Game or career?

bacheloritis · 2017-04-10T19:28:17+00:00

Focus on career. Develop game along the way. Career is harder to build up than game is. Requires a lot of integrity, relationship building, networking, and overall solid character. Game can be a by-product of the person you become. But Career cannot be developed by becoming a super player. Unless you become a pimp.

mrHappyPotatoe · 2017-04-10T20:41:19+00:00

Solid career and being hungry for something else than pussy gives confidence. Aka purpose. Girls see or feel that somehow and they dig it in a guy.

Always when i set my mind to do something girls start to approach me themselves. I am not doing the day game or cold approch. I don't like it. Yes my girls count is low but its cool when they do the approching and try to game me.

Tho it only works when you are geniuenly working on yourself.

No_senses · 2017-04-10T21:30:06+00:00

Women should always play second fiddle to your own mission in life. That was one of the major lessons I learned when I stopped being blue pill 7 years ago and I stand behind that philosophy.

YouDislikeMyOpinion · 2017-04-10T19:28:35+00:00

I don't see how you can be the shit a year ago and be nothing now. It's the same skills, did you magically lose the ability to flirt with girls and pull? These skills grow and compound in usefulness, just like career skills. I don't see any reason why someone can't better themselves in both.

RedSkeller · 2017-04-10T20:54:15+00:00

Focus on your source of income. I still think you can do both, even though you don't want to hear it, with good time management.

ZenAsRice · 2017-04-10T21:38:09+00:00

You can do both...

And yes, I read your little excuse.

TheRedStoic · 2017-04-10T22:57:43+00:00

Nail down your primary goal. Your mission as a man.

The moment you do that everything else becomes much easier, simply because with a measurement stick of your goal you become very happy to say no to a bad deal.

You move deals from "I want" into "I need".

Think about it, you already have micro goals or passions. Ever turned down something fun because long term it was in the way? That's having a mission, it extends to everything in your life. Focus on that.

Additionally, it'll create more satisfaction in your life, and increase your scarcity, which can be leveraged very well socially.

Kalidane · 2017-04-11T00:18:58+00:00

Sounds like you want a PUA sub.

Read the sidebar material and decide if you want a better life or just more pussy.

Title	Game or career?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	April 10, 2017 7:23 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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