but for the moment I’m having fun. Here’s the problem. She’s imagined a life where we have children even though I’ve told her I’ve had a vasectomy. She’s 32 (past the wall) and has never had children. She keeps up with her looks, works out, eats well, etc. She’s the hottest women I’ve ever slept with and other women have taken notice (one even told me she was attracted to me because of my girlfriend – dat hypergamy). So long story short, I’ve been going along with her idea of a family and settling down knowing full well that I have ZERO intention of doing that. I let her paint me as the provider and her BB as it’s easy for me to use old beta traits to get what I want (to an extent, too much beta and the wetness is gone). Here’s the problem, I have a feeling that a huge shit-storm is going to go down once my true intentions are revealed and she becomes aware that I have no interest in having children, starting a family, or settling down. Any advice on how to avoid said shit-storm? In other words, I’m pretty sure I broke the cardinal rule of never stick your dick in crazy.

PS - She rode the CC like a champ and has a triple-digit trophy that she openly admits to, but she only had sex with like 30 – jus sayin ;)

Update: I'm going to come clean and let her know I don't want children. Better now than later. Thanks for the advice.