Friendzone advice

iiKarambit · 2017-09-10T01:54:08+00:00

I have some experience with something like this while I found the pill. I was trying to get with the same girl for about a 3 months. I blatantly asked her out and she said that she wasn't looking for anything "right now." At first I thought this meant that when she was ready she would come to me. After discovering the pill I realized that this was false hood. and although I made one last attempt to get with her it eventually failed. One day I told myself I wont be a beta bitch who feeds another girls ego, so I told her that either we date or that we aren't friends. She began begging me to keep staying friends with her and I told her no. I blocked her number all social media etc.. This was a big deal in my cancer "social" group because we were both in it.

The moral of the story is, don't feed her ego. I believe that you are only looking for a way to fuck with her because one, you believe that she may come around to want to be with you or two, you need the self assurance that you got the last word on her. Be a man, tell her what you want, if she doesn't want the same thing. Leave it's simple in nature and but hard in practice. And If she goes and tells you that she wants to stay friends say "no." And if she asks why tell her because you get what you want. And if she doesn't leave you alone block her.

quicklogaccount · 2017-09-10T02:29:55+00:00

Soft next man.
Don't entertain her anymore, be courteous and engage her only when you feel she'll offer you something valuable, but be reciprocal though (and remember exchanging validation is a part of being friends to women).

Guys that try to leave the friendzone try wrong, they try to prove themselves to the chick when the chick has already settled in her mind that she's more valuable because they're attracted and she's not. Proving themselves just worsens this.
On the other hand guys that forget about the chick, don't make a fuss and pick up other girls often end up having their SMV reassessed and getting the chick attracted.
If you don't make a fuss and pick up a chick hotter than her (or a hack, not hotter but strong in traits she's insecure about), you can pretty much rest assured she'll be attracted enough at least to invite you to game her.

Triadis3 · 2017-09-10T04:45:49+00:00

Just get out of orbit.

CapNGrind · 2017-09-10T20:16:45+00:00

what are ways of dealing with this? Like just douche things I can say to get a rise out of her when she tries to talk to me, stuff that says I'm done with this shit suck my cock.

Don't do anything of the sort. You are not in the friend zone because of her. You are in the friend zone because of you. Do not lash out at her because of your own shortcomings. That's weak as fuck.

Just stop talking to her.

RunawayGrain · 2017-09-10T12:14:01+00:00

Obviously I'm done talking to her, but for the sake of entertainment in my free time what are ways of dealing with this?

Ghost her, zero contact, then pull objectively hotter girls. The best revenge is living well.

Mr-Ed209 · 2017-09-11T14:28:31+00:00

Hang on, need more info on this. She's sending you nudes and that's a bad thing?

Title	Friendzone advice
Author	Throwaway77195
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	September 10, 2017 1:39 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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