Genuine question for TRP: Does TRP instruct men that making a lot of money in CS is attractive to women in ANY way but as Beta Bux?

Rasalom72 · 2016-03-29T15:39:20+00:00

Women don't care what you do. They only care about the image you project. You really shouldn't be telling them exactly what you do anyways, as that removes some of the mystery about you.

You "get by" and "enjoy your career", etc.. Don't tell them what you do, and in fact, you can (and should) lie through your teeth about it. "I can't really talk about it due to legal reasons." What's more mysterious then that?

Fuck, you can pretend to be a spy or work for a covert government agency... whatever. She doesn't need to know WHAT you do.. just that you are successful or APPEAR to be so.

Maldek007 · 2016-03-29T16:09:12+00:00

In general women dig badass motherfuckers. The hotter the women, the more badass motherfucker you wanna be.

If you spend your day sitting in front of a PC screen, this will not make her wet. It is an omegas (in best case lower beta) way to spend your time. Swallow this truth. It MIGHT tick the "boring provider" box for women over 33 who are done with alphas (or should i say, alphas no longer want them due to age) and are now looking for a stable guy to pay the bills.

The alpha way to spend your time would be something like car racing, bank robbing (no joke), MMA fighter, football player and the like. These jobs tick the "sexy motherfucker" box. Women will get wet and want your babies. Ever wonder why prison inmates get so many hot fans? Now you know...welcome to the red pill.

ChadsBrother · 2016-03-29T16:04:57+00:00

I agree that you shouldn't tell women what you do for a living and have been trying to remember this myself. A CS degree as a generalization is not alpha due to the fact that you will not be interacting with females, or people in general that much and you will also be sitting at a desk for 8+ hours a day. That doesn't mean however that you can't make it an alpha career, especially if you are passionate about it. First way: Use the large amounts of money you make from CS to afford an alpha life style. Go on climbing expeditions in Patagonia or skiing in the Alps. Second way: Differentiate yourself from other CS majors by being the most alpha of the bunch. You have the opportunity to be a big fish in a little pond when it comes to social skills in CS if you work hard every day to improve them. Become a leader of men. Third way: Use the CS degree as a strong back up plan and "pivot" into a more alpha career. This one is hard to give an example of because it is very dependent on you personally.

weiry6922 · 2016-03-29T15:52:23+00:00

In my opinion it doesn't teach anything based on your career choice. The best software dev could be the most alpha motherfucker ever born. It just depends on the person.

It might recommend more manly activities and CS probably generally isn't seen as manly but it definitely isn't saying if you go into CS you're just going to be a BB your whole life

alpha_n3rd · 2016-03-29T18:40:36+00:00

CS is a good career from a financial point of view. Being financially well off is a good thing.

Just because the stereotypical CS grad is an otaku doesn't mean they are ALL otaku. It's neither alpha nor beta. Obviously if you are an alpha you will probably do better in life regardless of your career. Alpha CS grads have management written all over them. I've seen it happen. The alphas in college went on to be alphas in their careers and are now all either managers or top-end engineers. Even some of the alpha-ish otaku did alright.

from_the_ashes_me · 2016-03-29T18:51:10+00:00

It's a two sided coin. My career doesn't define me, and I leave the office behind when work is done. FWIW, I'm a cyber security engineer. No flash or glamour there, but it's a good gig.

When you're out widening your social circle, women see how you dress, how you carry yourself, and note your attractiveness/confidence. I'm going to tell you not to worry about running up against a bank robber, pro football player, or MMA fighter most nights when you're out on the town.

Do what you do that earns you money. Unless you happen to have some flashy job, leave your work at work. Done.

"What do you do?"

1) "Whatever I want."

2) "What do you think I do?"

3) "Let's get out of here and I'll show you."

Or tell her generally what you do. It's just small talk.

"I hack the hackers."

BenjiDread · 2016-04-03T16:56:20+00:00

Personally nI don't think your choice of career nearly as important as how successful you are in it.

Most of her impression of you is going to be what you do outside of work. Are you confident, interesting, have cool hobbies? Solid frame and game? If so, you could be an inflatable sex doll tester by trade and still attract women.

Title	Genuine question for TRP: Does TRP instruct men that making a lot of money in CS is attractive to women in ANY way but as Beta Bux?
Author	Atlas_B_Shruggin
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Date	March 29, 2016 3:35 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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